放不下的爱，与己不同的恋人是学习的对象

 fengkuangdeaiyoushenme？woyouyigetongxuemen，ganjuezishenmeishenmechongdong，duizheishijieguidingfeichangshao，tadeyigekoutouyushi“buzaihu”。neimeduinideaiyizhihenanjingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanfangbuxiadeaidewenzhangba。

 nanyibimiande，tayuyigeguidingxuduo denvhaiershuoqiletanlianai。zheiyinvhaieryouhenduoguzhideguiding，tacongbuyaoshuo“buzaihu”，eryizhinengmingquetichuyidaduiyuanyin，yibiaomingtadeguidingshiduomedeyouliyouju，bingqiejiarutadeguidingbubeikaolvdehua，tahuiganjuehentongchu。

 hendangrande，tamen2gezaiyiqidejieguoshi，yiqiedouyizheiyinvhaierdeguidingweibiaozhun，bulunshiyongcan、chulaiquwan、bujujiajujiajuhejiaoyoudeng，quanshizheiban。

 neiyangjiaowangyinianhou，tamenyouyuyijianzaidadeshierqilemaodun，tayaoneiyangzuo，ertayaoneibanzuo。yikaishimaodunbuda，lianggerendoushuonenggoushangyi，danzhenshilaidaoxuanzedeqingkuangxia，lianggerendouduizishendeguidinghenguzhi。

 neiyangjiaofenglehaoduogelianjihou，yitianyelitamenzaiduyinzheiyijianshierqimaodun。wozheigetongxuemenbujingyizhonghuiwanglelianggeren2nianduolaidexiangchuquanguocheng，chajuezijixinliyouyizhongkebeihemingxiandebuqingyuan，youyutafajue，jibenshangzaitamenshenghuozhongdemeiyigeyibufen，quanshizheiyinvhaierdeguidingzaizhanyouzhezhudaoxing，ertadeguidingdoubeihulvele。

 tabingbuzenghennvpengyou，zhongjiushitalaoshuo“buzaihu”de。danrujintamingbai，tabingbukeyizhenshibaozhengbuzaihu。fengkuangdeaiyoushenme？shishishang，meiyicitadeguidingqingshi，tadoushiyouyidiandianyuanhen，2nianlaixuduo guidingqingshi，jiuzanqilexuduo yuanhen。rujin，tawangwangduizheijianshiqingneimejianchibuxie，shiyouyutacongcibuyuan“buzaihu”xialaile。

 jiuzheigehuatitaolun，tahenvpengyoucuxizhangtanlejihui，quanguochenghentongchu，danzuizhonglianggerendougaoqingchu，tashitamendeyigekecheng。zaizheigekechengzhong，taxuexipeixundao，tayaoxiangtaxuexipeixun，yaozunzhongzijihenzhongyaodeguiding;tazexuexipeixundao，shidudishuo“buzaihu”。

 wojuede，fangbuxiadeai,zheiyejiushiwokeshangdezheiweinanxueshenghetanvpengyouenaibinghuxiangmaodundedadaolisuoshu。dajianeixinlidouqipanwanman，yinci feichangrongyitiaoxuanhezishenbuyiyangderen，zheiyidianzailianaizhongtebieshizaipubian。danlingwai，dajiaguannianshangyouduizishendeluojixinghenguzhi，lingwaidichuqitaluojixing，yinci hebuyiyangderenzaiyiqiyoufeichangrongyifashengzhengzhi。zheishihou，dajiabixuzuode，bianshixuehuifangxiaduizishenzishenguanlitixideguzhi，erdongxianglingyifangxuexipeixun。

 meiyigerendeshengmingshiyigelunhui，nibidinghuifajue，“buyaozaitongyigediqushuaidao2ci”shiyigebutaikenengdemeirirenwu，meiyigerenderenshengdaolu，bianshichixuzaitongyigediquyitongyizhongzitaishuaidaodeguocheng。

yiyangde，meiyigedajiazudexingmingyeshiyigelunhui。

duinideaiyizhihenanjing,yunshiwangwangrangwomenzheizhongxunhuan，gengshiweilegenghaodishiwomenhaiyoujihuigenjuzheiyikecheng。