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ToLadies

•hetababamamazaiyiqishi•

>jiaofatadebabamama“dabo”、“dajie”，chufeishitamenxiwangnijiaofatamendutedejiaofa。

 >wuluntadebabamamazenmejiang、ruhezuo，babamamadoushihuiheerzilizaiyitiaoqianxianshang，yinerbubixiangtamenmaiyuantamendedaerzi。

>tadebabamamahenkenengbinidaxuduo ，bubijixiwangyutamenjiniduanchadaoshui，nixuyaojijibangzhu。

 >aiyigerendeliyouyounaxie？bubijuedetadebabamamayunidejiazhiguanniantongyang，bubizuochurangtamenbukaixindepingjia。

 >tadebabamamahenyoukenengyaoxiangduinishuotamendegerenaihao，tamenyiwangdexiaogushi，zuoyigelingtingzhe。jilitamenxushuzishendexiaogushi。

>yizhiyizhexie，chufeishitamenxianbaxietuole。

>meijingrongxu，buyaozaiwuzilihuanglaihuangqu，bubiruqintamendegerenchengchi。

>zaitadebabamamayanqianbubiyunidetataiqinmi。

>duitashuodebabamamatamenyangleyigehaoerzi，zirannizhendeshineiyangjuedede。

>gaozhitamenniqidaixunsuzaikandaotamen。

togentlemen

•hetababamamazaiyiqishi•

>jiaofatadebabamama“dabo”、“dajie”，chufeishitamenxiwangnijiaofatamendutedejiaofa。

 >jiarulingyifangbabamamashuozishenguinvduomeduomebutinghua，haijidezheijinjinketaohua，nixuyaobuzaibianbolingyifangbabamamajianjiedejibenshangbiaoshunidejianjie“ninshuodezheixieworenweihaitingtaorenxihuande，worenweitajiushiwopengdaodeshidexiaoguniang”。

 >tadebabamamadangranhuizhaodaini，bubiqiaozheerlangtuishuoganxie，zhishiketaoyixiakanshibushibixubangzhu(yibanshiwuxude)，haijidejiewushiyaoliangshou，suihouzhenxinchengyishuoganxie(buguanjihuidouhenshao)。

 >tababamamahenyoukenenghuijinisuiyiyidian，jiugenzaizijijiayiyang，jiarunijianxinbingrenhuoyibeizi，neimenibianshigeshagua。

 >zaitadebabamamayanqianbubishuozanghuajicuhualeidekoutouyu，dangwendaonidelingdaopengyoushi，haijidejinkenengkuazannidezheizhongpengyou，shuozhouweirendeshuoxianhuazhiyouyiweizhenishigeaizhizemeiqigaideren。

 >zaiduishiqingzuopingjiadeqingkuangxiayaodangxin，quanqiushibudade，nizenmezhidaoniyijingzhizederenshifoubierendeyuanchubiaoqin?

 >tadebabamamahuishifenguanxinnidegeleishenghuoguanjiandian，haijidebubiyanfan，chengzhieryoubaoliudihuiying。lirulingyifangxunwennijiujingzenyang?nikeyiheyijinzheishibingbuyidingshiyoushi，sheiyebuyuanguinvgenyigezuiguizaiyiqi，shuo“zhiyouheyidiandian”jiukeyile，biegenyiju“danshirujinhaimeirenkeyibawoguandao”neiyanghaowujiazhidehua。

>bubisuibian“paiqiguan”。

>jiaruyoujiaoqi，yidingxiangbanfachuli，tamuqinkaiqichuanghushuo“zhenrea”huoxubingbuyiweizhefangjianhenre。

 >dangtababamamawendaonidebabamamashi，jinkenengrushihuiying，bubimanbaoyebubifukua，tamenzaozhongwanhuilejieshiqingde。

 >dangtababamamawendaodajiashizenmelejiede，zenmequdaoyiqide，ziranzheiyibanbenhaotamenhuoxucongguinvshijiaotingjianguo，keshinihaijideqianwanbieyixiazitiaodaolanmandeaiqingxiaogushibanbenhao，jinkenengkanqilaijiupaiyixie，buyaoshuonijiandaotachaoduanqunxiaxianzhangdetuiyiyanyebuzhunbeihulveneiyangdehua，yaohaijidebiaoshunishibeitamenguinvdebenzhisuoxiyinzhu，erbushiwaizai。

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