爱的艺术是什么？想要让TA回心转意该怎么办？

 aideyuyanyounaxie？dajiadoulejieyigedadaoli，neibianshidangliangrenzhangqixingdaizaiyiqi，gezhonggeyangyoudianhequedianbianhuijianjiandipuluchuqu，buyongshuolianren，penyouhuoshiqinrenzhongjianyehuineiyang，zheishihoudajiabianhuifajuejuedaduoshudenvxinghuizaiqianyishizhongdebianxiaolingyifangdeyoushi，biandalingyifangdequexian。neimeaideyishushizenyangdeni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideyonghengdewenzhangba。

 buqingchudahuoerjinqiyoumuyoukanju《sanshieryi》，jiandaohenduorenshuozheiyibujuhenzhenzheng，shuoqizaiqizhongzuiyaowokegumingxindeyidui，bianshizuiyoutaidudechenyuhezhongxiaoqinzhongjiandehunyinshenghuo。

 youyuxiangqinyuehuierlejiedetamen，menbudanghubuduibuyongshuo，zaijiashangxianghuzhijiantianbulelingyifangdequexianerlaidaoyiqi，keshijiehunhoubumingbaigoutongjiaoliu、bumingbairuhechulipengdaodeweiji，bicizhengzhibuxia，zuizhongzhiyouwukenaihefenli。

 dajiajingchangshuo“liyiyishishuang，zhuiqihuozangchang!”lihunzhihoudechenyuguozhenshihouhuile，aideyuyanyounaxie？zhiyouzhaolaizhizichenjianzuozhushou，kaishilewuwangdezhuiqizhitu。

julibian，chenyushejifanganleyuzhongxiaoqinde“shenghuoyangtaiyouhui”，xianglanmanyiba，xiangbudaoque“chefan”le。

 zhongxiaoqinzaihuihua，chenyuyouyizhaoshuta，shengchanzhizaoduandian，suihoulazhezhongxiaoqindeshougandaoyangtaishang，yangtaishangbaizhehongputaojiuhelazhutai，chenyujiuxiangshengchanzhizaoyidianlanman。

nalejiezhongxiaoqinbudanshihaipaxingquaihao，haiyincitishichenyu，shuo：“yixiewupinbushihebianshibushihe。”

 jiandaoneiyangdegushiqingjieshifoujuedehenzhenzheng，haoxiangshidajiadoucengjingliguodeqingjing，cishideshibushiniyouyidingdedadongni?jinridajiajiueryanyishuo，gezihouzaihuifuguanlianshi，zheixiezongshiranglingyifanggengdujuedajiadegerenxingwei。

一、“我是哪里做的不足好么?”

 buqingchudahuoerzaikanjianzhongxiaoqinsukuzheduichenyujiangchuneiju：“womenlihunba”，xinlishifouhuiyintong，juedehenxintong，haoxiangkandaoleshijizhonglingyifanghezishentichufenshouqingkuangxiadeshiluoyiyang。

youyudajiadoulejiezheibingbingbushiyijuqiansibailvhoulizhizuochudejuece，zhishiduiyanxiazheigerencungouxinhanhoudenanguoxuanze。

 shuodaozheier，buyouzizhuyaowoxiangdaoleyishuyiqianzai《liuqing》yishushangshuoguo：“shengzaizheilishijieshang，meiyouyiyangqingganbingbushizhiliposuide。”

dajiadoulejieyigedadaoli，shishangmeimanhunyinjihudoubingbushiyipaijihe，daliangdeshikaoxianghumoheqierchijiude。

 danshijiaruyifangyizhizaitouru，eryifangqueshizuolisuoyingdangdehua，neineiyangdehunyinshenghuoshibutaikenengxingfukuailede，gengbutaikenenghuichijiu。

 luoman.oufancengshuoguo：“zaihunyinshenghuohuolianaizhong，meiyigerendoubixutouru，lingwaihaiyaoquhuidianshenme：zheijiushigongxuguilvxing。”

 zheiyaowoxiangdaoxiaoxiongjiaoshiyiqianyouyigexueshengxiaomishouji，zainanyoumingquetichufenshouhou，xiaomishoujiyizhidoubuqingchuzishenshinalizuodebuzuhao，zishenhenqinfendeweihubaoyangguanlianle，nandaoshuonanrenshuobuaijiubuailemeiyou?

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 danshixiaomishoujidejiuchannandabudanmeiyoudadongdaolingyifang，fandaoshitahenfannao，youyuxiaomishoujiyizhifanfuzheijuhua：“woshinalizuodebuzuhaome?”

 neiyangfangkuanrongdadudexiaomishoujibudanmeinenghuifuzishenheqiannanhaihenvhaideguanlian，haibazijiderichangshenghuogaodeyituanzao，zhizhitayushanglexiaoxiongjiaoshi，caiwozhongyumingbailezishenweihexiufuganqingzhituneimajianxin。

 aideyonghengshishenme？bingbushiyouyuxiaomishoujinaerzuodebuzuhao，erganghaoshiyouyuxiaomishoujinaerdouzuodetaibangle，yifangyiweidetouru，erlingyifangbingbuyaoxiangzheizhongtouru，rangguanlianyulaiyushidiao。

二、“仅仅想和你待在一起，有误吗?”

xuduo nvshengzaixiangchuyihou，doushihuibuzijuediweizhulingyifangzhuan，naizhishichedideyikaolingyifang。

 ruguoniaiyigerendeqingkuangxia，huimeishimeikeyaoxiangpeizhelingyifang，jiusuanmeishenmehuashuoqi，daizaiyiqiyehuiganjuetashiyizhongxingfukuaile。

 neiyangdeqingkuangzairelianhuoxumeiyoushenmenanti，danbansuizheganqingnongduzhidejianshao，zheileimingxiandeyilaixinghexuqiuganhuiranglingyifangtoubuguoqi。

 nishifouhaijidexueshengjingjingbianshiyigeneiyangdenvhai。jingjingzaiwaimianshigechichafengyundexingshibianhulvshi，nanyoubianshikanhaolejingjingziliziqiangdeyimiancaizhuiqiuwanmeitade。

 danshixiangchuyihou，nanyouquefajuejingjingheyiqianchedibuyiyang，yuelaiyueyouqizhanrenbuyongshuo，haishikedouhuijianguanzhezishendeyijuyidong。

 erjingjingyeganjuehenbiequ，shuozishenjiuhenqidaishikedoulejienanyouzaiganshenme，xiangyaozhidaolingyifangyoumuyouxiangzishen，zishenyaoshiyoushijianjiuxianghenanyoudaizaiyiqi。

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 yingduineiyangdesipilailiandejingjing，nanyoulijidangpengyoudemianbajingjingmaleyidun，jingjingkuzhewennanyoushuo：“wozhishixianghenidaizaiyiqi，neiyangyouwuma?”

 aideyishuyoushenmeni？lejiejingjingzhuangkuangdexiaoxiongjiaoshi，shijixintongyouganjuejingjingqueshitaitianzhenle，shouhouhehudongjiaoliubingbingbushiyuduoyuhao，shidangcaisuanshizuizhongyaode。