如何快速找到女朋友，90%的人第一步就错了！

 weiheniyaojiaobushangnvyou？zenmenengzhaodaonvpengyou？yingduizheigewenti，jianxindanshenwangmendounengjiangchuyidaduiyuanyin：meiyouyushangxiaide／meiyouqian／zhangdebuhaokan／shengaodi／buhuiliaotian，bushanyanci／wobuzhidaoweihe？meizhibianshitaoyanwo．．．．．．shijishang，zhendeshineiyangma？kuaisuzhaodaonvpengyou,haowuyiwenbingbushi，waijiebiaozhunqueshihuiweihaidaoninengbunengzhuidaonvhai，danzheizhongdoubingbushiguanjianxingyaosu，youyuwulunshiganqinghuoshinvhaiquanshilixingde，ruguoninengluhuotadexin，neimatabianshinidele。neiweishatanlianaidedaoshangnihuoshilvcibuchenggongni？neishiyouyudiyibujiubudui。neimaqiadanghelidepaoniuliuchengshiruhedeni？

yibannanrenzenmezhaonvyou：tanduixiang——xianliao——youhui——gaobai。

paoniudakaruhezhaonvyou：mingqueyaoqiu——zishengenggai——jijidahua——xianliao——youhui——gaobai。

谈恋爱第一步：明确要求

 suhuashuodehao，youyaoqiucaihuichuxianxiaoshoushichang，jinyouruguoniqueshipobujidaideyaoxianggaobiedanshenzhaogeduixiang，nicaicaihenyoukenengqueshitouruxingdong。jiarunimeiyouyaoqiu，yagenbuhuitanlianai，neimawulunshenpangyouduoshaoziyuan，nidoubuyidinghuiqudechenggong，youyunigenbenbuhuitanlianai。

 nizhenduitanlianaideyaoqiuyueda，xinliyaoxiangdedaoganqingdechongdongjiuda，zheigeshihou，chongdonghuiposhininiantouxiangfangshefalejiedaliangdemeizhi，lirukuozhangjiaopengyoumian，duoduodecanjiahuodong，lejiedaliangdemeizhi，zhubeiziyuan。

谈恋爱第二步：自身更改

 ruguonimingqueleyaoqiuzhihou，xiamianyaozuodebingbingbushilijimingquemubiao，zhujianzhuidequanguocheng，zhishixianxiangzishendebiaozhunkaizhanyigepingdinghegenggai。laohuashuodehao：shengbujiaobaibunei，ruguonibenshenbiaozhunhuodetigao，neimaqudechenggongdejiyujiuyueda。

 wulunnaxiezhongleidenvhai，zhenduiqiangjingchuse，kushuaiwenroudenanrenyemeiyoudikangnengli。yinciliuyibenshenpinpaixingxiangdedazaochu，liuyibaochiganjingshizuijibenshangdezhongshi，meiyounvhaihuiduiyigebuxiubianfudenanshengxindong，zenmenengzhaodaonvpengyou?erjuyoupinweidenanshengwulunzoudaonalidounenghuodenvhaideliuyi。

yaorangzongtimubiaomubiaoduinizaochengxingquaihaohehaogandu，benshendejibenjiansheshibunengshaode。

谈恋爱第三步：积极搭话

 chufeishinishifendechuse，huoqiangshou，chengqianshangwandenvxingjinichenmi，yaoburanmeizhishiburongyijijidaonidehuailililaide。yinci，yaoxiangxunsuzhuidaomeizhi，jijierdandadedahuashibukehuoquede。nijijidajiazhongjianhaihuijixuyougushi，jiarunibuzhudong，neimejiushenmegushiyemeile。

谈恋爱第四步：闲聊

 zenmekuaisudezhangwolingyifang，erqiequdechenggongxiyinzhudaonvhai，rangtayibuyibuaixihuanni，xianliaoshizhongyao，ruheliao，liaoshenme，quanshihenzhongyaode。huizongqilai，zaixianliaodequanguochengzhong，yaoliuyiyudiaofengqu，bubishejidaochaoguoguanlianfanchoudehuatitaolun，chengxianzishendegaoshiyongjiazhi。

谈恋爱第四步：幽会

 youhuizishenjiuyiweizheleliangrenzhongjiandeguanliandeshengji，dangnvhaixiangyaoyunichuqupengmian，zuishaobiaominglingyifangbuyanfan，xiangyaoyunizaicichupeng。jiarushuowangshangdexianliaozhuyaoshixiyinzhu，neimaxianxiatuiguangdeyouhuizeshijiazhongyinxiang。yincizaiyouhuideqingkuangxia，yaoliuyi：bubilengdanlingyifang，zaoqidexiangmutouzihenzhongyao，yincibubizhuyaobiaoxiandehenxiaoqi，zuizhongzhongshizaiguanjiandianchudadongta。

谈恋爱第五步：告白

 xuduotanlianaixinshoufeichangrongyiyushangdenantibianshi：gaobaisi。kuaisuzhaodaonvpengyou,yaoxiangfangzhizheigewenti，buhuigongkuiyikui，zuihaoshidefangfabianshibiezhejigaobai。jiarunijiqiegaobai，zuochuyixiechaochuguanlianfanchoudegerenxingwei，lirujiewen，huoshimingquetichushenglixuqiu，huirangnvhaiganjuenilingyouyidingdetu，congerhuijuenidegaobai，yincibiezhejigaobai。