情感沙龙之明白这些恋爱事，让他更爱你！

 qingganwanhuizenmezuoni？tanlianaishigengububiandehuatitaolun，danzailianaizhongdouhuiyoubianhuanmocedezhuangkuang，yinweijiemeimendexingqingcunyouchabie，guduiganqingdelejieyegeyoubutong，zheidangrandaozhimeiyigerendoushiyouzishendeduiganqingbuyiyangdexintai。danlinxijiaoshihenxianggaosunideshi：tanlianaiqueshibukeyitaiwujuwushu，yixietanlianaifangfashibixubiaozhunde，burankenengrangnideaiqingyundongguijipianyizishenyaoxiangdefangwei……neimeqingganshalongyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanqinggansanwenba。

 zaibenwenzhong，wojiangdaizhuzhuweiyiqixuexizheizhong：ronghezuijinxinjianjiqinvhaimenzixunpinlvjiaogao，qiefenqidianzhuyaobiaoxianshifentuxiandehaoduogetanlianaimangdian，yejiushishuolianaizhongdeyixiebiaozhun，qidainengxiezhunideaiqinggengweijizhi!

女孩恋爱法则一：学好投入

 zongyouxietuxiandezhuyaobiaoxian，zaiqizhonghenlingnanhaiziwukenaihe，lingwaigengweihainiganqing，neibianshibuyuanyitouru。henyoukenengjiandaozheiershiniyidinghuiqingqingdiyixiao，juedezishenzaiganqingzhongzuodechongzule。

 danwoqueshitexiangjiniduofanwendaozishenjici：zaizheiliduanganqingzhong，niduizishensuotourude，qingganwanhuizenmezuoni？queshijuededaowukuiyuxinma?

 yinweizaoshouhanguodianshijuhewangwendeweihai，guoduodenvshiaiqingguannianzaoshouyidingdechongjixing，zheileichongjixingzaiyidingshuipingshangshibujiankangde，youyuyixiezhongleidenvshihuijuedezishendefengcaichongzuzhichengdianzheiyiduanganqing，yinci yagenbuyongguanxinnanpengyoudetihui，yewuxuruheyixinyiyidetouru。danganqingqueshibushizheiyang，nibushiganqingdeguanlizhongxin，dajia2geyouxiurencaishi，xuehaotouru，xiangyaotouru，caikeyirangzishenzaiganqingzhongzhanyouzhezhongyaoyingxiangli。

女孩恋爱法则二：并不一定的事都牵涉到有多爱你

 lianaizhongdenvhaichangchangshuo“niyouwanglewoshisheishuoguodemoumoumoujuhua/niyagenmeijilaowobutaixihuanchixx/nimeijijilianxiwo，zishenxianshuijuele……niyagenjiubuaiwo!”

 zhengxiangyouzheganqingchongjixingdenvhai，feichangrongyibaganqingzhongdeyiqieshixiangdoushenggaodao“youduoaizishen”dechengdu，danjiniguohuanweisikaoyixiama?xuduo shiertaiguodukeqiu，zhiyourangnanshiyuelaiyueshenxinpibei，bingqiebaquanbudeshierdoushenggaodaoganqingdegaokuanbi，shijishangyehenhaoxiaode，xixinxiangyixiangnandaoshuobushima?

女孩恋爱法则三：别盲目攀比男朋友

 feichangrongyimangmupanbi，zheibushidanchunxingnvshixiangyaozuodeshier，shirendoushihuiyouzheileixinlizhuangtai;danzaiganqingzhongtaiguodemangmupanbiairen，tongchangshixuduo nvshixiangyaozuodeshier。

 mangmupanbidaoshibuzaihu，zaizishendezimeiyanqianxingaoqiao，xiangyaobazijinanpengyouwujindebianda，tashixurongbadezhuyaobiaoxian，danyebuhuiduiganqingyouyingxiang。keruguoniqueshibazheigemangmupanbiluozaixinlingshenchu，huibudulidebatarennanpengyoudeyoudianhezishennanpengyoudequedianxiangduixingbi，zaibizhaozhongjiandangranhuizaochengbuyukuaidexinli，yizhiyubuduandizeguai。

 dannidezeguaiyoushenmezuoyongni?genghekuangzheileishitashenganmishi，naizhiduiganqingqueshizixinxindeshierqueshibixuzuoma?sheidoushihuibazijinanyouchusedeyimianzhuyaobiaoxianchuqu，zaiweixinpengyouquan、shineikongjian、xinlangweibozhong，nidehaoguimizhixiangyaoshaixingfuerbupuluquedianmian，yinci shizhongbiebeibierenpianmianxingsuoweihai，nidenanpengyoushirenshijianduyiwuerde，jirannitiaoxuan，neimejiudaixiehenheshini，biecaiyizishendejuece。

女孩恋爱法则四：学好致歉

zaiganqingchuxiannanti，dangdajialiangrenzhengchaozhihou，sheidiyigejijidixiatou?

 zainideyishizhong，yidingzaixiangnantidegenbenyuanyinchuzaiwulunchuzaisheideshenshang，douliyingnanhaizijijidixiatou，youyuzishenqingmianbo，zishenshinvhai，bukeyidiyigezhiqian……kezheishinalideyaoqiu?nimiantian，niaimianzi，nibuyuanyizhiqian，neimenixiangguotadetihuima?chuxiannantizhengzhi，shijishangbingbuyidingweihaiganqing，youyudangdajiachulimaodunyihou，neijiangzhengshizaidajiaganqingzhongnantiyuelaiyuedi……

danwulunsheizhandadaoli，douyoutawanquandebayiwudanfu，nijuedenantihuiyuelaiyuedi，huanshiyanzangdenantiyulaiyuduoni?

女孩恋爱法则五：他并不是负面情绪吸收器

 qingganshalong,xiangxianghuqingtu，shilianaizhongnanhaihenvhaixiangyaozuodeshier，zheinengxiezhuxianghugengshencengcidechupeng，yeshixinyuxinjiejindefangfa。keyixienvhaiqingbuqingchu“qingtu”he“jiangfumianqingxusuoyoudiujita”erzhezhijiandechabie，lveweiyoudianerburuyideshierjiudatukushui，dianjizhebaquanbudeshiersuoyoutuiweizijinanpengyou，shitaxiezhuzishenchuli。quebuzhidaozheileifumianqingxukenengweihaitadeqingxu，genghuiweihaidajialiangrendeganqingqingkuang。

qingtu，haiyaoxuehaotiaoxuan。

女孩恋爱法则六：别随便说提出分手

——woyuanshuotichufenshou，danwoyoubingbushiqueshigentatichufenshou，nandaoshuozheiyounaxienantima?

 qinggansanwen,duizheileiyishi，wogengxiangshuo：nandaoshuozheinantibingbushifeichangdama?yong“tichufenshou”laiweixienanrendegerenxingweishihenyumeide，nijuedehenyouxiao，nengzuodaozishenyaoxiangdemudi，danzuihoupinchangdaokuguodezhiyoushizishen。