怎么爱?挑老公的黄金原则

 zenmeai？hunyinshenghuodejichulaiziliangrendeqinggan，ertanlianaibianshiwanchengzheiyizongtimubiaodequanguocheng。tangruodajiatiaoxuanleyigebuyidetanlianaimubiao，bujinhuiweihaidaodajiazhihoudetanlianaihefuqiguanxi，lingwai，yehenyoukenenghuimanyandaodaodajiayishengdexingfukuaile。neimezenmehuiaishangleta?aishangtadebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanzenmehuiaishangletadewenzhangba。

zaitiaoxuantanlianaimubiaoshi，yaoliuyixialiebiaozhun：

第一：挑选一个能给你掏钱的男人

 yigenengjinitaoqiandenanren，biaomingtashizhenxinshiyixihuannide。henduonvshengdouxihuanzhaoyigefuyoudenanrenchuduixiang，shijishangzheibuyidingshihaoshier，huoxunibuguoshilingyifangshoujiyouxidemubiao，yinci ，dajiazhaonanyoushi，yaozhaozheixiexinganqingyuantaoqiandenanren，zenmeai？dantabuyidingwubishishifenfuyouderen(ziran，yitiandaowanweiqianfanchoude、queyishaoshideyebuhao，neileinanrenyagenjiumeiyoulianaidetiaojian)，youyu，tanengjinitaoqian，biaomingshizhenxinshiyixihuanni，neimadajiawanhunbingbaitouxielaoyishengdegailvjiushifengao。

第二：挑选门不当户不对的男孩儿来谈恋爱

 xiaodengdenanyoubizishenjiatingtiaojianchalehenduo，keshitabuguanbugubabamamadizhi，yulingyifangtanlianaile。tanlianaishi，tazaizhengzhishangweilingyifangtouruleguoduo，jieguozaizuizhongwanhunshi，yinbicibabamamaxiyandejingjifazhanfenpeishangmeiyoudachengyizhijianyi，zaocheng bicifenshou。

 menyaodang，huyaodui。shijishangzheijuhuabaquanbudedouguinale。laozuxiandehuajianjiejujuchuoxin。hehehe，nianqingshihenduorenbuqingchu，juedetashixiache，zhihoucuobailijingduolecaijianxin。ziranhuanjingzhujiurenma!menbushan，hubudui，dangranyejiubushiyiluren。

 ziran，dajiayingdanghezishenwenpingfeichangderenchuduixiang，bukeyidajiagaoxiao，tazhongxiaoxue，yaoneiyangdehua，zhihoujiumeishenmegongtonghuati。zheibushiqiaobuqizheixiewenpingdideren，keshiyoudeqingkuangxiatamendesiweimoshibianshigenwomenbuyiyang，xuduo hualejiedeyehedajiaxiangchashenyuan。biaoshudoumeiyouyong，tahuanshiyongtadesiweimoshijianghua，shizhongshangbushanggaishangdejieti。

第三：不必与太本份的男人处对象

 cengkanleneiyangyigexiaohua：qinglvshuiyigewuzi，nvdehualegenxian：guoxiandeshiyeshou!diertianxinglaishi，fajuenandequeshiweiguoxian。nvdehenhendidaguonandeyibazhang：nilianyeshoudoubibushang!hehehe，laikantaibenfendenanrenhaiyaoxiakele。

 benfendenanrenshiweiyizhongxinxinerhuo，tamenzhizuohaozijiyingdangzuodeshi，erbushizishenxianggandeshi。danfanbenfendenanrendoushihuiyouguoduodejielvqinggui，niruoaideshenle，tahuishiniqichu;niruoaideqianle，lianggerendaonenggouqianzaiyichu，jinjin，neiyangdeganqingbingbushifasebianshilewushengqu。

 ciwai，benfendenanrenyizourugongsibangongshibiankaishigongzuo，rutongyitaiyizijintouruqianbidejiejiyouxiji，duanqineichaodongnengdichongfenfahuizhe。jiaruzheitaijiejiyouxijihuranzhongzhile，neimayidingshiyimeijiaoruanruodeqianbicuotouguojinlai。

 zenmehuiaishangleta？danqie、pamafan、duozaiqiangjiaodenanrenzongshiyinlailingdaoganbutongshimendehushi，jishihuijiyuyixielianmin，yejuebunengyouxierenzaititazijintouruqianbile。nvxingduiguodubenfendenanren，suifangyibaiershigexin，danzongganjueguoduxinqigao，ernvxingdaduoshuxihuannanrenweirichangshenghuozengjiadaliangdereqing。jinguannvxingdequeqidaimeiyijianshidouyangeanzhaozou，shenghuoandingbingqieshufu，dannvxingyexiangyaoyoushihou“reqing”yixia。

第四：不必与女强人处对象

 gongzuoshiyigezhenshidejizhijiazhongdeguanjianyuansu，nanrenyingdangjubeizerenxin，neiyangcaikeyirangqinrenderichangshenghuohuodeqiangyoulidequebao。youzerenxindenanrenbudongzhangxiwang，buchaoqinmuchu，yixinyiyishuanzaigongzuozhong，kanjianjiuxintong，dianjizhejiuxinyi。

keshi，jiarutashinvqiangren，dajiahuanshiyaoxiaoxindian，youyuhunhou，tadewentiyehenda。

 zenmehuiaishangleta?takoumendibuyuanpeizhenizouliangbudamalu，zuoshuoyoushuoshitapeizheniguangjiequezuiduogezaidaxingshangchangwaideshuyinxiadenghou。gengzhongyaodeshitadangwoxingwosu，jiazhongyitanzishiquansairangni，jiaonilaoliujiaonifan。