爱哭的我,“出城”的女人都懒得“回城”？

 hulianwangshangcengyouyipiantiezihenre：#zuoweiyimingsanshiwusuimeijiadenvxing，kanguoxuduoshenbianrendehunyinqingkuang，zhujianbuneimaxinjile#yinchulaichengqianshangwankafukachengbaorenduihunyinshenghuodezaicisisuo。dabufenbeihunyinshenghuosuokundenvxingyingdangdouxiangguo，tangruolihunzhihou，zishenderichangshenghuoshifouhuigenghao?zheiyitiezilijiuhuiyouxuduo lihunnvrenzaixushutamendemeihaoshenghuo。bulunshitiaoxuandanshenhuanshizaicidunzaihunyinshenghuoli，richangshenghuodezidehuanlecaisuanshinvrenyishengzhuiqiuwanmeidemudi。xiangxinni，quanbushi，dounengsuoyounaxia!neimeaikuderenbuyidingliuleiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaikudewodewenzhangba。

城里的想象已毁灭，出城女人不想回程

wangmin“hongguoguo”yiliyisannianle，qinrenhepenyoujiqireqingdibangtazhangluozheerhunmubiao，danshi，tadoujujuele。

 “shiquhunyinshenghuo，wozhishiyibugenmouyinanshengyiqishenghuo，erbushishiqurichangshenghuo。wowuxujiangdabadeshijianyongzaibutingdejiawuhuoshang，wuxuzaititawulunhaizijiaoyuerxiaojixintai。ziran，yebuhuiyinmileluerbeizuozhefuzhujiashangdetachizedepengtougoumian，‘baiduditudaohang’dexiangshenggengdaiciqiejishuzhuanye……wobuzaitiaoxuanercihunyinshenghuo，bingbushi‘yichaobeisheyao，shinianpajingsheng’，zhishibaituohunyinshenghuo，wozhaodaolegengqiangdeshenghuofangshi，fajueledeziji。”

网民“天不亮就醒来”则表明：

 “liyi5nian，qianrenlaogonghouhuile，meishiertouhuaisongbao，qidaizaihun，henbunenglianqingmingshijiedoubangwosongli，gezhonggeyangquyue。youqishimingchaanfangfajuewobingmeiyouxinnanpengyouyihou，jiqiquexinwoshizaidengta。taquanbudeqingshangzhishangdouhaizhiliuzaiyuandibudong，danshi，woyibuzaishinageyizinvelaiwanhuihunyindenvxingle。wolaiguoxuduo diqu，zaishuzhongheshijizhongjiejiaolexuduo bizishenchenggongderen，womingbaileshenmejiaoxingfudeshenghuo。yiner，wobuxiangfanhuihunyinshenghuonatiaofaweidelaodaoshangqu。”

 rutongwangmin“yigexingqishousanjin”shuode，aikudewo,zaidanshendeshenghuoli，tazhujiangaoqingchu，liangzhezhijianjiayigenanren，bibushangbazijihuochu“nvhanzhi”。zheihuayichu，wangminmenjingxianghuiying。gengyouwangminhuizongchu：“yigenvrendeqingkuangzenmeyang，dequegenhunyinshenghuomeiyouhendaguanlian。”

日常生活得优劣与围城内外不相干

 mouzhuminghunyinjieshaosuodezerenrenganleyigediaoyan，youguanshujuxinxixianshixinxi：erlingyisinian，daozheigehunyinjieshaosuobeiandelihunnanshigong844ming，erlihunnvshijin121ming，zaiqizhongyeyouhaodiannvshishibabamamatidaiqilaibeiande。diaoyandejieguolingzheimingnanshizerenrenewantanxi：

 dabufenlihunnantiaoxuanerhundemudishifenjuti，zuixianshixingdebixu，cizhishirichangshenghuodebixu，bixuyouxierenxiyifuzhufan，naxiazheizhongjichudecunhuoyaoqiu。danshiliyinvdeguidingquechaozhejingshencengmiantuokuan，rulingyifangyounaxiexihao、pingchangduxienaben、shibushixihaojianshenyundong、qinrendejiankangqingkuangzenyangdeng。zaiqizhongyiweilihunnvshideguandianhenjuxiangzhengxing：“diyicihunyinshenghuojingchangzhuzhonglingyifangdejingjifazhanbiaozhun，daizhenshizouruhunyinshenghuocaizhidao，jinyouzhaoyigeyoulianghaodexiguanhaohanyangderen，nicaikeyihaohaoguorizi。jiaruoerhun，yidingdaibiaozhechaoguoguoqudehunyinshenghuo，rangzishenguoshangmianyoupinzhiderichangshenghuo，buran，haibibushangbuxiangjiehun。”gaizerenrencengdiaochaguohaojigewoguodeleisizuzhi，zhenduineiyangdezhuanbian，zheimingzerenrenjiqigaoxingdibiaoming：shixianvshiduihunyinshenghuodeguidingyulaiyugenguojixingduijiele，gengzhongshixianghuxingquaihaoshangdelianjie，erbushijingjifazhanshangde“jiefujipin”。

 zaineiyangdeshujuxinxishenhou，youxuduonanshengzhanchuqu，jiqiqifendibiaoming：dajiazhuiqiuwanmeilequtouyuan，bazijixiuliancheng“nvhanzhi”。nandaoshuonvxingjiumeiyoushenglixuyao?yehuaqishuidiangongchengzuobianqihuaidiao，nandaoshuoniyejiubuqipanyishuangnanxingdeshou?guonianhuoguojie，denghuowanjia，niyejiuburongyigugaozixu?guanjiandeshi，xiaohai“beidanqinjiating”le，xingqingfazhanqushipianle，guangnizijiguodejingcaifenchengyouyongchu?

殊不知，众多女士网民一招制敌的拿下了全部难题。

 youguanshenglixueguidingzheiyishuo，youxierenzhiyanbuhuidibiaoming，buhunzhuyibuyiweizhemeiyouxinghuoban，jishimeiyoushihede、anquanxingdexinghuoban，yeyouqingquyongpindian。

 shuodaojiazhongdegezhonggeyangyingjiansheshihuaidiaogaizenmeban?dahuoerdefanyingyeshichuhuyiliao。wangmin“qiangweihuadechao”shuo：“woyizhizaihunyinshenghuolideqingkuangxia，jiazhongdezilaishuiguandaoyehuaiguo，nagehuanshiwolaogongdelikenan，xiushixiule，danquanbuxishoujianrutonglijingledizhenzaihai，quanbudezhuanyonggongjuhefeishuidouliudaoneibian。bierenzhichengdanxiu，suihoujiuqiaozheerlangtuizuozaishafashangdenghoujingyang。lihunzhihou，ketingxidingdenghuaiguo，zuobianqilouguo，wangshangbaiduyixia，zhaolaijishuzhuanyeweixiugongzuorenyuan，xiudewenwende，linxinghaibadamenkoudesuliaodaijishaoxialoutile。wofandezheweiyiliangbaiyuanjiukeyinaxiadeshiergenyigenanrenjiangjiu、yingduiyibeizima?”

 erguonianhuoguojiedeluoji，xuduo nvxingyeshiliyitiebadizhanxianlezishenbujiuduguodezheiyixinchunjiajie。youdequlvxing，youde“zhai”zaijialibeishuzheiyiniandundeshu，youdedaizhulaomahexiaohaibadourankongxiadecheng，congnanlaidaobei、congbeilaidaohei……“jishiguonianhuoguojieyoushihouhuichujingshangqing，yejinjinyishunjiandemishi。zhongjiuyinianyou365tian，guojiafadingjiarijinjinjishaoshu，dabufenshenghuohuanshiguangcaiduomude。”tashiwangmin“meitiankanbudaotiantianjian”dehuizong。

 shuodaoliyijiatingduixiaohaideweihai，aikuderenbuyidingliulei,xuduo nvshidejianghuashi：zhongguoshijiatingfuqindeaidabufenjinjingebaifang，yulaiyuduodeshilizhengshi，bumeimanhunyinbudanduifufubicishibufuzerende，bingqieyizhuangmeiyouhuanleketandehunyinshenghuoduihaizichengzhangyeshiyizhongqizha。linweibujudeliyizuishaohainenggoujiaohuixiaohaixuanze、buruanruojiqidangdandedanliang。

 buguanweichengneiwai，dajiazhibuguofenbietiaoxuanyizhonggengweiheshizishendeshenghuoxiguan，nenggouhuodegengqianggengziyoudeshenghuo。aikuderen,meiyigerenlijingbuyiyang，zhenduihunyinshenghuodeganshoubiranhaosikanhamulaiteyiyang，qianwangangai，chedibuyiyang。