女生追男生实质是什么?

 yiqianjiandaoxuduojiaofadoushuonvhaiqishiyinggaijiji，yinggaihenanhaizibiaoshuduitadehaogandu，nindehanyishifangfobubitahuilejiezishenxiaita?neimayilvlaila，tangruoxiaiyigechusenanhaizi，jiadingzishenyouzichanxiangfuhedehua，zaiwanghoumianyibugaizenyangzuoni?jiujingyingbuyinggaitahuilejie。bufencunganshisha，nvsheng zhuinansheng shizhiyoushisha?zenmezhuinansheng?shijidedecaozuobuzhouyouyinggaishinaxiedeni

nvshengzhuinanshengdeshizhi，qishishixiyinzhu

 jiaruniyunanhaiziyebulejie，talianwoshisheiyebutailejie，nichongguoquhetarenshuoxiaita，gusuantazongshiyilianmangrandeba?

 bingqie，biaobubiaoshuhaogandu，yebingbushinikeyicaozongde——xuduonvhaiganjuebiaoshuhaogandujiujinjinlijihetashuo，jitamenpengyouquandianzanpingjiajijizhaotaxianliaojiubusuanshibiaoshuhaogandu——baituole，zhendangbierenshixiazi，tarenkanbuchuma?

keshi，nibingbushixiaitama?ruguobuxianluzishenqinggandehua，ruhejianghuiyiqi?

jiandaoleba，zai「biaobubiaoshuhaogandu」zheijianshiqingshang，queshicunyouzheguoduorangrendanxindediqu。

xiangduinishuo：yigenantiyaobianchengyigenanti，zuixiantaxianruguoyigenanti(qinghaohaodisiliangyixiaxiazheihua)。

 worenwei，「biaobubiaoshuhaogandu」jiubingbushiyigenanti，nizhenshiyaokaolvdaode，shi「shiwonaxieyoushi?woxiangzenyangzhanxianjitamenkan?」

 ruhezhuinansheng?zailiaoyihui，「nihenxiaita」zheiyibusuanshiyoushi，yishizheiyitaimeiyoumenkanle，ershizhenshide「youshi」bushijiezhuyu「bieren」ercunyoude，jiushiniyikaozijijiunengyouzhedeyingzhengtishili。

 nihenpiaoliang、nidexiongtingda、nitunbuhenqiao、ninengzhengqian、niwenpinghengao、niyidianerdouweizuochangchangweichiwendingqingxu、niboxueduocai、nishifenquwei......zheizhongcaisuanzhongshixiaodeyoushi。

jiaruqueshizhaobudaozishenyounaxieyoushi，neixiandaotigaoyixiaxiazishen，zheicaishiyingdaoli。

buran，meiyouyingzhengtishilide「xiai」，zhongguijinjinnizishendeyixiangqingyuan。

meiyihuanjiezuomeiyihuanjiedeshier

bufahendafeichangrongyichezhedan

chukaizhei2genanti，zheinvhaihaiwenle「ruhecaisuandaotuiyibu?」

 xiangduinishuo，shuobailede「daotui」，bingfeiguliwuyuancunyoudeyigezishi，tayougechanshengdeqiantitiaojian，jiushishuo「zounidetaikuai」。

nannvpengyou，conglejiedaobianchengqinglv，qishiyaolijing5gehuanjie：

lejiederen——penyou——qinmipengyou——nuanwei——qinglv。

 meiyigehuanjie，jiuzhiyouzuomeiyigehuanjiedeshier，xiangyaoshengzhixiagehuanjie，haiyaozaizheiliyigehuanjiechongzuleiji，denghoutiaojianchengshuzaixiangfangfashengji。

 rutongshaguaibaozhuangxiangtong，gangkaishinizhiyoushihuangtong，niduoxunlian，zhidaoxianshulenenggoushengzhibojin，zaibojinpaiweizaixiulianjifan，nenggoushengzhijinzi。

 zhuinanshengdoushineiyang，jiarudajiajinjinjialeshoujiweixin，pingchanghuadoumeishuoguoyiliangju，neidajialianpenyoudoutanbushang，buguanzenmeshuozhiyousuan「lejie」。

 nikeyizuode，bingbushidianjizhezenyangbianchengtadenvyou，zhishidianjizhezenyangbianchengtadepenyou，bianchenglepenyou，zaikaolvdaozenyangbiancheng「qinmiwujiandepenyou」，suihousuanshinuanwei、qinglv...

 jiarudajiahaimeiyoulejieduozhangshijian，jiuxiangdangbierennvyou，hetajiaowangbatadangnanyoukanlai，neimenijiushishuo「yaxianle」，wubi「zhuihui」。

 yaojilao，qingganzheihuishi，jueduibukeyijiyuqiucheng，youbingbushiaoying，bingbushiniyaojinyajianchibuxiejiukeyilingyifangaodaode。

bufahenda，feichangrongyichezhedan;manmandelai，zheicaijiaoweikuai。

xiangshuodejiuzheizhong，wolaidayuezongdelaishuojinrideneirong：

 zhuinanshenggaibugaibiaoshuhaogandu，tashiyigemiulun，youyurenmenyougengzuigaiguanxindenanti，neibianshirenmenyinggaizenyangwajuegerenyoudian，zhanxianzainanhaiziyanqian。

yaojilao，meiyouyingzhengtishilidexiai，zhongguijinjinyixiangqingyuan。

 cizhi，nannvpengyouxiangchuyou5gehuanjie，renmenyaolejiezijihenanhaizideguanlianchuzainajiahuanjie，xianwangzheiyihuanjiechongzuleiji，suihouxuanzhunjiyushengji，zuizhongyibuyibushengjidaoqinglvdeguanlian。

neixinchibushangxishidoufu，manmandelai，caijiaoweikuai。