如何让女生喜欢自己?追女孩的技巧有哪些？

 ruhe rangnvshengxihuanziji ?wuluntashiganglejiemeiduojiudenvhai，huanshidanlianhenduoniandenvwang，wulunshizaishoujiweixinshang，huanshizaiyouhuiquanguochengzhong，ruheliaotian，liaonaxie，shizhongshijuedaduoshunanshengtoutongdeshier。zhuinvhaidejiqiaoyounaxie?changchangyudao“ng”“e”“hehehe”“quxianzao”，huoshiqitihurandiqingjing…

首位：饰演亲戚朋友

ruguonihenvhaigangjiaweixinhaoyou，ganglejiedeneishihou，zheiyifangfajiushifenkeyongle。ruherangnvshengxihuanziji?

 dabufennanhaizi，zaihebulejiedenvhaigoutongjiaoliushi，buyouzizhudouhuineimewen：nijiaoshenme，niduobianda，nixuedexueshenmezhuanye，niganshenmegongzuo，nilaizinali。wenzheileinantidenanhaizi，naodaiguadoujiaoweizhi，qingshangzhishangyibanbugao。

 yaolejie，zheileinantishilurenzhongjiancaihuiwende，ruguonihemeizhikailiaodeneishihou，liaozheileihuatitaolun，huirangdajiaxianghuguanxishenxianzheizhong“luren”dechujing。moshengren，jiuhuizaochengfengxianshujuxinhao，nvhaiduinibuyouzizhuzaochengfangyuxintaizhuangtai，neiyanghainengkaixindixianliaoma?jieguotongchangshi，genniyulaiyulengmo。

neima，renmengaizenyangraokaijiebeixinni?

1.赞扬

 zanyang，sheiburongyi?henbaoqian，nijianghuiqueshibutaiai。zheierdezanyang，bingbushizheixie“nihaopiaoliang”“nihaokeai”zheileidehua，zhongjiuzheizhongxuduonanhaizidoushiyong。zhuinvhaidejiqiaoyounaxie?

 renmenyaobaozheng，butong，neiyanggengfeichangrongyidedaonvhaideqinlai。shanyufajueguanjiandian，zhaodaomeizhibutongxunchangdediqu，haodezanyang，jiushishuorangtaganjue“nidongdeta”，“congweitingguozheileizanyang”。neima，nichuleibacuidejilvchengchengwanggaozhang。

如何赞扬?

 “jiandaonideduantoufa，yaowoxiangdaochujizhongxueshiqi，wozuiaiqiyadenagetongxue，chunchunde。”(suihoumeizhihuiyingnihou，nihuijiju：“chunchunde，zheipodiannaoshurufa”)

nideyizhedabanrangrenjuedeyanchuwutaifana，juedenihenxiangnvmote。”

 “kanguonidexiangpian，shiwozheizhongtihui。”，“naxietihui?”，“woyiweineiyangdexianzi，buyingdangzhuanshia，shijiantaifengxian。”

2.绰号

 tongchangshishuyouxiurencaishiqiwaihaoshiba?yinci，ruguonidechuohaoburongyishejiwururengetezhi、yongsu、manmadengbuyaguanchengfen，rutonghemeizhiganglejie，haodechuohao，doushixunsurangdajiaraokaijiebeixin。

 ruguonijitaqigebierenbucengqiguodechuohao，neima，woyezaitadezaiqianyishizhongzhongqianru“qinqipengyou”dejuede。youqihoubiandexianliaozhong，nibuduantijitadechuohao，neimanideyinxiangzaitaxinlingshenchujiugengweikegumingxinle。

例如：

nipiyixiaxianenggou，pijiwannenggoubuhao，wozhihouwoyejiaonipiyixiaxiahaola。zhuinvhaidejiqiaoyounaxie?

nideshuangyanheiliuliuxiangxiaoluyan，zhihouwoyejiaonixiaoyangba。

 yemaozi，haiwanshangbushuijue，douxianzaijidianle。(lirujiandaotashengengbanyeweixinfapengyouquan，neimazheihuajiushifenkeyongle。)

 shiyanqinqipengyou，nvhaigennixianliaohuigengweijiqing(xiangbilurendeliaotianfangshi)，youyuniyuta，bingbushiluren，zhishiqinqipengyoudecunyou。

其次：由浅入深

raokaijiebeixin，mudishigoujianzheizhongguishugan，rangnvhaixuehuifangxiajingxing，yunihaohaodixianliao。

 danzhongjiudajiaduixianghuhaibingbushifeichangzhangwo，neimanihaiyaoxuehaofangkongzijidexinxineirongdeyiqi，soujimeizhishifangchulaidexinxineirong。shenhuabaituomeizhidetifangxin。

1.简单自我介绍

 xianliaoqifenshifangyalidezhuangkuangxia，shidupaochuquzishendexinxineirong：woshixx，zaixxnianshu/gongzuozhong，nilei?(liuyie，“nilei”zheiliangzihenguanjian，shizhengqueyindaonvhaishifangchulaixinxineirongdefangfa。)

大量的，例如：

woshibobo，nilei?

我做经营的，你嘞?

woxuexinwenxuede，nilei?

bianjiandanziwojieshao，biantaochumeizhidexinxineirong。

2.意见反馈

 qiadangdezuofashi：yijumeizhirangnidexinxineironghou，kaizhan1gequweideyijianfankui，neiyangliaoxialai，meizhicaihuiganjuequwei，yegengweixiangyaohuiyingnidenanti。

例如：

“wojiushizuohulianwangyingxiaode，nilei?”

“wodangyouerjiaoshiya~”

“youerjiaoshie，neishibushinimeitianqiyaxiaohaizi?”

“shichangxiaoshoue，neimeniyanjiangkoucaishifoufeichanghao，wozhengchaohaowuyiwenchaodanshini。”

 yunyongxinxineironghuhuan，suihoujita1gequweideyijianfankui，budannenggoutishengmeizhideguishugan，hainengyijumeizhichushidexinxineirong，renmentiaoxuanshibushixushenhuagongjidebixu。

 dangnizaiyong“nilei?”taochumeizhidexinxineironghou，jiububizaiciwenle，neiyangjiushenxian“chahukoushixianliao”，meizhidanshishifendichude。

zuihou：zhanxiangaoshiyongjiazhi

 yiqiangaozizhong，wochangchangtiji，yaoxuehaoyunyongweixinpengyouquan，zhanxianzishengaoshiyongjiazhideyibian，zheiduinidexianliaoshiyeyoutingdaxiezhu。

zhongjiu，niyelejiexiaipiaoliangmeinv，nvhaimenyaoxiangzhaogeyoudianershiyongjiazhidenanhaier。

 yiyang，zaixianliaoquanguochengzhong，mingbaizhanxianzishendegenggaoshiyongjiazhi，youliyutishengmeizhiduinidehaogandu。(xiangzhangworuhefapengyouquan，rangmeizhiduiniyinxiangfeichanghaodedixiong，nenggougenjushoujiweixinheyangexiangjinzixun，jiaonixiangxidexuexidefangfa)

danshi，zenyangzhanxiangenggaoshiyongjiazhini?

 xuduoxiongdihuifanneiyangdecuo：“wohaizaiyijianqiyeshangshizuofuzeren，yueruyiwanduo。”zheibingbushizaizhanxiangenggaoshiyongjiazhi，zhishizaixianbai，nvhaihuiganjuenishifenkuadaqici!

qiadangdefangshishi：jiangtonghuagushi，jianjiezhanxianzishendegenggaoshiyongjiazhi。

例如：

 1.a，rujinmanshenshilulu，gangzaijianshenhuisuolianleyigebanzhongtou，yaohuijialexixizaoxian。(jiaruneng，jiushaichuniyizhizaijianshenhuisuodexiangpian，huoshiquanshenjirouzhao)

 2.rujintiqianzhunbeichizhongfan，danshishangcanhenmanle，juedeyaoesilezheili。(suihouchuanchugaoduandaqidefandianzhao，dengxiazaifashicaixiangpian)

3.haimeiyouxiabanleni，jinqiqiyeyaowochengdan1gexinxiangmu，mangqushile，rujinhaokun。(fayizhanggongzuozhao)

4.henmeia，zheier。(fayizhanglvyouzhao)

 getdaojingcuilemeiyou?jiangtonghuagushi，baokuozhenidexintaiheshiyongjiazhi，neiyangyekeyirangmeizhizhaohuatiliaotian，huiyingnidexintai，haowuyiwennideshiyongjiazhi。

 buhuiliaotianzheiyinandiankunraole90%denanshipenyou，changchangganliao?buqingchuliaonaxie?zhaobuzhehuatitaolun?bumingbaizenyanggennvhaixianliao?yaoshijiashangyangeshoujiweixin，zheizhongnantiyangetongtongnenggoulaibangnichuli，wonengxiangjinbangnipouxinidechengzhanglicheng，zhaodaonideboruodian，lingzhenixuehaohenvhaiqiadangdeliaotianfangshi，yuanyixuexipeixundedixiong，lijijiashangyangedeshoujiweixin(gennvhaiziliaotianfangfa，neiyangliaomashangchulidanshennannvnanti!)，dianyixiahuodeweixinhaomalijigenjuweixinyiduiyijutizhidaoni，bangnichulinideqingganwenti!

最后：学好倾听

 meiduanxianliao，kefouyiqiezhengchangliaoxialai，butaikenengzhinengmoulingyifangzaidouyin，duifangguayanshaoyu。xuduodixiongmeifazuodaoqishi。

 tamenruguodakailehuaxiazi，jiutingbuxialai，balabalayidui，meizhijiuzaixianshipinglingyice，jiangnidangerlengzixiangtong。neixinmonian：“fanbufan?”biaocengxiaomimi，neixinmmp。

 xuehaoqingting，yichengxiangdaiditonglingyifanggongxiangyuyue，tongchu，haiyaolingtinglingyifangdekaixinyufannao，suihouyijianfankui，biaoshuxinlai，huhuanxinxineirong，shenhualajindajiazhongjiandeqinqieganhezhiyugan。

 lianjie，yejiuzheiyangchuangjianqilaide。nanhaizi，zaidaliangneishihouyaoxuehaozhengqueyindaonvhaifayan，rangtashuo，yexuyaoxuehaoquqingting，suihouzuochuyijianfankui，zheisuanshiqingshanggaoderensuozuodeshier。

nei，zenyangzhengqueyindaoni?

nenggouyongnidetihui，laijinxinghuatitaolun。

事例1：

“nizheiyanjiemaoshihuadema?tingpiaoliangde 。”

wulunmeizhijiangnaxie，ninengzaicizhengqueyindao：“niduicaizhuang/zhengrongshoushu/ptuyoushenmeniantou?”

suihouzaiciwen：“weihe?”

事例2：

“nixiangshenghaohaoditing，gechangbixuyehenchaohaotingba?”

 wulunmeizhizenmejiang，nizaicizhengqueyindao：“nipingchangxiaitingnaxiedege?/najiagexing?”suihouzaicizhengqueyindao，“weihe?”

 huanjuhuashuo，yi“tihui”kaiju，zhua“guanjianci”tuokuan，suihoukaizhankaifangshiwenti，zhengqueyindaomeizhifayan。ciwai，keyiyong“ranhou?”“heihei，neijiexiaquruhe?”“zaicishuo，xiangtingzheni”dengzheileidehua，zhengqueyindaomeizhigennitouluqitaxinxi。

 dangnijiunawozheileifangshi ，nixunsuhuibianchengyiweiquweideqingtingzhe，goutongjiaoliuduole，neihuaweinidelingtinggongzuonengli，zhihounijiuhuifaxian，hemeizhixianliaodeneishihou，tahuahuihenduo，duiniyikaobianzhong，errumuran，sixuyeluoxialainizheierle

 tanduojiaobulan!jinrijiulinshijidahuoergongxiangzheizhongfangfa，keshi，woxianzaiyingdangzhidao，xianliaoshibixuxuexipeixunde，rujin，qingfazifeifudequsisuo，suihouyongxingdonggaozhiyange，niyuanyixuexipeixunzheiyixianliaozhuanyejinengma?

1.niyoumuyouxiajuexinxuexipeixun?

2.nixiangyaobaqianweizijixiangmutouzi，huanshixiangmutouzinvxingzuomaidanxia?

3.shibushini1geyouyizhilidenansheng?

 jiaru，nizaoyixiajuexinquxuexipeixunhegenggai，xiangyaojizijixiangmutouzi，bingqiedoushi1gejubeiyizhilidenansheng，nijiuranhouwangxiamiankan。

 xianliaowojuedeshi1gehenqianbodewupin，weihe?youyuyaoshishigepingchangren，ruguonixuele，woyenengwanbidanshennannv，xuehaoxianliao。

 xianggenggaima?yangeduinishuo，genggaishitongchude，keshi，bugenggaidejieguohuigengweitongchu，rujindenimeiyoumeizhi，keshi，jiaruwobugenggai，neiweilaide1nian、2nianyineininengyiranmeiyoumeizhi，dajiaxiangyishengguomeiyoumeizhideyishizhuxing?

 keshi，ruguonigangkaishiqugenggai，woyenengyuelaiyueherujinbutong，naizhi，bandedaoxuduozhiqianniyaodouhenpaxiangdeshiqing，rutongrenmendexueshengxiangtong!

qingsaozuai 1、zhangdebushuaiyoushenmeyong?

fangshi cuowu，qinfentulao!

 bubiweizijizhaoyuanyin，shijishang，90%denanshengdouzhangdebushuai，keshi，yaoshibawofangshi ，yaoshixiangyaoxuexipeixun，niyirankeyizhengfunvren，rutongrenmenxueshengxiangtong，tamenzhangdedoubushuaiba?shifouganjuedouhaimeinishuai?

 keshi，tamennengxunzhaonvyou，keshinilei?rengran，huanshizaiguozuoshouyoushouyigemanjingtou，zuoshouyoushoumanjingtouhuibodeyishizhuxing!

2、jingjifazhanbiaozhunbutaihaoyoushenmeyong?

 xueshengxunzhaonvyouhualeyaoduoshaoqian?erdajiayiqianyongbuzhengquedefangshi ，jinshidangmaidanxiayouhualeyaoduoshaoqian?dulisikao，zaiqusikao，tiaoxuanqiadangdelumian，nenggouchaoguoniyuanyidejieguo。

3.juedezishenben，nengxuehaoma?

 nanshengyingdangduizishenyouxinxin，yangezaoyijiaohuileshangwanmingxuesheng，jiranshangwanmingxueshengdoukeyixuehao，neimeniweiheganjuezishenbudong?nandaoshuoniganjuenibisuoyourendouben?