追女生应该从自身提升开始

 ruhe zhuinvsheng ?aiqing，laiyuanyuyuhuxiangdexiyinzhu。zishenbiandechuse，feichangrongyixiyinzhudaonvhai，laijijiquyueni。jijiquzhuiqiunvhaiguochengzhong，feichangrongyizaochengdecuowu：meitianzhaobierenxianliao，zhanzhebieren。zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?

zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?qianwanbiemeiridouzhaotaxianliao!

nizhidaoma，nimeitianzhaonvshengliaotiandemoyang：

1. gangxinglai，ninaqishoujijiujitafalejiju，zaoshanghao。

2. nifadouxiashou，guzuyongqizhaohuatiliaotian，xiangfangshefazhaohuatiliaotian。

 3. nisisuohaozhangshijian，xiaoluluanzhuang，kaolvdaoliaohuanshibuliao。jiju“zaiganshenme?”zaishoujishangdetishikuangzhong，fanfuchuxianlenci。bieyiweineiyangshixiaidezhuyaobiaoxian，shixihuandezhengshi，woaini，jiuyingdangquzhuiqiu，qujijiyuenixianliao，meitianxianliao。wojuede，neiyangtongchangshicuowude。weishenmeshuochengcuowudezhuyaobiaoxianni?ruhezhuinvsheng?

1. taiguonianrenderen，burerenxiai

 nihaowuyiwengaishuo，nianrenma，zheinizhidaomade，bujiushishuoyitiandaowannianzhelingyifangmeifang，shashiqingbixuzhaotarentantaotantao。zheibingbushiaidebiaoxianma?

 biezhejihuang，nianrenbiaocengshangshiyitiandaowanchaoraozhelingyifang，shashiqingbixujitarengongxiang，qidaihuodetarenderenke，meitianquzhaotarenxianliao，biaocengkanwuxutaiguodechizehepengji。

keshishishang，wojuedeshimeiyouanquangandezhuyaobiaoxian。

meiyouanquangan=nianren+bulejie

 tebiezhuyidaoshi，zheishihaibingbushitanlianaidejieduan，jinjinzhuiqiuhuanjie，meitianxianliaojiuhuidaozhimeiyouanquangandexianxiang。zaochengdejieguohenxianzhu，neibianshirangnvhaizaochengnanhaizibuchengshuqidejuede!

 nvhaijuedenanhaizibuchengshuqi，xintainianlingxianggexiaopengyou，zheiyineishihou，xianghudezhenshishenfenjiuhuiyiranbianhuahenda，nvshengburongyixiangyiqiezhengchangpenyouqukandai，caogaodejieguoshi，yaoxiangkandaixiaopengyouxiangtongquhongren，zheibingbushiaiqing，yebingbushixiai，zuihouhuizaochengguanlianmeibian。

2. buyaojinganderen，burerenxiai

yitiandaowanhetarenxianliao，huifourangtarenganjuezishenshi1gehenxianderen，zishenmeiyoushierzuoni?

jibian，zishenshizaikongyudeshijianquhenvhailiaotian，keshiyouyidianerpulule，neibianshishuobailede“yaoqiugan”。

 yaolejie，zaizhuiqiuhuanjie，douhaimeijianliguanlian，taizaodepubiancunzai“woaini”dejuede，jiuhuirangnvhaijuedezaochenggongzuoyali。

 jiarulingyifangyeduijinihaogandu，neijieguojiedahuanxi2。jiarulingyifangduiniyouhaodubugou，zheishihoujiuhuirangnvhaizaochenggongzuoyali，zaochengburerenxiai，naizhidichu。

nvhaineixinxiang：tayitiandaowanyaowo，shifouxiaiwoya!yitiandaowanzhaowoliaotian，nandaoshuozishenmeiyoushierzuoma?

wojuede，neiyang，bingbushirerenxiai。

3. qingshangdideren，burerenxiai

jiuhuixuduorengang，aiyo，xianliaohainengcheshangqingshangzhishangma?

xianbiezhejizhegang，huixianliao，mingbaixianliaodepinlvdoushigaoqingshangdezheizhongzhuyaobiaoxian。

啥叫闲聊頻率?

shizhixianliaodejingchangshuiping，zheiyizhuanyezhishishifenguanjian。

1)经常的闲聊

 shishikekedexianliao，meiridouhuixianliao，jinguanzaixintaishangkaolvlebicideyaoqiu，dangengguanjiandeshi，qianquelebukehuoquedelitigan。

litiganshizaochengshenmidebenzhi，jiaruzishenbeitarensuoyouzhangwole，nijiushiqufengcaiheweibeifaxiandeshenmigan。

weichixinxiangan，goujianlitigan，jiangdixianliaodepinlv，yincibukeyimeitianxianliaoe!

2)稀少的闲聊

 haojigexingqiyebulianluonvhai，neiyangdeliaotianfangshiyecuowu。jiaruhenjiubulianluo，guanlianhejuededoushijiangdi1gejibie，yinci，weichibixupinlvdelianluogan，shifenguanjian。

4. bulejiebierenderen，burerenxiai

bixugaoqingchuzheijianshiqing：xianliaoshibicidenuli，bicidounulileshijianhehuoli。

 erjiarumeitianzhaolingyifangxianliao，jianghuizishenhenyuanyiqunulizheiguoduanshijianhehuoli，keshilingyifangbuyidingyuanyi。jiarulingyifangyoushier，huoshimeishijianxianliao，jiuhuijuededaobeidajiao，neiyangdeliaotianfangshi，bukeyong。

shizhequxianghulijie，zhongshizishendezhuangkuangxia，zhongshilingyifang，shixianliaodeshizhi。