女追男教你如何去追喜爱的男孩子

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0. 谍报搜集

 ruguonijiandaozishenxiaidenanhaier，dangnizhunbeizhuiqiuwanmeita!zhunquedishuobenshilijiaochengshijiaoniruhetahuilaizhuiqiuwanmeini，zuixiannikeyiyoulingyifangsuoyoudediebao，zheidoushiweishadayilinranditiaoxuanlezijizuoweibanli。youyuzijidediebaowohuoxujiqibawo。danwojuedeneibushifenguanjian。

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duiyujiujingbixunacengmiandediebao，qingcanzhaoxiabiandeshilijiaochengzishenlijie!

1遇到

 ，keshilingyifanghaibulejieni，neimashouxianjiushishuoshengchanzhizaoouyu!zheijianshiqingshangrenmendebanlijinguanbutaigongyong，youyuxiangxindahuoerdouzaoyilejiezheiyixiaosabujidenanshengle。keshizuoweiketangjiaoxue，dahuoerhuanshinenggouxiaofangyixiaxiade。

hao，jiadingdajiayaolejiebanli——yuzhoukongjianjun。jingquedishuoshitahuilaiouyuni。gaizenmeban?

zuixianyaomotoutachangyoudediqu。

 anli：lirubanlichangchangqutushuguankaochuanghudebuweiqukanshu，(xu……lejieshiqingdepenyoububidashengshuochulai，wojinjinxiangjingjingdezhuangb)。

ranhounikeyiyitaxiaidefangfachuxian。

 anli：lirubanlijunzheiyishaguachangchangxinghuanxiangxiangxiangxiaoshuojixiangtongdejuqing，yingduizheileirengaizenmebanni?woyejingjingdelaidaotazuodebuweipangbian，bixuyaobitagengaijinchuangzi，baozhengneiyitianshi1gedaqingtian，waibiandetaiyangdajinquduizhenidemianjiayaolingrenyanhualiaoluantahuiyizhenzirumengsihuan。

 nvshenggaobaizenmeshuo?zuodingyihoucongbaoneiquchuyibenhaoshulai。naxiedeshu?dangniquchu1ben《shenlun》1bensiniangde《bishangniliuchenghe》neimagongxigongxi!niqianbiandeqinfenquantulaole。

 banlijunzheiyishaguashifeichanghaopiande，ninengchouchulai1benfanggulongdewuxiajianghu，tahuiganjuenihenyouxianvdeqichang，ninengchouchulai1bentaigeer/xuelaideshiji，tahuiganjuenizhenshishigeqinvzi，ninaizhinenggouchouchulai1benqiujierde《erzhanhuiyilu》kanqilaigaojiganwuxian。

 zheiyineishihoutixindiaodandiguanchata，tabixuzaibuduanditoukanni，chiyizhexubuxuyaoyunidahua。tangruotahuanshibuzujijigaizenmeban?

zhudongjingong!shengchanzhizaodahuajiyu

 anli：xiangbanlijunneiyangreqingxindishanliangnihaiyaozhuangzuobihuoshishudiaolaidaotuli，tabidinghuibangnijianqi。suihounishishidishuoyixiaganxie。ranhouniutouzaiciqukanshu，zheiyineishihoutaruguobuzhangkouxunwenni：niyekanzheizheishu/zheizheishuhaokanma? woyenenggouzhanqizoule。zheiyishaguabuzhitulaowugong。huoxu!banlijunxianeryijianbingbushineiyangdenanhaizi。

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 anli：nabanlijuneryanba。nibukeyishanglaishuo，bangwonidehaohaoma。(huoxubanlijunjiaoweidute，nineiyanglijiwenniyaohao，tahuiaizheniaidesiquhuolai。

 )duiyushuowoshoujishangmeidai/shoujimeidian。jishishijutiqingkuang，rujindenanhaierdoubingbushishagua，tabidinghuicaidaonideyongyide。yinciyaozaicibawozhubanlijundeshanjierenyi!zuixianjinipenyoudadianhuarangni，suihouniyizhenzhenfangunzhaodaoshoujishangjiedianhua，goutongjiaoliujifanyihoushuoneimewohuilaile。

 suihouzhanqizhengliwupin，qiaoqiaodebafankaliudaozhuozi，daozhiniyouyuganggangfanluandiaowupinkabushihenlaidaobaodexiabianmeiyoukandaodecuojue。zhuantoujiuzou!bixuyaokuai!yishitahuijianxinniyeshimangzhongchucuo，ershibimianzheiyishagualikejuqifankashuo：tongxuemennidefanka!

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2交往

tishengtayudaonidepinlv，tahuiganjuedajiazhenyouyuanfen

 anli：gaoshouworenweizheileishikanyuanfende，bukeyisheqiu。keshizaibuzudefanweizhineiyinweiwohuizuojiaodadeqinfen。jiaruwobuqidaizishenzaiguaijiaodengtaneimejiangjiayoulaotao，ninengzaitachangyoudediququhuanglaihuangqu。banlijunzishen shijiaoweijijide，tajianniyimianbidinghuiwenhao。

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youshihoujijifajigeduanxiaoxi，kankantanhuaneirongdezhudongxing

 anli：haola，dajiarujinyoudianershuxiqilaile，keshihaiyuebuchulai，huoxu，banlijunneiyangdediaosiniyeshisuiyinenggouyuede。xiangxinzhuweiyonghumuguangbixugenggaohenyuan。yincibukeyidacaojingshe，taizaoyuechulai。yinciduanxiaoxishifeichanghaodeyibu。shuonaxiedehuatitaolunni?

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 zheibukeyibiaomingtahenduiniyouganjue，naxiedezhuangkuangnengbiaomingtahenxiainilei?taqianglietuijianwanzheizhongshuyihoushuojiju，buqingchunishifouhuixiaizheizheishu，ruguoxiaidehua，haijidegenwoshuo。

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