wanhuihunyinzenmebancainengchenggong,jiarunirenshidaozijishangtouxifudeneixin,xuyaotianbuwanliu,zhixuhaoyongqiadangyouxiaodebanfa,jiunengwanliuqizidexin,rangtamenzhongfanxingfukuailejuede,keshiyaozenmezuoni?
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一、选准缘故,对症治疗赎罪
xifudeneixinshiruhebeinishangguode?daduoshuyouzheixieyinsu,yibanshilaogongchugui、jiatinglengbaoli、mengpian、jiatingbaoli、shijiu、duqiandengbuliangxiguan,tingbujinquanjie,zhicuobugai,dulaiduwang,yizhibalaopodexinshangtoule。
genjuzijideqingkuang,jutifenxishizenmehuishishangtouxifudeneixin。jiarushijingchangxujiu、jiatingbaoli、duqiansuoyinqide,wanliudenandugao;jiarushibiedehunlianwentisuoyinqide,wanliudegailvda。yiner,yinggenjushijiqingkuangzhidingmudexingwanliujihuafangan。
jiarugenbenzhaobudaolingyifangshangxindeyuangu,huozheniweilewanhuifuchunulijinjinmeishenmejinzhan,keyigaosuwonideshijiqingkuang,wobangnipouxi,bingjinitigongzhengquededaolu。
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二、正视问题,真诚道歉
yigenanrenshangtouqizidexiangzhewanliushi,zhenchengderencuodetaiduyeshibixude。zaizhiqiandeguochengdangzhong,zuizhuyaodeshiyaozhengshiwenti,buhuibi、butaobi、buzhaojiekou。ershiyinggaichuandachuniduizijiweifaxingweidekuijiu,yijiduiyunvrenqinggandegaoduzhongshi。nikeyizheiyangshuo:
“xifu,zheijianshishiwozuodebudui,rangnishouweiqule,wohenbaoqian,worujinyeyishidaolezishendewenti,qingjiwojiyuyaowomibuwodeguocuo,wozhendehenaini”
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三、行为胜过言辞
wanhuihunyinzenmebancainengchenggong,xifubeishangtoulexinjiuhuiganjuebushufu,zheishihounanshengruoxiangwanhuiqizi,gengweixuzaisiweiheyuyanxingdongshangyishijixingdongzhengmingzijiyijingzuochulegenggai。
ruguoyinweibuzuguanxinduifangerzaochengdexinsui,neiyangcongjintiankaishi,duoshenshizijibugou,tigaoziji,tigaozijijingyingganqingjiejuewentidenengli。changchangguanzhu、lejie、tiexinanweilaopo,lingtakanjiannidegenggai,jinerhuiguotou。liru,yiqifendanjiawu、zhaoguxiaohai;zaibicigongzuozhongmianduicuozheshi,jiyuzhichiguli。
ruguoyinweiqingxubuwendingershanghaidaolingyifang,neiyangyaodongdekongzhihaozijideqingxu,biandeyuelaiyuewenwannaixin。koutoushangyaoshichanggaosutamendebiyaoxing,huayanqiaoyuyoushiyekeyicujinaiqing。
tayaoshirenweininenglibugou,neimejiugankuaitingqilai,gairenzhengongzuojiuyaonuligongzuozhong,gaitishengzijidenenglijiuxuyaotishengzijidenengli。
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四、回忆美好,憧憬未来
ruhewanhuilaoposhangtoudexin?dangduifangdeganshouyousuohuanheshi,nixuzhongxinjiqixifuduinideai。
yekeyichangshizuoyixielangmandeshi,biruyiqiqulvyou、youhui、jitasonglipindeng。zheixiejudongbudankeyitishengnimendeganqing,haikeyiliuxiameihaodehuiyi。
suihou,yiqitantaoweilaidejihua,gouleyigemeihaodeweilailantu,nengrangduifangkandaoduiyuganqingdejuexinhexiwang。
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