恋爱的法则之分手后不断联，98%的都复合不了！

 lianaidefazeyounaxie？“dajiafenshouba，wobuainile，womenbuheshi，butaikenengle。”zheizhonghuashifouhenshuxi?jianxinbeifenshouderendoutingjianguo。neimelianaidesigejieduanyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaideweidaodewenzhangba。

 nihenyoukenengbumingbai，weihezheigerenzuorihaiyunifanganzheweilai，jinrijiujueqingtuzhuanrangnishiluodeguanjianzi，fangfoyiqianbuguoshiguowangyunyan，yichangkongxiang。

 nibunengzibasinian，kongzhibuzhuwanhui，danwulunnidexingweishiqingshenshifengkuang，tadougengweihaowuyiwendiduinishuo，tayanfan。

nixinhuiyileng，ganjuewanhuitazaiwuhenyoukeneng，youyuzheigenanrenruguobuaile，huoxuyiqianyemeicengjingaiguo。

 danshijishang，buguantazenyangfourenyiqiandeyiqie，doubukeyimoqudajiazaiyiqiguodekeguanshishi，gengbukeyimoqutayiqiantourudezhenxinshiyi。

tabushibuaini，tajinjinaitaileile，aipale，duobile。

一、如果不爱了≠不愿动了心

dangyigerenruguobuaile，tajiuduinimeiyouhuashuo，buyuanzaiquaijinqu，duinideyiqiedoumeiyoulexingquaihao。

 zheileiduiairendedandingcongrong，xinwujingtaohailang，bianshiruguobuaile。jiarufenshouhoutaduinixintaihenpingjing，danzhoushijilvbianshitaruguobuaile。

 neibuyuandonglexinshinaxiedeni?jiarutabuyuandonglexin，lianaidefazeyounaxie？tabianhuibiaoshubuyuanaidexintai，lirujiangnilaheishanchu，yongjiansuankebodeyuyanganpaoni，wuqingdisunhaini。neiyibanzheileizhuangkuangjiuyiweizhetabuyuandonglexin。

 jiarunizhengzaoshoulingyifangdewuqing，ganjueshiquwanhuideqidai，neimejiuzhenzuoqilaijuebunengfangqi，youyuzheileizhuangkuanghuanshifeichangrongyiwanhuide。

tabushibuaini，jinjinzaizheiliduanqingganzhongtazaoshoulesunhai，huoshiyunijiaowangtaileile，rangtabuxiangzaiaile。

 zhiqiandajiayouyigefensi，dayanxiaogezinvsheng，kanqilaihaixiuxiusedenvhaiduzhanyuqueyouqiqiang，yikaishitananyouyincideyiwangxing，juedezishenshifenyoufengcai，danshijianyijiu，jiuganjuezheiyiduantanlianaitaiyayigan。

nanhaizimeirishangbanwubijinvfensitongdianhua，bigongzuozhongdakaqiandaohaianshi。

 pengyoujuhuihuodongwubidaitaqu，haogemenjuhuihuodongyilvjinzhiqu，duiqitanvhaiduokankanyiyan，jiubukeyijinjiarushui，shoujijiesuozhiwenshibie，nvfensi10geshouzhitouyigemeiluoxialai。

 nvfensi8geyuedehusiluanxiang，nanhaizi8geyuedebeiyayigan，zuizhongtaqueshirenbushang，jiuhenvfensitilefenshou，ganjinglisuoxintaiguoduan。

 zhihou，zheimingnvfensixunzhaodajia，jinyonglebushangyigeyuequdechenggongwanhui，weihe?youyuzaiwanhuizheijianshiqingshang，shijishanglingyifangyuewuqingyuefeichangrongyiwanhui。

youyuwuqingdeshenhoushibeisunhai，shiyiqiandeqidai。yaoshidongchalingyifangwuqingshenhoudeyaoqiu，duizhengzhiliao，jiunengwanhui。

 zheizhongganjuerutongdayu，jiarubalingyifangdeyaoqiuxingrongchengyu，wanhuibianshidayudequanguocheng，lingyifangdexintaiyuewuqing，biaomingtadeyaoqiuyueduo，yujiuyueda。

lianaideweidaoyoushenme？ruguonidewanggouhao，nibuqilaideyujiuyueda，wanhuigailvjiuyuegao。

二、如今不喜欢≠始终不愿爱

 zhenzhengdeaiqingyouxingmingde，jiarunimeirenzhen，tahuidiaoling，jiarunirenzhen，jiusuantazaoyidiaoling，yeshiyouzaicizhanfangdegailv。

jiaruzheiyiduanqingganranglingyifangfeichanglei，shitasangshizixinxinbuyuandonglexin，niyewuxuchuitousangqi。

youyuyaoshizhaoduifangshi，jiunengrangtazhongshixinxin，xiangyaozaiyiciaishangleni。

 zheileishilibujiqishu，youshujudiaochabaogao，83%defufudoujingliguoshucichaochaonaonao，zuizhimingdeshilijiushizhongchuhonghefengdelun。

tamenchaochaonaonao20nian，bantuyeshiyoufenbietanlianai，zuihoubingbushiyetarulehunyinshenghuoshengdianma?

tamenzaimishihuanjiedequebuaibicile，danzaiyiciyudaodequeyouzaiciaishanglexianghu，zheijiushiaidezhendi。

 lianaidesigejieduanfenbieshishenme？youxierennenggouhunhouchugui，huoxutadequebuxihuancishideairenle，yeshiyoudelianrenyouyifenshou，danzaixuduonianyihou，diediezhuangzhuangyehuizaiyicimishangxianghu。