追女生的雷区有哪些?

 zenme zhuinvsheng ?zhuinvsheng，wojuedejiushishuoyichangjingjiboyileixinxiangmu。xuanzebinulizhongyao，ruhezhuidezhuinvshengjiqiaohejiezouhaiyaoyouyigekongzhi。jinqineiyangdenantihenduo，dahuoerdoubuqingchucongnacengmiangangkaishixiashoujiaoweihao，yingdangfangzhishenmenantidechuxian?tebieshizaishiyudaozishenxiaidenvhai，gengfeichangrongyizhanqianguhou，shouzuwucuo。rujinrenmenjiupandianyixiazhuinvshengzhongdeyixiejinji。zheizhongquanshileiqu，haiwangjiandaodexiongdiqingraodao。zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?

yi、zhilejiezhui，buqingchuxiyinzhu

zenmezhuinvsheng?lianqingbingbushiniyiguzuoqi，butingxiangqianchongjiukeyidechangsuoyuande。

xuduonanhaizidiyiweijihuijiushishuonaohaizhonglizhineng“zhui”zheiyici，ermeiyou“xiyinzhu”dedingyi。

lianqingshiyaokao“xiyinzhu”，erbingbushikao“zhui”laide。

chedikao“zhui”，shizhuibudaoganqingde。

youyu，congyikaishijiunvhaibenzhibumingbaixihuanni。neimanvhainengfoukanzhongni，jiukannishoushangyoumuyoutaxiaiheshangxidedian。

yinci，bibushangtishenghetigaoyixiazishen，gaoduzhongshiyixiaduiwaiguanshejidegengxingaizao，tigaoyixiashuohuahegoutongdejiqiao。

xianrangnvhaijijiqushangxini，suihounizaizhuita，zuizhongjiunenggoufeichanghaodeyiqile。

二、方式胜于任何

zhuyaobiaoxian1：fengkuanggouwu，shimaibudaonvrendexinde

xuduonanhaizichangyou1gexintaizhuangtai，neibianshi“woyouleqian，naxiedenvhaizhaobuzhe”。

 yinci，yibiankeyizhanxianzishendehuaxuewuzhifengcaiqubuzhuopiaoliangmeizi，xuduonanhaizijiuhuimailidedagongzhuanqian，zanlexuduoqian，tiqianzhunbei1gefeichangguidelipinjinanhaizi，zongganjueneiyangnenggoubiaoshuzhenxinshiyi，lingwaihuodenvhaidehaogandu。

shubuzhi，zheiyixingwei，budanshechilangfeinigongzuonenglizhiwaideqiancai，lingwai，yemeifahuodenvhaidexin。

 nvhaiqidainifuyou，zhuzhongdewojuedejiushinidegongzuonengli，jinquxin，fazhanqushi，diwei，hezhihouzheizhongkeyichanshengdehuaxuewuzhiquebao。

niyeshiyougongzuonengliqudadaohebaozhengde，zheisuanshinvhaiqipanjinideyibufen，erqiancaijinjinzaiqizhong1gefanying。

shechipinbaobaozhiyoukaolvfujianv，danshijibushangjuedaduoshunvhaiyaodeguishugan。

yinci，nvhaixuduoneishihoukandebingbushilipin，zhishiniderenzhen。

 lipinnenggousong，lipinyebuyonghenzhengui，weibitingda，keshisongdejibubijinvhaigongzuoyali，yebubikanqilaitaisuibiandehua，

shizunzhao2gebiaozhun：“renzhen+feichang”。

zhuyaobiaoxian2：yingyongzhuangzhongdegaobai，renweihuichudongnvhai

 youdenanhaizihuixuanzezheizhongjiaoweizhuangzhongdebiaobaifangshi，liruzaidazhongxingqunzhongchangdi，shoupengmeiguihua，yongxizhubaixin，yidaduandezhenxingaobai，zheiyifangfashimeishenmenantide，shubuzhi，zheiyijingdianpianduandaduoshushiyongyiqizaoyishijianhaozhangshijiandelianren，xianghuzhangwo，lingwaishengchanzhizaodianyiwaijingxi，huoshilikebiaobai，liangrenqingganfeichanghao，shunlichengzhang，yinci，zheileifangfayingyongshishifenjuxiande。

yongbutaihao，zhiyouhetuinvhai，lingwaidoubujilingyifang1ge“huijue”deloutixia。

gaobaiyingyongzheizhaojiuyaonvhaiyalihaodale。

zheizhaonvhaijiezhaohaixing，nvhairuguobujiezhao，nijidiuleqingmian，yediulelizi。lijizahunchang。

gaobaidezhongzhongzhizhongzainvhaidejuede，bingfeifangshi。

三、自高自大

qingjing1：nvhaichuxianlexiaojiqingxu

女：

“nagenvhairuhenenggouneiyang，woneitadangpenyouye，woduitahenhao。”

男：

 “worenweiniyeshibutaihaodediqua，nikeyilizaitadeguandianquxiang，tazhongjiuyebijiaomang，bixuchengdanxuduoshier。dangnishizhongneiyangquxinfanyiluandehua，nijiufeichangrongyibiancheng1gefumianxinxidongneng，luxunshuoguoneiyangdoushibutaihaode，wojuedequanshinifumianxinxideniantoule，neiyangqueshifeichangrongyiweihaidajiazhongjiandeqinggan。weihaidaoqinggan，jiudaziranhuiweihaidaodajiazhihoudeguanlianfazhanqushi。suhuashuodehao，yiheweiguima。renmenbubiganjuetaruheruhe，renmenjiranshitadepenyoujiuyingdanglizaitadeshijiaodulisikao，weirenchushiyaoyouhuanweisikao...”

nv：“...”(os：ninengbishangzuima?)

nvhaizheiyineishihouzaoyifanyan，beiniqipao，hennanbuyuanlinini。

讲解：

 tebieshizaishinvhaizaipengdaoburuyideneishihou，zhiqidaihuodekuanwei，1gexiangyong，naizhirongruyugongdehetayikuaierdiaokan，tarutongmao，bixuyanzhetademaoqumo，erxuduozhinanshuaigedeluojisiwei，jiuaizaizheiyineishihoujiangdaoli，yixianshixinxizishencaihuahengyideyibian，andilichuipengjifan。

biaocengshangfangfoshizishenhenkeguandebangnvhaisuzaogousi，shishishangneiyangdexingweihaowuyiwenrangnvhainengfansini。

 jiaruheimingdan，shandiao，niyiqianbuguanganlenaxiehudongjiaoliumaixiafubi，jiaruchuxianneiyangdeqingjing，dabufenjiushishuopohuailihenqiangde“huacha”。

qingjing2：weixinpengyouquanheshijiqubie

nan：“wofaxianleyijianhenmeiweidesichuancai，renmenquchifou.”

nv：“a?taoyanchisichuancai。woyoubukeyichilajiao。”

nan：“weishenmehui，biezhuangle，wozhiqiankanzheniweixinfapengyouquan，falemalaguoa。”

 nv：“zhuang?wonaerzhuangle，jinikanzhewotiwenshuowochiwannageladeyibufenma?neijiushiyuanyanghuoguo，renmenlaotongxuejuhuiyikuaierdiande。”

nan：“ruhejianghuixuduorenchishaola，neimameiwei。”

nv：“...haoya，nizishenquchifou。”

讲解：

 nvhaiweixinpengyouquanzhanxiande，hezishenshenghuodeshijiaihaowojuedeweibishixiangtongde，dangnilejiezhenrenbandehua，jiubixuyaoyijuhezhenrenbandejiaowangquzhangwotadeaihao，erbingbushiyixindanchunxingdezuoweixinpengyouquande“maolixiaowulang”，juedezishenfenxileyixie，wojuedeshenghuoheweixinpengyouquanzhanxianyoushiqueshiliangmashi，bubiguoduojiangjiehezigaozidadejilingyifangkoumaozi。

qingjing3：jiunawodezhenxinshiyihuannideaihao

nv：“bubiannibubizongbangwosongxiaolongbaole，nidehaoxinwodexinlinglehaome。”

nan：“zenmela，womeirichaojizaoshangrangnimaizaofan，niruhebangbushangmanga。”

 nv：“bingbushibangbushangmang，nimaidexiaohuixiangweidexiaolongbao，woqueshitaoyanchi。bingqieworuguoxiangshuigelanjue，yeyao“qiangpo”zaoqilaiqunidexiaolongbao，neime，biezheiyanga”

nan：“ni...woduinihenhao，nijuran...”

讲解：

zuixihuande，lingyifangbuyidingxiai。niganjuehaode，lingyifangbuyidingyeganjuehao。

nijimaochiguge，jigouchiyu，huoxu，tamendoushiyishuaixiaoweibajiulikaile，toudoubuhui。

niganjuenizaoyihennulile，shubuzhi，woyixinsairangninitaoyandewupin，niyeweibigaoxing，duibudui?

yinci，nikeyiyinshizhiyi，duizhengzhiliao。

 zongdelaishuo，zhuinvshengshidejidajinjiguanjianduoqujueyu“bumingbaixiyinzhu，ganzhuide”“bumingbaixiyinzhu，fengkuanggouwude”he“dubumingbaixintai，zigaozidade”，wojuedequanshichuziyuyouhuolihexintaidujiecengmiandenanti。

youhuolizhongguihuanshitishengzijizhudao，erxintaijiangjie，jiubixushenhuadeshijianhuodonghexuele。

 zaixintaijiangjiecengmian，tebieshizaidangnvxingfajuejiarulingyifangneiyang“zigaozida，aichazui，zhuangdong，zishizhangwolingyifang”zhihou，nvhaiyouyuxintaibijiaomingan，tajiuhuizhudongnaobuchu，jiaruzhihouheneiyangdenanshengyiqizhihou，tadexintaidouwufaxiaohuaxishou，shuochuququanshiweizijitianmafandeneishihou，tadexintaijiuhuijiangzhibingdu。

 wulunzenyang，xuanzedefangweibinuligengzhongyao。yinci，zheizhongdianzhenduinanhaizieryan，shileiqu。bixububipeng。kandao，keguanyeqingraodao。