zhuinvhaizidetaoluhejiqiao,neixiangxingshiyigerendegexing,xingqingshinanyigenggaide,zhuinvhaizisongshenmehuahao?neixiangxingnanhaizipengdaoziyiganxingqudenvhaizideguochengzhonghuihenxiusehaixiu,buzenmehuijianghua,zhuinvhaizigandongtadejuziyounaxie?xuexipeixunyixiezhuinvshengdefangfanenggouxiezhuneixiangxingnanhaizizhuinvsheng。
1、创建基本联络
zheihuishinidejiaoliugengweichangshun。xiangenmeizhiquhuxiangpeiheyijiangongzuozhong,suzaogongshanggan,bamoshengrenbianchenglejiedepenyou,nimenzhongjianyongyouganaiduijie,jiubukenengzhanxiandiaonangaliaodexianxiangle(henduorendoujinjinzaimeiyoulejiedeqingxingxianeixiangxingeryi,pashuoshuocuodiaolianmian,guandiancengmianwoyiqianjiangdaoguoxuxuduoduodeyouguanxianliao,buqingchudekeyizaikanyikanyiqiandeneirong,quanshihenzhongyaode)。birunishizaixiaodaxuesheng,xiangyaoquzhuiyigexuejie,nikeyihetaquyijiafandiandagongzhuanqian,yitongquchenduyingwen,yexutianjiatongyishetuanhuodongcanjiazhutihuodong;birunishidagongzu,xiangzhuiyigetongchangdemeizhi,keyiyuemeiziyitongquxuehuabing,yitongquguangmiaohuideng;birunishishangbanzu,keyigenmeizhibaoyigetuanqulvyou,keyihetayitongqudapingpangqiu,fengzhengdeng;genmeizhisuzaogongshangdezheijianshiqingguanjianshiyaojiaohuxingqiang,benshenhenyoumohenhaowaner,neimetagenchuqudetihuishixinxide,erqienimenzaihudongjiaoliushihuiyoumoshengbianlejie,naizhiwuhuabushuo。
2、关键词法
zhuinvhaizisongshenmehuahao?xuehaobawonvhaijianghuadeguanjian,bawozhuguanjianzi,yeshishifenzhuyaodexianliaozhuanyejinengzhiyi。jiarunvhaishuolebantian,niyijuguanjiandoumeibawozhu,kenengtajiushangnaobukenlinini。lirunvshengshuo:“ganghemamatongdianhua,younaomaodunle,qingxuhenbutaihao。”tamenguanjianci,jiuhuiyou“mama”、“naomaodun”、“qingxuhenbutaihao”sangefangweinenggoutuokuan:tiyibuyaoshuoduorangzhediannimama,zhongjiutashilaorenzheileidehua,nidoubuqingchushizenmehuishinaomaodun,neiyangshuowanlenvhaizhinenggengqi。“henyoukenengmamajinriqingxubudahaoba?womamayoushihouyeneiyang。”(yongmuqinlaituokuan)“youyushishenmeyuanyinnaomaodunni?”(yongnaomaodunlaituokuan)“ena,wolejieni,yibanwoxinqingyumenjiuaichulai guangyiguangchidianwupin,nishima?”(yongqingxulaituokuan)。zhaozhengqueleguanjianci,caikeyirangxianliaodoutandaoguanjianshang,yekeyirangnvhaijuedezishenbeigaoduzhongshi,bingqieganjuenidebaogaoshiyoujiazhide,caihuixiangyaopeinixianliao。
3、了解体会法
bizhaonanhaizi,nvhaigengkanzhongxintaitihui,yincinvxingzaichuandiyijianshiqingdeshier,henzhongshijuede,neimaninengbunengbawozhutayaoxiangchuandadejuede,erqienenggoufuheshanglai,jiubiandezhiguanzhongyaole。nanshengxihuanzhangwoyijianshidelailongqumai,nvhaizechenmiyuyijianshisuochanshengdexinqingtihui。dangnvhaizaigongxiangyijianshishi,gengqidainikeyiganshoudaotashixiadetihui。yincidangtarangnijiangyixielijingdeqingkuangxia,shijishangshixiangzheniguanzhutadangchudetihui,erbushihuizonghuoshixiajielun。neiyangcaisuanshidongta,zhuinvhaizigandongtadejuziyounaxie?caibukenengrangtarenweinifawei。
4、多次重复句尾法
zheiyeshiyizhonggongnengqiangdayoujiandande“lanrenliaofa”,jiaruniyongyuanbuzhidaozenmeliaomeizi,jiufanfumeizhijianghuadejuwei,keshiruguoyihuodeyudiao,wojugeshili:nv:“jinrihaoleiya。”nan:“ganjuehaolei?”nv:“duiya,youyuzuorizaijializuoleyitiandehuo。”nan:“yitianhuo!?”nv:“duia,libaitianjiazhongyaolaihenduoren,detizaoqingsaoyixiaa。”suihounibiannenggoumingzhengyanshundewentajiazhonglaineimeduoderenshiyaoganshenme,yaobuyaozhushou,ninengbangzhuyiqiqingsaofangwu,shundainenggouwenyiwennengfouyiqicanjiahuodong,zaojiudaliangchupengdejiyu。
5、缄默也会比强聊好些
jibian jianmoshinihennanshou,niyebubiyizhifayan。wulunniyaozhuyaobiaoxiandeduomedechuselihai,buduandifayanzhiyoubiaomingyijianshi:worenweinibiwozhen,suoyiwochangshibuduandifayanjiangniliuxia。zongdelaishuo,diyitiao:chenmoshihaoshier,chenmoshijin,haohaodixiangyouta。jianmobingbushixianliaodezhongduan,zhishitadeyibufen,yigezhuyaode,bixudeyibufen。yaowojiang,jianmoshijishangjijiaotanjiashangleyixiezhuangshi,tarangbierenhaohaodixiaohuaxishounishuodehua,shinidejianjieheniantougengqiangjing。zhuinvhaizidetaoluhejiqiao,youyunijiangchudehuazhishijilingyifangdedanaojiyuyizhongfangwei,biedededejilingyifangxiangxiangshineikongjian,rutongguohuadeliubaiyishu。zheicaisuanshizhenzhenzhengzhengdeneixingongzhen。
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