挽回咨询：挽回男朋友有效的技巧

　　wanhuinanpengyouyouxiaodejiqiao，zaiaidetuzhong，dajiananmianhuichuxiandiediezhuangzhuang，youshi，yishidechongdonghuocuxindayihenyoukenenghuishanghaidaodajiazuiqinaideren——xifu。dangsunhaiyijingzaocheng，zenmewanhuitadexin，mibuguocuo，zhongxindianranaidehuoyan，chengweibaizaihenduonanxingyanqiandeyidaonanti。jinri，jiurangwomenyiqitaolunzheiyijizhuangzhongyouchongmanwenqingtaolundehuati，yongshishangyouqudefangshi，weinintigongyifenhaoyongdewanliugonglvedaquan。

　　一、正视错误：勇于承认，真诚道歉

　　第一步：认识错误

　　fenshouwanhuidediyibu，nixuyaozuodebingbushijiqiebianbohuoduobi，fanershijingxialai，ziwofansitamendexingwei。wenwenzijidaodiganleshenme，weihehuishixifujuedenanguoheyihan。shiyanyushangdebuheli，huoshixingdongshangdecuxindayi?shiquefaguanzhu，huoshigoutongbudaowei?zhiyouxianrenshidaozijidecuowu，caikeyiweihouxudewanliudiandingjichu。

　　第二步：真诚道歉

　　zhiqianbingbuzhishi“zhendeduibuqi”sangezi，ershiyaozhenxinchengyibiaodanideqianjiuhekuijiu。kanzhetadeshuangyan，gentashuonizhendehenbaoqian，nirenshidaozijidegerenxingweiduitazaochengleshanghai，nijuedeaohuibuyihezize。buyaoqingyizhaoliyouhuotaobizeren，zhenxinchengyichengrenzijidecuowu，bingbiaodaniyaoweicifuchuqinfenjuexin。

　　shishangxingrong：zhiqianjiuxiangshiyichangneixinqingjiegongchengxiangmu，womenxuyaonachusaoba，qinglidiaoxinlidefuchenhewugou，rangshengmingzaicizhanfangguangcai。

　　二、沟通交流了解：倾听心声，共铸公路桥梁

　　diyibu：lingtingtaxinlihua

　　wanhuinanpengyouyouxiaodejiqiao，zairencuoyihou，nixuyaozuodeshilingtingxifuxinsheng。jitayigeanquanxing、lianghaodehuanjing，rangqikeyihaowubaoliudebiaodazijideganshouhekanfa。bubiqieduanta，buyaojizhebianbo，jinjinrenzhendeting，yongxintingtadetongkuheyihan。zhiyouxianmingbaileduifangdeganshou，nicainengfaxianwanliudetupodian。

　　dierbu：gongzhugoutongqiaoliang

　　hezuoshichuliwentidehexin。zailingtingyihou，womenxuyaohelaopojinxingshenrudegoutongjiaoliu，shenrutantaowentidebenzhihejiejuefangan。jilao，goutongjiaoliubingbushipipinghezhengzhi，fanershirenzhiheshangyi。shizhezhanzaitadejiaodusikaowenti，biaodanidelejieheguanai，tongshitichuyixiejianyihekanfa。tongguogoutong，dajiakeyiyitongdaqiyizuolejiedechuangkou，rangshuangfangdeneixingengtiejin。

　　anlifenxi：nikeyizheiyangshuo：“qinaida，womingbaiwozuijindegerenxingweirangniganjuedaofeichangshiwanghenanguo。wozhendehenbaoqian，wobingmeiyourenshidaozijidegerenxingweiduizijidedaozhilezheimedasunhai。woxiangtingtingnixiangfaheganshou，niyaogaozhiwome?womenyiqixunzhaowentidebenzhi，kanyixiaruhejiejuezheixiewenti。”

　　shishangxingrong：goutongjiaoliujiuxiangshiyichangxinlingdeduihua，womenxuyaonachumaikefeng，hetakaizhanshenrujiaoliu，rangshuangfangdeshengxiangzaineixinshenchuyingrao。