四年没性爱到底错在谁 爱是流动的吗？

 aishangzenyangderen？yaobushiyouquelideshenglixueyuangu，danzaixingshangquechuxianlenanti，neijichunenggoupanduan，yidingshizaichuangjianhunyinguanxishangchuxianlenanti。neimeaishangtaderenyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishiliudongdedewenzhangba。

xing，shiduiguanliandeqipan。waiqudexing，shiduiwaiqudeguanliandeqipan。

nanrenlanxing，yibanshixiyinchongdongzaizuoguai，shiqidaizhanjuxuduo nvshi。zheileizhanjubianshiyizhongwaiqudeguanlian。

 yixienvxinglanxing，danbingbuxiangyoulanxingdequanguocheng。tamenneimezuo，changchangshiyongxinglaiquyuenanren。tamendanyounanrenhuikuaisuzouyuan，yinci yaoyongxingkuaisuxiyintamen，danzheirangnanrenzoudexunsu，yincitamengengjingchangdilanxing。zheiyeshiyizhongduiguanliandewaiqudeqipan。

 yeyouhenduoren，suishentijinengyiqiezhengchang，danquemeifayiqiezhengchangdixiangshouxing，aishiliudongde，xiangyaokaoshouyin、pulu、toukan、lingnvehuobeilingnvedengfangfazuodaoyiqiezhengchangxingshenghuomeifazuodaodegaochaodieqi。zheixieren，jiaruyongxinsikaoqihunyinguanxi，ninengfajue，yecunzaidewenti。

 yaobushiyouquelideshenglixueyuangu，danzaixingshangquechuxianlenanti，neijichunenggoupanduan，yidingshizaichuangjianhunyinguanxishangchuxianlenanti。

xuebudongchuangjianshenxinjiankangdehunyinguanxideren，jiumeifaxuehaoxiangyoushenxinjiankangdexingshenghuo。

 “huyisheng，mafannigaosuwo，woshibushigaihuijiaquzhongtian?”zaiguangzhoushixiangrikuihuaxinlifudaoguanlizhongxindiyicizuoxinlifudaoshi，sanshiwusuideashengduikangfushihushenzhimingquetichulezheigewenti。

 ashengshijiangxiren，putonggaozhongyibiyezhihoujiulaiguangzhoushichuangshijie，aishangzenyangderen？xianzaishiyijiajiagongchangdezhongcengguanligongzuorenyuan，aishiliudongde，yueshourusansiqianyuan，liangnianqianmailaifangwu，xiaoyoucunkuan，shiguxiangnageqiongshangoudexiangqinmenyanlidechenggongzhe。

shubuzhi，ashengduizheileirichangshenghuo，quemeiyouganjue。

 “zhunshigongzuo，zhunshixiabanle，meirixiangyizhinuli、famadexiaomayi，neiyangderichangshenghuo，worenweiqueshishisuoranwuwei。”ashengshuo，“dankanzhewodepengyoumen，fangfoxuduorenhenxiangyou，guodefengfuduocai，neiyangderichangshenghuojiujingyounaxiediqufeichangzhidekaixinni?”ta

 “guangzhoushiqueshirenao，qianhaozheng，wohundehaisuannenggou，danwoshiganjuebuhao。”tashuodao，“wojuedemailefangwu，haowuyiwennengmaigesansishiwanba，suihouhuijialebaoyidakuaishanpodi，zhilvhulvzhongtianzhonghua，zheicaijiushiwoxiangyaodeshenghuo。”

nantishi，qizialingguoduandizhitadetaoyuanzhilu。

 alingxiaoashengshisui，buaishuohua，yuanbenjiutaoyanchuruzhichangzhongfanzaderenjijiaowang，sinianqianhunhou，zailaogongdeguiquanxia，tacidiaogongzuozhongshuxinxueqijiatingfunv。

 “lejietadeqingkuangxia，tahaibuda，burongyijiejuerenjijiaowang，yizhibeirenqifu，woxintongta，zaihunhoujiuquantabubigongzuozhongle。”ashengshuo，“woshouyijinguansuanbushangduo，danhenjiesheng，liangrenguoshenghuomeishenmewenti。”

 dangxinliyishengrangashengxushuyixiatayufurendeguanlianshi，ashengmiaoshushuo：“dajiajiaoweiqinmiwujianba，meirixiabanlewodoushihuidiyishijianhuidaojia，lianggerenchangchangyiqikandianshi，taxiaizuozaiwotuishang。”

zaiwenxialai，ashengcouhedibiaoluleyigenanti：tayuqiziyousinianmeiyouzuoledonglexin。

 zheibushixingxingfenhuoxinggongnengdenanti，ashengshuo，qizichengzuodaotatuishang，huoshijiusuanjinjinjiandaoqizi，tadoushiyouhenyoukenengzaochengjiaoqiangdexingxingfen，keshi，tashuodao：“wobunengneimezuo，zheihuisunhaita，suoyiwowubibazijidebulizhiwangxiaya。”

“huisunhaita，zheidaibiaoshenmeyisini?”hushenzhiwenqi。

ashengchiyileyihuier，caizhizhiwuwuzhengzongchuzhenshiqingkuang：“wodanyouzishendeleaizibing。”

 yuanxian，hunhoumeiduojiu，tayouyicihezuijiujiu，heyigenvhaihulihutudifashenglexingxingwei。denglengjingxialaihou，tahouhuibuyi，shifenkuijiu。

 meiduojiu，tatingwenneinvhaihexuduo nanrendengguochuang，zheishitagangkaishidanyouzishenshifouhuizhanranhiv。jinguanciciwaiyuexingshijianzhong，tayonglebiyuntao，dantawangshangchahivdecailiaoshi，lejiebiyuntaoyebukeyibaifenzhibaidiquebaobuganranaizibing。zheishitagengweidanyou，yincizaiwangluoshangzhaolehenduodeyouguanhivdeneirong。taziwodiaokandishuo，rujinzishenquanshiyigebanquanweizhuanjiale。

 danyigebanquanweizhuanjiabingbukeyiquedingzishenshibushiganranlehiv，yincitazuizhonglaidaoyijiadayiyuanganlechayan，danshiyongdeshijiaming：“jiaruwanyizhenganranle，wokebuyuanrangtarenlejie。”yiyuanchayandejieguoshichengyinxing，danzheifenhaomeiqingchuashengduizishenhuanlehivdeyoulv。tadanyou，ruguojianyandannongcuoleni?huoshiruguohuayanyuansuiyixielegejieguoni?huoshi，ruguozheiyiyiyuanzhiyaozhuanqian，burongyiyongxinjianyanni……zongzhiashengxiangdaolexuduo yuanyin，doubukeyibaozheng zheizhangjianyandanbaifenzhibaikaopu。

 jiexiaqu，tayoulaidaojigeyiyuanzuojiancha，quanbudechayanjieguoquanshichengyinxing，keshiyiqieyijiayiyuandeyishidoubuyuanbaifenzhibaidiquedingashengburongyidehivhuodaishangaizibingdu。

 “huanjuhuashuo，zhenshiyouxiaodejieguoshi，woyiranyouqianfenzhiyihuowanfenzhiyidegailvdaishangaizibingdu。”ashengshuo，“jiranshineiyang，woziranyaochengdanzeren，bukeyiheqizizuoai，wanyichuanrantagaizenmeban?”

 danshi，zheileijuecebingbukeyiqingchutadexingxingfen。youyuyizhimeiyouheqizizuoai，yeyouyudanyouzishenyouhivermeiyouzhaoguobiedenvxing，erqietayeconglaibushouyin，jinyouyijing，zheidourangashengdexingxingfenyoushihoumingxiandaokongbudechengdu。

 zheigeshihou，tabianhuipinlemingjiaqiangduanlian，babulizhiyayiganzhu。chucizhiwai，tayihuidaojiajiuzhuangdeyouqilei，xiangqizifalaosaoshuo，gongzuoyalitaida，qidaitanenglejie。

 “yidingbukeyirangtalejie，woshijishangyeyouqixiang。”ashengshuo，“xingyundeshi，qizijinguannianqing，danneicengmiandebixufangfoyizhibingbushihenqiang，bingqieconglaibudiaonanwo，bubangwoshiya。”

“tingqilai，buzuoaidoushichuziyuduiqizidekaolvdao?”hushenzhiwen。

“queshi，shineiyang。”ashenghuiying。

“neima，buzuoai，duiniyounaxiehaochuni?”hushenzhiwen。

“zheiyounaxiehaochuni?chukaiyaowoyouqibushufuyiwai，nengyounaxiehaochuni?”ashengfanwendaoshuo。

“meiyouyidianyichu，shifoukeyishuo，chedishichufa?”hushenzhiwen。

“kendingshichufa!”ashenghuiyingshuo。

“sheizaichengfani?”hushenzhiwen。

ashengyixiazilengzhule，tatinglehaoyihuiershuo：“jiarushuoshichufa，neijinjinzijizaichengfaziji。”

hushenzhimeiyoushuohua，jinjinkanjianasheng。

 zixunchuyixiazipingjingxialai，youguoleyihuier，aishangtaderen,ashengcaiyouyudishuo：“wozuizhongyijiayiyuanzuoaizibingjianchashi，neiyishengshuo，wotashifanraozhichu，yinci tiyiwoyueni。xinbingdeyisishifoushuo，wopinlemingcaiyizishenyouhivbingyinerdanshifuqishenghuo，shishishangshiweilegenghaodichengfazijini?”