恋爱潜规则,情侣之间如何才不吵架?

 wohaizaisiliaoli，lianaixuetang，jingchangjiedaodenantishi：“ruhedajiaqingganjiudanleni?”“weihejuedetayibushuoaiwoleni?”chukailianaihou，naozhongdanjianyibudaixie，nijingchangyoukouwuxindeyixiehuayezaisunhaizhedajiadeqinggane。neimelianaiqianguizeyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaishujidewenzhangba。

用“我”替代“你”

 wojiedaoxuduo siliao，fajuexuduozhengchaoquanshinenggoufangzhide。dajiadoulejie，zailiangrenjiaowangleyiduanshijianzhihou，huijindaosongxieqi。zaizheigeshihou，niyeburongyimeiyicipengmiandouhuazhuang，xinglaibushuayajiukeyichongzhelingyifangdaheqian，tiyazaiburongyiduozhelingyifang，tuoyifuyebuyuanquweishengjian，naizhidunmatongdounenggoukailemenhan：“ai，bangwodizhi!”cike，daliangrenburongyizhuyidaodebianshi，niduilingyifangjianghuadeyudiaoyehuiyuelaiyueguodusuiyi，xuduo duoyudezhengzhi，biancihougangkaishi。

 woyiqianzaimeiguodianshijulikanleyigexingshibianhulvshishuoguoyigehenquweidejianjie。tayuanbenjianghuahenchong，youyudaoqushilezhangfuyoukuyounao、shenzhibuqingdeguke，meiyicigoutongjiaoliudouhenjiannan，bidetameiyicibixudahou：“nitingdedonglemeiyou?jiarunixuyaowobangnidadeyingjiufenan，niwubi……”lianaixuetang，suihou，gukemeitianhetazhengchao。talingdaoshigeshifenyougongzuojingyandelaotouer，tajinjinbazunchenglveweihuanleyixia，jiuyuelaiyuefeichangbang。lirutaba“”huanwei”，ba“jiarunixuyaowobangnidadeyingjiufenan，niwubi……”huanwei“dajiatexiangdadeyingzheiyijiufenan，keshizuixianwoxuyaonibangwoxiangqi……”bianshijinkenengbahualide“ni”zihuanwei“wo”zi。woyechangshigenwonanpengyouyongleyixia，shijixiaoguohenhao。

 laidaoganqingsongxieqi，shidefangshi，bianshidaodaiyixia，badajiadeguanliantuiyitui。jiarufanhuiganglejiemeiduojiuhuoshigangxiangchumeiduojiudeqingkuangxia，nikendingbuhuinachudianhuabianshuo：“×××，niyizhizaigansha?”ninengshuo：“×××,woyebuzhidaorujinshifouhuidaraoni。”

 neima，congjintiankaishi，changshibaquanbuyong“ni”zikaishidehua，huanyigejiaofa，bianwei“wo”zi。jiarumeiduankaishibianshi“ni”，queshixiangxiangxiajiemian，fangfoyouyigerenyongshouzhiyizhizhixiangni，nizijiyehuihenbugaoxing。

“niweishenmexinqingyumen?”

“xiangyaozhidao，naxieshiqingjinibugaoxing?”

“nicuole，zheijianshiqingbutaikenengneiyang。”

“woyebuzhidaoshifouwojiuyonglebuyiyangfangshi，neiyangzuofangfobuhaoe。”

nimeibiyaolaoshicuiwo，ciciwobuxiangwandao。”

“fangxin，wojintianhuifenwailiuyishijian”

“bingbushigennijiangguobubifangneimahantangliangma?”

lianaishujiyounaxieni？“worenweiyoudianerguotian，shifouyouyutaixiangwo，zhufandeqingkuangxiazoushenle?”

“niyoumeiyounongcuo，zenmekenenghuishizheigeyisi?”

“woyebuzhidaoshifouwolejiebudui，niyaobiaoshudeshi……zheigeyisiduibudui?”

“jinriniyidingdesongwomamadaofeijichang。”

“wohenbufangbian，jinribaituonisongwomamadaofeijichangla。shangpin，younizhenhao。”

 lianaiqianguize,zijineiyangshiguozhihou，budantoubuhunle，yanbuyongle，yikouqihainengpaliuloule。bingbushila，nanpengyoubudanlediandianqujiwobanshi，bingqiexintaifeichanghao，lianggerenyebuhuiyouyujianghuachongerchaobubiyaodejiale。youyujiaoshizijishigelangui，languijiuyidingyaopeidatianzuichuncaikeyizaizheishijiehaohaodicunhuo。yinci ，xiaohuobanmen、jiemeimen，changshiba“ni”duohuancheng“wo”，kanyixiadajiashifouhuijiaowangdegengweikaixin。