恋爱33天,谨慎对待男人的自我

 lianaidesigejieduanyoushenmeni？weilegenghaodigulinanrendejingyejingshen，wubirangtadetouruganxinqingyuan。tabixubeibierenshangxihezhongshidejuede。zishen，shinanrenzhengshenghaoqiangdedongli;zishen，shinanrenkaituochuangxindedongli;zishen，shinanrenzaijianshenhuisuotaiqiyalingshixiangjinxingfenyaochanshengdedongli;zishen，yeshinanrenkenqiu、qiaoquhexiaofangdedongli;zishen，haishinanrenzhuiruqingaidedongli。neimelianai33tianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaidefazedewenzhangba。

 zheileibiaoshuhenyoukenengtingqilaifeichangrongyilejie，danbingburongyi：nanrenbixuyizhonggangjiandejuede。zheijiushitaqieerbushezhuixundeyuangu。jiaruniduitashuo，nicengjingliliugenanyou，zheibingmeishier，taburongyibeiqifeng。tayiranhuixiangnikaozhao，juebunengtaozhiyaoyao。nanrenshiburongyizhaobudaofangxiangde，tamenjinjin……

·“gaoqingchulingyigexingye。”

·“genggaizongtimubiao。”

·“zhaoxunlingyitiaofazhanfangxiang。”

·“tanxunxindediqu。”

 nanrencongburongyizhaobudaofangxiang。dantaburuyuanyanghangxingtanceyi，eryuanyanghangxingtanceyiyezhishishizai60qianmidebanjingdiqulinenghelishixingjiancemeirirenwu，zheiyidiquyiwaibianshitademangdianle。

 jiaruniyaorangtawangyou，jiugaosuta：“wojuedehenyoukenengyingdangwangzuobian。”lianaidesigejieduanyoushenmeni？zaiyigenanrendexinzhongzhong，tajuedezishendehaiyangjishuzhuanyedouyaogaoguoyigenvren。zheijiushitaduizishendesuoyoujieding，shijishang，tajimeiyounaxiefangmian，doumeiyougudingbudongdehangdao。

 “taibangle”zheisangezi，shiyiqienanrendeshendanmiaoyaoma?shide，zheizhendeshimeikaiyanxiao，nishizhongdouwuxurangtajianxinqitahua，yinci ，hebuchangchangyiyong。

 jiurangtazigaozida，zheicaijiushinideconghuizhichu。wangwangtiaoxuanzhuanghutu，bianshiweilegenghaodirangnanrenrenweishitazaizhangwozhudong。

让男人觉得是他在把握大局意识，那样他就会主动地做你要想他做的事，由于他老想在你的眼里维持一个君王的品牌形象。

 jiarutabiaoxiandejiyazhiyouwusi，neimaninengyizhouduitashuojihui——tashidajialianggerendezhuzaizhe。rangtajuedezishenshigaoyuyiqiede，shijiazhongdezhuzaizhe。tashichuankude，shinanren。caixiangyixia，sheizhongletaoni?

 wodehaopengyouannitejiulingjiaoleqizhongqiangda。tafanleyigebuzhengque，bazijihoumianyuanzishadiaoyitiaoshedeshiergaozhiletadexinyirennanpengyou。talikewenta：“nishizenmeshadiaozheiyitiaoshede?”yincitajiukankanertandixushutashizenyangyongyibadatieqiao“zhandou”de。zaitataotaobujuedixiangjinxushuzheicicankude“cansha”shi，tadelianbuliululewanquande、chedidejingju。nageyeli，tajiuwufaboqile。

 annitefanleyigebihui：jiaruzuoweinvshidenibiaoxiandexiangrenyuantaishan，tajiuhuiganjuezishenxiangannale。tazainishenbiandeqingkuangxia，ninaizhibubishasiyizhichuangchong。bubiqinzijiqichehuanluntai，naizhibubihuandengpao(wodejiemeimen，qingqianwanbuyaoneiyang)。

 yingduiyiqieyigerexuenaner，nibixurangtajuededaotashinanren，neiyangnicaikeyibawota。zheibingbudaibiaozheniyinggaisuishisuidigongshunnengjia。ruguonixiangtashuomingnijinxingle“xinlijiaoliang”deqingkuangxia，nixuyaolingwaimingji：tabixuwanchengtadezishen。nishijitamenbiaoxianzishendejiyu，huanshibanizijibiaoxiandexiangzhikelianchong?zheierzhezhijiandanshiyongyou tianchadibiede。nichedibuyongtacanyudediqu，youyixiahaoduogecengmian：

·判断能力。

·rongrupingshiderichangshenghuo。

·心态的平稳。

·xiangxinzishendeshiyongjiazhi。

·自尊心。

·详细的人格特质。

 lianai33tian,jiaruniyizhizaisuoshucengmianbiaoxianchubixuta，neimejiupululenideruanruokeqi。shubuzhi，nichedinenggoubiaoxianchunixuyaobingshangxitadenanziqigai。dangtajuedenishangxitadejianyi，huozhezhiaitadeqianghanquanshenjiroushi，tajiubeinisisidikongzhizhule。

如果你溫柔地考虑了他的自身，他就不容易用强势的方法角逐他的权利。

 jiaruniyaorangtaannideguidinglaikandaini，jiuyaozanyangtahaola，zheidanshiyigeqieshikexingdezhuanyonggongju。bubiyizhimaiyuan“niyiwangyizhibangwodaihualaide”。tadailainidemeiyishuhua，douyinggaishi“nijianguodezuipiaoliangdehua”。buyaobaoyuantadainichuqudebuzuduo。fanguolai，duitapeiniqudemeiyijiacanyindian，nibixuzantanbuyi，“jianzhitaibangle”，huozhe“taiqimiaole”。

 lianaidefaze:jiarutaxunwennizhiqianshibushilaiguozheigecanyindian，niganwanbuyaogaosuta——niciqiande2genanpengyoudoudainiquguozheier，bingqiedouzuodeshijiaoluodeneizhangfuyougediaodecanzhuo(chufeishinishizhongbuyuangentazaidaozheigecanyindian，nicainenggoubashiqingduitashuo)。