恋爱咨询：女人婚前一定要问的5个问题

 lianaizixunyoushenmani？henduorenjizhetaruhunyinshenghuoshengdian，renweiwanhunyihou，yiqiedoushihuiyoufantianfudidezhuanbian。danshijishang，niyijuexinglai，huifajuechukaiduoleyizhangzhishenmeyemeiyougenggai。neimelianaizhongderenyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaizhongdiandewenzhangba。

 hunyinshenghuobingbubidingshixingfudekaishi，jubaozai，yibufendadoushizhongguolihunlvzaoyidadao40%。huanjuhuashuo，niyunide2gehaoguimizhong，zuishaoyouyigerenhuiqudeliyidejidongchedengjizheng。taorumouyishehuixuejiadejiaofa，niyizhizailianaizhongdeqingkuang，bianshinijiehunhoudeshenghuodexianzhi。bingqiexuduo jiehunqianmeiyoujiejuehaodenantihefenqi，daojiehunhouhuiyulaiyuehua。yiner，jiaruyaoxiangyouzheyiduanxiangduixinglaogudehunyinshenghuo，nixuyaozaijiehunqianjiujingzhundingweihaolianggerenzhongjiandeguanlian，lianaizixunyoushenmani？gulianghaofengxianxing，zaijueceshibushiyaodaishangjiehunzuanjie。

 zheiliyouwugenanti，meiyigenantidoutixianlenidehunhoushenghuodejianglaifengxianxinghehenyoukenenghuizaochengdafenqidechongtudian。ziran，jibian nibutanzheizhongnanti，yebuhuiweihaiyiqiezhengchangderichangshenghuo，danzaiyingduijiazhonghehunyinshenghuozhongtedabuxingdeqingkuangxia，dajiadefenqihenkenenghuihuranbaofachuqu，bianchengsunhuaihunyinshenghuodezuikuihuoshou。jiarunizirenshiyigehaoyuner，richangshenghuoshizhongyifanfengshun，neimaninenghushizheiwugenantibuti。chucizhiwaijiarunizaoyiwanhun，tiyinibuyaowenzheizhongnanti。

jifenfangfa：meigeti100fen20fen，zonggongyibaifen。ruguonijuedezheigewentiwufawenchurukou，neimaji0fen。

这五个难题是：

1.“jiaruyemeiyoushengyugongneng，niyujiarennengjienawoneiyangdexifuerma?”

 bubirenweinanshengrangnijitamenshengxiaohaijiushiaizheni，zheixiezhuanheixinqiancongrenfanshoushangmaixifuerdenansheng，nikeyishuotazhenaitadema?tamenjinxingdeshitamendedongwubenneng，bingbushiniyaodeai。

 yinci ，zheigewentijiancedeshinanshengduinigerenmeilidegaoduzhongshishuiping。yigebashengyunkandefeichangzhongdenanshi，nitiaoxuantadeqingkuangxia，yingdangyaoshenzhongyixie。yaolejie，xuduo nanrenshibanvshichedidangzuoshengyunzhuanyonggongjukanlaide，yeyouyibufennanrenshibukeyijienaxiangshenbushengyunde。yijumoumenhuwangdui22088weinanwangmindediaoyanshujuxinxixianshixinxi，45%denanshengbukeyijienanvxingbushengyun。yongwangluobianjidehuashuo：“zaitamenlaikan，lianrenbujinshizishendeairen，haibixufujiashengyunzuoyong。jiarubukeyiwanchengfanyanhoudaidezuoyong，nvxingjiumeiyouzizhibianchengzishendelianren。”

 lianaizhongdian,ershijishang，nvshijiehunhouyinianbuyundejilvdadao5%，huanjuhuashuo，mei20gerenlibian，jiuhuiyouyigejifaxingbuyunbuyuzhengbingren。zheilianggejilvzhongdieqilai，mei40genvxingzhong，jiuyouyigehuiyouyubuyunzhengerbeiqiairenpaoxia。chucizhiwai，yeyouyixiaobufennvshi，huiyouyuyixiepaiyifanyingdeyuangubukeyichenggongyunqi。zheiyibufenrendouhaimeijirusuoshudeshujuxinxizhong。jiarunihenkenengyouyubuyunzhengerbeiliyi，neimazheigewentiniyinggaizaijiehunqiantizaokaolvdao。

 jiarunanshengjiandingbuyidihuiyingni：“bukeyishengmeishier，jiarenyouyiqienantiwojiejue，jiushiwoquni，bingbushitamenquni。”ninengjidaota100fen20fen。

 jiarunanrenshuo：“wobenrenshibuzaihude(dabufennianqingnanshengdoushihuineimeshuo)，huoxujiazhonghenyoukenenghuichuxianjianyi。”niyejiuyingdanggaoqingchu，tahenyoukenengguishuyu45%neiyibufenbukeyijienanvxingbushengyundenanshi。jiarunanshengzhuyaobiaoxianchuyouyudexintai，neimenijiuxuyaoxiangyixiangle。yigeduizisunhoudaikandefeichangzhongdenansheng，niliangdehunyinshenghuofengxianxinghuigenggaoyixie。zaizheier，ninengkantamendexintai，dechu0～9fendezhuoqingkaolvchengji。zheiyichengjibudanbaokuonizijibuyunzhengdefengxianxing，haibaokuohaizichushenghouyaowangduidajiahunyinshenghuodehuihuai，haibaokuotazaihunneichuguizaishengyunfeihunshengzinvdegailv。

 jiaruqitanantiquanshi100fen，weiyouzheidaotifafen，neimajini2gefangfancuoshi：yishinenggoukaolvdaoxianhuaiyunqijianwanhun，neiyangjiubuhuizaoyuhunhouwanyimeifashengyunerlihundenanti;ershijinliangyaoduosheng，zuiwubinanhaier。youyuneiyangdejiazhongduiernvgaoduzhongshishuipinghengao，bingqienanzunnvbeidehenyoukenengfeichangda。jiarudajiameiyoubanfayouzheertai，neimanidejiazhongbuyidinghuihenpingwen。shengbuchulainanhaiernidehunyinshenghuohuijiaoweifengxian。guliangxiazheiyifengxianxing，zaikaolvdaoxubuxuyaozaicihetazouxialai。

 2.lianaizhongderen,“jiarupengdaoqiangjianfan，nishiqidaiwoshisihanweizhenjie，huanshitingcongbianyubuhuishoudaodaliangsunhai?”(tianbunanti：“jiarunizhihouyouyigeguinv，jiaruyepengdaoxiangjinqingjing，nishiqidaitashisihanweizhenjie，huanshitingcongbianyubuhuishoudaodaliangsunhai?”)