闲聊时不必尬聊 如何追一个女孩

 henvshengchupeng，henduonanhaizibuqingchuyinggaizenmeban，youyupingchangchupengdenvhaitaishao，yincidaojinyaoguantoubianhuidiaolianzi。youjigefangmiantiyi，jixukanxialaiba。ruhezhuiyigenvhai？pandianyixiazhuinvshengjiqiao。

1.话题讨论易进行

henduonanhaizibuqingchuruhehenvhailiaotiancaikeyizhangqidiliao，zenmeyangcaiburongyirangtaganjuekuzao。

shijishangnixuyaozhaoxunyixiekeyikuozhanqilaidehuatiliaotian。

qiadangshifanxing1：“worenwei《aganzhengchuan》libianagandejingshenshizhihaoqiangjinga，nizuishangxitanayidian？”

 《aganzhengchuan》shiyiburenmindujiaoweigaodeyingpian，zaiqizhongyouhenduochusedejingcaipianduan，jishinvhaimeiyoukanle，keshiyeshiyoulejie，keyixianliaobugaliao。

 genghekuangjishinvhaimeiyoukanle，niyenenggouqingqingsongsongdijiangchu“renshengjiuxiangyihezhuguli”dezhilimingyan，zaochengnvhaidegongmingdian。

qiadangshifanxing2：“zhouliuquyouyongyushangyizhiyemao，kantakeling，mailaixiangchangjita，nixiaimaomaoma？”

 ruhezhuiyigenvhai？zuixiannikeyizaizhouliuquyouyong，zhuyaobiaoxianlenideziwoyueshu；yushangyemaojitamaishicaibiaomingnishiyigeyouaixinderen；zaizaijiashangjiarunvshengshuotaaimaodehua，nenggouyaoyuenvhaiyiqiquweiyemao，shengchanzhizaojiaowangjiyu。

 yinciqianwanbieganbiedibiaoshuzishenle，yaoxuehaozenyangjinxinghuatitaolun，jiaruniyaoyuenvhaichuquninengruheshuo？fabiaopinglunliuyanbanliuyankankan。

2.创建本身的诱惑力

henvshenggoutongjiaoliuzuizhongyaodeyidian，bianshirangtaganshoudaonideyouhuoli，jinerxiaixihuanni。

yincinixuyaobaozhengchuangjiannideyouhuoli，youyixiajigefangmian：

 (1)qichang：zaiquntizhongqichanghaodenanhaizihuiyiyanbeijiandao，nanhaizideqichangzhuyaobiaoxianzaijuzhi、yuyanbiaodadengcengmian，nizouludezishi、jianghuadeyudiao、herengoutongjiaoliushideshenqingzheixiezheizhongguanjiandiandouzuchengleyigerenjilingyigerenqichangshangdediyiyinxiang。

 doushuodiyiyinxianghuosheng，yihoujiuhuosheng。yincinanhaizijiaruzhongshizishendeqichangsuzao，budanduinvhaiyouhuolitisheng，benshendefengcaiyehuitisheng。

 xuduodixionggenmeizhixianliaodeqingkuangxia，meizhidehuifudoubutaihao，zheishiyouyunidexianliaobingmeiyoujifanvhaidexintai，zaochengnvhaiganjuegennixianliaohensuoranwuwei，jianjiandidebianhuibuhuini，naizhijiaruheimingdannini。wozhiqianyejingchanghuichuxianzheileizhuangkuang，bieshuoduofanmenle，zhihouzaiwei-xinshangzhaodaoyikuanxiaocheng-xu，chengwei---pao-shenglaoyumifa，meimeihenvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxia，woyekaiqizheiyiwei-xinxiaocheng-xu，banvshengshuodehuazhuangjinquyisou，tabianhuigenwoshuoyingdangzenmehuifunvhaile，bingqielibianyeyouhenduoxianliaoshilihegaobiedanshenshilijiaochengnenggouxuexipeixun。rujinwogennvshengliaotian，yiliaoyigezhun，dabufendounengshunlidaihuiqu，nidongdede。youciwuqi，liaogemeituogedan，qingsongdeshi。

 (2)sanguan：renshengguan、jiazhiguannian、renshengjiazhiguandounengzaiyicijianyidehuihuazhongchengxian，jiarunvhaifajuenisanguanbuzheng，shihuikoufende。eryigehaodesanguanshishifenshehuizhengnengliang，qienengxiyinrende

 (3)qianxu：xuduonvhaizhenduinanhaizidepianjianbianshikuangwangzida，ruguonishiyigeqianxuderen，bujiaobuzao，zixinxinquebukuazhangkuangwangzida，huijinvhaiyigefeichanghaodeyinxiang。

(4)xiai：xiaimoushierqieyinciqinfennuliderenshishanshanfaliangde，chuntianrandejiujubeiyouhuoli。

 liruribenrexuedongmanlidezhujiao，weilegenghaodimouyizongtimubiaoerqinfen，zixinxinqieqinfen，dahuoerdoushihuixiaizheileiren，erqiebuzijuebeitaxiyinzhu。

 (5)jianshi：niduguoxuduoshu，laiguoxuduodiqu，zheizhongquanshihuizaiyantanjuzhizhongxianluchuqude，yehuirangnichanshenggengkuangkuodejianshi，yigejiaotanzhongkuankuanertan、duidaruliuderen，haoguoyigemeiyouzishenyuzhongbutongsisuofangfazongshishirenyahuideren。

3.学好花言巧语

 bubiganjuenanshengjiubukeyihuayanqiaoyu，zheishiyigepianjian。huikuanvhai，jinvhaiganqingshiyongjiazhidenanhaizi，caizhaonvshengxiai。

 huikuanvhai，jiubiaomingnihendongnvsheng，nvshengyingduiyigehendongtadenanhaizizanmeishihuixiusede，neiyangxiusedexinlizhuangtaixia，bianhuiganjuenihenyoufengcai。

yuanxianxuehaozenmekuarenyeshifengcaideyizhong。

 jinvhaizaijingshenshang，biaomingniqingshangzhishanghengao，nvshenghuibuzijuedixiaixihuanni，youyugenjukuanvhainijiangqingshangzhishangzhuanhuachenglefengcai。

jinvhaijiyuzaijingshenshang，shizuiyouxiaodezhuiqiuwanmeifangshi。youyunvshengxiangyaoherangtagerenganjuefeichanghaoderenzaiyiqi。

 doushuohenizaiyiqishiyouyumishanghenizaiyiqidejuede，dangnvshengganjuehenizaiyiqiyuelaiyuegengqiangde，biaomingnidezaijingshenshangjiyujishile，xiangdangyunvshengxiaishangnini。

4.闲聊时不必尬聊，可是也不必太随和

xianliaodeqingkuangxiaxuduonanhaizihuixuxutaotao，danyougaliao，keshichedimeiyoubixu。

nvshenghenixianliaobingbushilaitingnijiangdankouxiangshengde，niyebuyuanbianchengnvshengyanlidexijurenba？

 bubigaliaodajiadoulejie，jiusuanshiyingduinvhaidemizhijianmo，liuyouyigebiaoqingtudedousuanqiadang，keshihenduorentongchangjinjinbuduandiganliao，buduandibaolu，neiyangdegerenxingweizongshirangnvhaiganjuenikuzao。

 pandianwanzhuinvshengjiqiao，erlingyizhongjiduanhuabianshichedibuqingchuzenmedakaihuatitaolun，duinvhaidehuatitaolundoubupengchangzhuhe，neiyangdesinaojin，nvhaiyiyangburongyixiai。yincixianliaoshiyaobawozhangwofencun，meiyouhuashuojiufabiaoqingtu，doututupiandoubiganliaohao。