爱的语言有哪些呢？幸福异地恋的完美解决方案

aidoushiduidema？yiguolianzaihenduorenyanliyizhijuedelaidaojuedidemanxingduyao，jiujingdajiayingbuyinggaijianxinyiguolian，xubuxuyaozaiciweichiyidilian，waidiganqinghuichuxianhaojieguoma?niunanjiaoni6zhaojinidewaidiganqingyibukuwei，shidajiadeganqingshengwen。neimeaideyonghengyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideyuyandewenzhangba。

yunyingyiduantanlianaizaoyichongzulingrenshenxinpibeile，hekuangdanglianggerenjianjuzheduoshaogonglidejianju，huoshishiyigesheng，yaobushiyipianshenhai。danqudechenggongdeyiguoliandequecunyouzhe。xialiezheizhongjiaonizhangwomeiyigejiyu，jinideyiguolian“zhangminghexingsheng”。

1.最先要弄搞清楚一些很重要的难题，进而更清楚地了解大家两个人的关联。

yongxiezhuanyeshuyulaijiedingyixiadajiadeguanlianba，zhishishixiangyoushihouyouhui?huozhechangchangpengmian?qinglv?huoshishiyaodingqinle。zhenduiziranyishendehundan，laijiedingyixiashibushinigedushenzhuyizheni。huiyingzheizhongnantidequeyoujiannanyounankan，danshizheiqueshihuimianchuniyongwuzhijindetoutonghewuhui。liru：“jiaruwomendeguanxigengjinyibu，ninengkaolvdaobanxinjiama?”huozhe：“niyaocongwomendeguanxizhonghuodeshenme?”biaomingnidezuizhongmubiaohehexinlinianhuirangliangrenweilegenghaodizheizhongerxianghuyunyingxialai。

2.统一合作，蔑视间距。

henzhongyaodeyidian，zuoweiyiduikelingdewaidilianren，chukaitongdianhuadajiahaiyingdangyiqizuoxieqitashi。zhangqixingtongdianhuashifouhenwuliao?shizheyixiebiedefangshidehezuoba。huiguotoulai，feiwaidideqinglvjuebunenghuaxuduo deshijianqutongdianhua，zhishiyiqiquzhaoxieshenmeshiqingzuo。dajiahaiyaoshizhezheneiyangzuo，jinkenengzhaodiannenggouyiqizuodeshier，lingwaikanyixiayiyangdedianshijihuoyingpian。xiwangyigeyouguanhezuozhutihuodongdexinxiangmumingxima?

3.无论怎样，每日都沟通交流。

aideyuyan,erqiejinliangdeduoyixieba。suirandajiakanbujianlingyifang，keshichuangjianhebaochixintaishangdegoutongjiaoliushifenguanjian。bingbuyizhibixurongzaeryouyoushendudegoutongjiaoliu。gaozhilingyifangnidexiaozaojiuhuozhexiaocuobai，wenyiwenyinggaizenmeban。dianziyouxiangshigehaochanpin，bubiwuxue。aidoushiduidema？youqishizhangtudianhuajinideqianjiagaojishi，yebiewangjidianziyouxiangheduanxiaoxihenyoukenenghuizaochengdajiazhongjiandewuhui。xiefengbiaobaixinba，huozhexianshangshangsonggemeiyouliyoudexiaolipin。neiyang，goutongjiaoliudezongshubianhuihepinzhiyiyangguanjianle。ninengfajueninaizhibizheixiefeiyiguoliandexueshengmenyouyigeyoudian：dajiaburongyibagoutongjiaoliushizuochangguifangyugongshi。

4.发觉外地产生的优点吧。

daliangdeshijianshouhounidepengyouheqinren，burongyiweijimaodanzisuanpidesuoshizhengzhi，jiubieshengxinhun，ruguonipengdaolingyifangmingquetichudewuliqunao(waidiyingdanghuigenjudianziyouxiang)huozhebiedexiangjinzhuangkuangshi，jinidaliangdeshijianchuaicezishenqingkuangle(erbushixiangfeiwaidineibanduinideairendangtouyibang)。gengguanjiandeshi，dajiazhongjiandejianjujiniweichinidegexinghua，zheidongxihuizailianrenmeirideniwohaizhongqueshidiao。

5.追求完美相互的喜好。

jibian shigezidizhuiqiuwanmei。jiaruyouyigedajiadouhenganxingqudexindianyingshangyingle，neimafenbiequkankan，suihoudianhuagoutongjiaoliuxindetihui。lingwaiyueduwenzhangyibenshu，tongdianhuashiyiqizuobairimeng。rangdajiadewanbiaoshishikekedouxianshixinxitongyangdeshuju，rangdajiadenaolinglingwaichuanlai，zaimeiridemouyishikelingwaixiangnianlingyifang，ganshoucishilingyifangyezaixiangniannidetianmi。chongfenfahuinidexiangxiangli，rangdajiagengjiejinxianghu。

6.遗忘良好控制另一方的妄念。

aideyongheng,renshengdaolulaigongping，meirennenggouhuozheyingdangbeibiedederencaozong。jirandajiajuecetiaoxuanzheiyiduanwaidiganqing，jiuxuyaojienazheiyikeguanshishi，genghekuangzheihewaididoumeiyoubidingdelianluo。jiaruyifangganjuehelingyifangbingbushihentouyuan，huozheyongyougengqiangdemubiao，neimadanshidajiashifenlichulai3000yingcun，huozhe2geshangjie，zaihuozheshuizaiyizhangchuangbianerqiangbishanghaiguazhedajiadejiehunzhao，dajiadeguanliandouwanerwanle。fanguolai，yaoshidajiadeguanlianrengzaizaici，neijiuxuyaochedidejianxinlingyifang。