zenyangzhuinvhai? dajiadeshengmingzhuangjichulehuomiao,dandouhaimeikuozhangchenghuozhong,youshiganqingrutonghuozhongxiangtongmingan,henruofengqingqingchuijianghuijiuhuichuimie,yinci,zaidajiadeaiqinghuohuahaibuzujianyideneishihou,niyaomingjixiabiandeyixieshi。
1. 前女友不恐怖,避而不谈才恐怖
zenyangzhuinvhai?ganqingbujiubaofadeneishihoushizuimeihaode,jinjinweiraozaidajiashenpangdezhinengdanchunxingdexiaihereqingdeganqing,keshisuizhirizidetuidong,zaozhongwanyouyiridajiahuizaoyu1geburongleguandehuatitaolun:qiannvyou。
duile,meiyounajianvhaixiangzaiwanzhunanyoudeshoubeijiaoyoudeneishihoutingjiannanyouhuranshuojiju:“woyiwanghetachangchanglaizheierliuda”。zhuinvshengxuyaozenmezuo?zaimeiduanshenxinjiankangyiqiezhengchangdeganqingzhizhong,qiannvyoujueduishizaisuonanmiande1gehuatitaolun,yinciliangzhezhijianbierbutanniyuqiannvyoudediandiandidi,zhizhijiaruzaimanbaoxialaijianghuiweihaidaodajiadeqinggan,haiburutiaogeyanyanggaozhaodezhongwu,xianghudakaixinfeijiangxinlidecaijishenkaitankai。
jianghuininengdanyoujiarugennidexinrentanqiqiannvyouhuifoujidajiadeganqingzhongxiaanquanyinhuan,wojuedewuxugujiguoduo,tuixinzhifudetanhuaneirongfandaohuijinidexinrenjuedeshuxin,youyutalejie,jibiannideqiannvyouzaichuse,rujintayeburongyizaizaicipeizainideshenpang
yexuzhihouderenshengdaolu,jiangyoutalaishouhou,huoxuniyuniqiannvyoudemouxiejinijiyilikegumingxindeyiqianhaihuicijixingtadeshichangjingzhengxintaizhuangtai,huirangtayoukuayueqiannvyoudeniantou,yincishuo,meishenmekemanbaode,qiannvyouzairuheqingchengqingguo,yejinjinnijiyishenchude1gexingmingbalele。
2. 相互理解,以诚待人
zhuinvshengxuyaozenmezuo?xinxiandeganqingdouhuiwomenyiqisangshifencungan,duitajiangchudemeiyiduanhuabixuzixirenzhendeqiancizhuoju,tademeizheitiaoduanxiaoxibixujinishafeikuxinfajueshenhoudehanyi。ninenggangkaishiyuelaiyuexiang1gechuchangganqingweidaodezhongxiaoxueshengxiangtong,buduandeziwenshifoutaijiyuqiuchengle。
jiadingshuonijitafaleduanxiaoxi,keshitazhengzhengdemeitianyemeiyouhuiyingni,laidaoyelinichuitousangqideyoujitafalezheitiao:“shibushinibushuoaiwole。”nixiangzhetajiedaoneitiaoduanxiaoxideneishihouhuishishajuedeni?xianghulijieyixiaxia,jiadingshuoniyeshita,zheiyitiannidouhuiqiyejiabanjiadian,bantutajianghuirangnifalezheitiaoduanxiaoxidanshinimeiyoushijianhuiying,dengzheniyeliwanchengmairubanfanhuijiayoujiedaotaneiyangzheitiaoduanxiaoxi,nineixinhuishishajuedeni?
dongleme,dadaolisheidoushishuo,keshizhenshinengbaozhengdebuduo,xianghulijie,yichengdairen,zhei8geziyingdangshizhongjinjinweiraozaidajiadeganqingzhoubian,youyutamenshiquebaodajiaganqingwendingyuanmandefazhanqushixialaidejiben。
3. 不做跟屁虫,不做马子狗
xuduonanhaierzaizhuiruqingwangyihouhuihuranhuanxinyan,meirideyishizhuxingdoujinjinweiraozhenvyoujinxing,xinglaixishujianyongcanshangxiabanxiabanlexianjiaorushui,titieruwei,fangbushengfang。benlaimeixingqidedanshennannvjuhuihuodongdoububaomingcanjiale,yeyibuzhaohaogemenyinjiukandashanle,quanburendeyishizhuxingtongtongfengxianjilenvyou。
jiarunishineiyang,neimeniyaoganjinxingxingle,wulunnishizaitaiaizhenidenvyou,nidoubuyingdangweizhaohuitadiuqinibenlaideyishizhuxingshejiaoquan,wulunyoumuyouta,nideyishizhuxingzishizhizhongyaozaicixiangqianzou,nideqinqijiarenyiyangxiangyaonideshouhou,nidegongzuoyiyangxiangyaonidejiejinquanlizijintouru,nideyishizhuxingyeyiranxiangyaonideyongxinyunying,dangniweinidenvyousheqilezheirenhe,neimenijiuxiangdangyujianjiedesheqiledajiadeganqing,zhongjiuhuiyouyiritahuibeiniqinzisongrufensuidegudi。
4. 相互信赖,相互留白艺术
dahuoerdoushuo,dangniqueshiaita,neimenizaitayanqianjiuyingdangshiqingliangquantouming,buzangmimide,tongyang,duinvyoueryandoushizheiban。dankeguanshishiqueshishineiyangme?
dangnibuduandeqipanzhangwoninvyoushoushangchanshengdemeiyijianshier,neimaninengjianjiandidefajue,nishicong1geqipanzhangwotajinerkeyigengqiangdeguanaitaderenbianwei1gekuishitasuihoushenhuacaozongtadekongzhikuang。
jianghuijinifanyuetahetarenweixinliaotianjiludebuliangxiguan,neimazainifanyuejiludeneishihouwenyiwennizishen,niyeshixiangzaitadeweixinliaotianjilulifajuenaxie?shixiangfajuetaheqitananshengnuanweidezhenxiangme?dangniqueshixiangyaozhidaozheizhong,nihaiburulijizhengjinweizuodehewotantandajiajinqiqinggandezhuanbian。xianglaizhangwotashiduide,keshibiebuzhongshita,qingbixuyaoxinlaidajiadeganqing。
5. 学会放下说白了的方案,让感情跟着感觉走
xuduonanhaierzaipengdaozishendelanyanzhijiyihoudoushisangshifencungan,benlaiwenzhongdetajianghuihuiyouyudajiadeganqingxiandeyouxiejibukenai,quxiangxiangjianglaihenvyoujianlijiazhongyihoudeyishizhuxing,huitaolunjianglaihaizijiaoyu,huinaoxinfangwudeshoufukuanyaojiaoshiduoshaoshihe,huifanganhenvhaibaojingcangsangyihouqunajiashanmingshuixiudediquguoxianyunyehedeyishizhuxing。
womennenglejie,zheirenhezhiyinweinitaiaita,henbunengzishenzhihouyishizhuxingdemeiyipianduanchangyoutapeizheni。keshihuanshiyaogaojiedajia,meirenkeyiyuliaozhihoudeshier,jianglaigengshiyouyutadebunengyucefenxicaitianmanlebumingdemeihao,liangzhezhijianzuozhemeiyongdewangxiang,haiburujiuhenjiandandehewoxieshoubingjianwangqian,rentacanghaisangtian,wozhiyutayuyuexiangsui,biejidajiadeganqingtaoshangshufu,suiyueran,tongchanghuirangdajiaganshougengxingfudejieguo。
6. 当你忘记了这种,你将会会死得非常惨
zheiyidianerzhongjiushizhuweinanhaierxinligengweitantebuandeyibufen:shengchen、lianaijinianri、chucilijiajieri、diyicipapajieri、jiehunjinian、balabalajieri……。duile,wojiangdejiushishuozheizhongzaluanwuzhangdexiaoshi,biebushanhuishier,zheizhongbaizhimasuanpidexiaoshiyixiazijiunenggaodejialijifeigoutiao。
yincinishiquchunideshoujishang,diankairilibiao,yitiantiandejiangnihetazhongjianchanshengdedashierxiaoqingtongtongjichenghetong,shiketishizishenqianwanbiewangdiaohetayiqideyiqie1geguanjiandian。duile,zheinengkusiren,keshihaogemen,sheijinitanlianaileni,zheijiushishuotianmidefudana。
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