被爱的人找个有钝感力的男人

 beiaideren，haozhangshijianyiqianjiukanledubianchunyide《dunganli》，danshijinqiyouyitiancaidianguangshihuoyiban，huranxianggaoqingchuyijianshiqing：woshenpangzheiminglaoxianshengbubianshijubeidunganlidedianxingxingma?neimeanquangandeaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbeiweideaidewenzhangba。

 dubianchunyishuodunganlishixiangduixingyubijiaomingansuoshuodeneilei“chihuan”，erchihuan，“bushishoudajiajibenchangshijushudesuiyi。”yizhaozheiyijieguo，womenjialaoxianshengzhenshisuiyidaoqifei。

 taconglaibuzitaomeiqu，xintaijiweipingwen。liruyouyiciwochulaiyongcan，tabangwotongdianhua，womeitingjian，tayebudaguo，zhifaguogeduanxiaoxi，genwoshuoruguoshitajiejiujitamentongdianhua。

 wohennanshou，meijietingdianhuayouhenduozhongduoyanghenyoukeneng，ruguowojiuhuihendanyou，shifoubeichezhuangleya，shifouhuipengdaohuaidanleya?yidinghuizaicida，tajingranbudanyou，bianshibuaiwo!

huidaojia，wonaodongda，duitahaoyidunwenhuajiaoyu，“wanyiwomeijietingdianhuashipengdaofengxianleni?”

tahenguaiyidifanwendao：“younaxiefengxian，nizheibushihaohaoma?”

“neimeworuguoyoufengxianni，nishifouhuihouhuimojimeibangwotongdianhuajiujiuwo?”

“danshinijiushimeishia!jiadingzheiyiyoushenmeyisi?”

别人彻底不接招。

bujinsixiangguanniandungan，tazaiqingganyedungan。wofaxianletadabufenshimeiyoushenmedujixindenanren。

 zuijinjinianwojingchangwaichu，youshishiquhebierentantaiben，youbeiaideren，shishitaolunchubanfaxingxinxiaoshuodeshiqing，mubiaoyounanyounv，quanshitabuzuishuxideren。tameiyiciquanshijiachesongzhifeijichang，lejiewoyunji，feijichangluodishilaidaobaogeanquanjiukeyile，qitade，niyusheiyongcan，yelishifouyigerenshui，wanyitanhailexianghuzhijiankanduiyanzenmebanzheileinanti，bierentongtongbudanyou。meiyiciquanshiwobalabadigentabaogao，shenyeshierdianchiguofanjitamentongdianhua，tahanzhedaheqianqingtingwoshuo，chixucui，“zaodianshuiba。”

 ruguoyoujiaojiyoujiuju，congbuwenjigefangmianhui，hesheichi，zhishuoyijushaohexie，zishenyigerenlaolaoshishijiexiaohaiqu。jibian shilaotongxuejuhuizheileigaofengxianshejiaomeitichangsuo，tayeshierbujian，youyicitaqulaijie，haoduogenanshenghezuile，yibangzuiguijinbaoqichechemenqinqiehanta：“meifu”，wohaipataxiaxiang，ganmangbiaoshushuotamenhezuile，tazhenjingziruodixiacheshihuishou。

 yeyouyiciwozhengzaixiaoshufangwangshangdiannaodazi，kandaotahuilai，miandaijinghuang，shouzuwucuodiguanbiwangyeyemian——zheishikanshangquduomedeyishenyigui，duomedexiangyoutouqing，guifandewaiyuzhengzhao——kebierenqueshishirandilikai，lianwenyijudexingquaihaoyemeiyou。huanweijiushiwo，haowuyiwenbukeyiraoguo，yidinghuizhuigenjiudiwengegaoqingchu。

 keshishishang，woshizaichaxuntaobaowanggoumaijilu，patakandaowozheigeyuetaoqianduo，danxucuihuizhijiezhengju。zhihouwoliangtidao，duitashuozhenshiqingkuang，yiqingchutadexinlichuangshang，tazijijingrandouwangjile。chenzhongyazaiwoxinzhongdeshiqing，daotaneibanjiubianchengfengqingyundan，lewuhenji。

 xinxiongkaikuodangranshihaoshier，danshiyoushiyinweiwofanmen。woxunwenta：“shiwoneimaxiangliangjiashaofuma?wokanshangqubingbushigongzuozuofengyouqizhengzhiba?”

taxiaopen：“nitexiangbuzhengpaiduiba?”

“bu，bu，”wozhenshijiejiebaba，“woshixiangzhengzhi，danshixiangjiniyizhaobuzhengpaideguifanlaidanyouwo。”

“kannijuededeshishahua?”——tahaibukaixinle，nikankantadoubawonvechengnaxielea。

 dubianchunyishuo，“zaizhuduodedunganlizhong，guanjianyiweizheshishuidehao。”tajiaozheileidunganliwei“shuimianzhilianggongzuonengli”，“tashiyiqiezhutihuodongheshenxinjiankangdejiben。”womenjialaoxianshengjingranlianzheileigongzuonenglidoushiyou。

 tashuimianhenhao，rumiankuai，qideyekuai，youshiyeliguanledengdajiazhengzhaowoliaotianni，tahuranbushuohuale——shuijuele。meishierdeqingkuangxiatanengshuigoushigezhongtou，jishile，shuisanlianggezhongtouyerengjiumeishenmegongzuoyali。gengkongbudeshi，tajingranhainengxiangdaxiangneiban“cunchu”shuimianzhiliang，yicishuigouyihou，nenggouhaozhangshijianjingchangaoye。

 xiangwozheileifeichangrongyishimianderen，duitajianzhixianmujidu。tahenwusi，shuoniruguoshuibuzhejuejiujiaoxingwo，womenyiqixianliao，danshiwozheibiangangjiangguomeiyiliangju，tayounaoqiaoyiwaihuizhougongdanlaidao。

womingbaiwotidaozheier，haowuyiwenyouxierenyaoshuo，taya，tashibuaini，yinci caihuineimeyumeiwuzhi，shierbujian。

 shuoqueshide，zijidouyiqiancaiyiguo，zheihundanshifoubuaiwoa。kezheixienianwozhongyukandongle，aishihaowuyiwendonglexin，guoduoguanjiandianshangdeguanai、tiexindouburonghushi，taqueshibianshineimeyigexingqing，“dungan”，bingbingbushizaiyazhizhurangzishenrenshouhejienayixieshi，zhishiqueshiganjuebuhao。

 tabingbushixiangxinziji，tashijianxintaziji，jianxinzijidetiaoxuan。tahuozaiyigezhongyudequanqiuzhong，chufeishiyoushifenzhunquedeehaolaikoumen，burantacaiburongyiyonghubianluanzaodecaixianglaijingdongzishenderichangshenghuo。

 tabuxihuanshuobagua，taoyanjiangtarendeshishifeifei，bingqiedoumeiyouzhangkongyu。beiweideai,shijishangwomenliangyouqibuyiyang，taxiaibazijidedongxizhenglidelilisuosuode，kaiqiyichu，yifuguadejingjingyoutiao，wudouchudechoutijulimianwaneikudoufenmenbieleifangdaofanggezhong，woyeyouqisuiyi，luansaiyitong，meiyiciquanshijiazhengayijiwozhengli，suihouwozaigaoluan。womenliangmaidongxiguanyejieranbutong，wohenxihuankaoliangzhisheng，yigexiatiannengmaisanwushitiaozhangqun，pingjunjiazaisanwubaishangxiaba，jinguanjiaqilaichongzumaijigezhimingpinpaile，kebianshixiaizheileibuduanfengkuanggouwudejuede，tazeshizhuanerjing，zunchongzhimingpinpai，feizhimingpinpaibuchuan，danmaiyijianshiyijian，nengchuanhaozhangshijian。yibanzheierzhongrenjihuquanshihoumianyizhongqiaobuqiqianmianyizhong，tayexutaoguo，changshiwenhuajiaoyuwoxiangtaxuexi，zhitanwoyouqinanchu，wufagengxingaizao。

 youyicitakanzhewochaidiaoyigetaobaodeyoubao，lezizideduitaxianbai，tazishuozihuashuo：“wodongdele，xiaimaipojiubianshinidekuaile，neizhinengyoudenini。”tabuqiangzhigengxingaizaowo，anquangandeai,wodaoyexiangyaoshangxitadetiaoxuanle，jinguanzuibianbuchengren，keshiwowaichuyounaxiezhongtedazhutihuodongdeqingkuangxiahuibatasongwodezheixiezhimingpinpaisuoyouwuzhuangshang，yongyuhuyouren。