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 nideniantoushifou「sheixianbaituolengbaolijiuxiangdangyusheixianrangbu，errangbudeneirenshishibaizhe，lengbaolidaozuizhongdeshidayingjia。」

可是，你要过沒有?

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nizuixianyaogaoqingchuyidian——

lengbaolishijishangshiyizhongjingong。

“heikegongjiyihou，henqi，yidingyaojingonghuilai。”

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yinci ，yaopoyilengbaolifenshou，wubicongxiabian2dianxiashou：

01.终止进攻。

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 yinci ，lengbaolifenshouyidingshizaiyifangde“lijijingong”helingyifangde“beidonggongji”buduanlaiquzirudequanguochengzhongzaochengde。

 jiaruzaizheigequanguochengzhong，zaiqizhongyifangnenggouzhongzhizishendejingong，neima，jiudengtongyubaituolezixiangcanshadejushi。guanlianhuanjiechulai，liangrenyibuxiangjinbanfaderenaolingyifang，caiyouhuajieweijidegailv。

02.面对要求点。

zailiangrendouzhongzhizixiangcanshayihou，jiubixumianduixianghudeyaoqiudianle。

 lengbaolizaochengdeyagennantijiuzaigoutongjiaoliushang，qianbanbiaoshuweiguoyihou，caihuitiaoxuanyonglengbaolidefangfabiaoshuzishendebumanyi、jingonglingyifang。

 yinci ，jiaruyaoxiangzhenshichulilengbaolifenshou，erqieweiyihoudeyouliangguanlianhangshijichu，jiuwubiyaomianduilingyifangdeyaoqiudian，bingbazheizhongyaoqiujianjiandiwanchengqilai。

jinyouliangrenzaiguanlianshangdouzuochugaibian，caisuanzuozaiyiduanhunyinguanxizhonggongtongchengzhang。

 tanlianaidemudeshishenme?yaoqiukaolvle，dangranjiuwuxuzaikaolengbaolijingonglingyifang，guanliandangranyejiuhuixianggengqiangdefangweifazhanqushi。