怎样追女孩的聊天套路？看看这3个高情商的技巧

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1、一个风趣的开场词

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2、少说多做，学好赞扬

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3、学好持续话题讨论，维持互动交流

henvhailiaotianshiyigezhangqixingdequanguocheng，nanhaizibukeyizhizuo“yichuizimaimai”，yaohuibahuatitaolunweichixiaqu，bukeyicicigennvhailiaodaohenkaixin，xiayicibuqingchushenmeshihouquliao、liaoshenme？neiyangdehua，huikanqilaizishenchongfenfahuihenbuwending，nvhaihuiganjuenimeiyicixianliaoquanshilinzhenmoqiang，erbushitianxingjiuneimasuihe。nanhaizinenggouzaixianliaoyaowanbideqingkuangxiashuoyiju“gennixianliaozhenkaixin，nigangtijidebengjitiaoyinweiwohenxihuan，jinritaichile，womenmingrizaishuo。”neiyangshuonenggoujinvhailiuyigezhinian，yekeyibadajiadexianliaoweichixiaqu。

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