广州花镇情感公司靠谱吗？男友不听话说了就吵架？

 guangzhouhuazhenqinggangongsikaopuma？zaiwodeyinxianglitamenzidatanlianaijiumeiyoupingxinjingqiguo，shisantianyixiaochao，wutianyidachao!yiqieshierwodefaxiaoyaoshibumanyibianhuitongma，yagenburongyiyouxiaodegoutong。

jieguoshierbujinmeichuli，hairedenanpengyougengweibudongshile!jingchangpengdaonantiquanshibugaoerbie!

 tanlianaizhizhongdajiazaisuonanmianjianyibufuhe，meiyigerendesanguanjiqiduishiqingdelejieheguandianyoudoubuyiyang，pengdaomaodunwukebimian。zheigeshihouxianghubianhuiyaoxiangshuodonglingyifanggenggaitadejianjie，jienazishendejianjie。

 luojisiweichanshengmengliedezhuangji，kailangdejieguoshiyifangbeilingyifangshuodong，bicizhijiangengweimibukefen，xiaojidejieguoshishuodongzhuanbianchenglezhengzhi，lianggerenbugaoerbie。yinci ，zainanhaihenvhaijiaowangzhong，xuehuigoutongshishifenguanjiandeyijianshi。

 shijishangshuo“bu”burongyiweihailiangrenzhongjiandeqinggan，jinjinnixuyaoxuehaowenroudebiaoshuzishen“bu”deniantou，guangzhouhuazhenqinggangongsikaopuma？erbushiqiangshidebalingyifangduihuilai。nvxingzainannvguanxizhongzishenbianshiruoxiao，shidiyiruobingwubuke。

neima，xiangrangnanshengtingnidehua，nilejiezuihaoshidegoutongjiaoliufangshishishama?

 dabufenrenyebuzhongshigoutongjiaoliu，shuochulaidehuadoubulijingrendedanaosisuo，quankaozishendepiqi。neiyangshixiaodegoutongjiaoliu，zongshijiazhongnanrenhenvrendewujie，rangliangrenyuelaiyueyuan。

那麼怎样创建一次好的沟通交流呢?

shuo“dajia”erbuyongshuo“wo”huo“ni”

 liangrenzaiyiqi，jiuzaoyicong2gedulidegeren，bianchengleyigezongti。yaoxiangzheiyiduanqinggangengweijiangu，zaigoutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhong，jiuxuyaochixujiaqiangzongtidecunyou。yinci ，yulingyifangjianghua，yaoxiguanxingyong“dajia”laitidai“wo”huoshi“ni”。

liru：pengdaonanti，bubixianghuzhijiantaobizeren，zhangzuibikoufencibianshi：

“这是你的事儿”。

yaoxuehaohelingyifangzhanzaiyiqi，duitashuo：

“tashidajiadeshier，niyinggai......”

neiyangshuo，caikeyirangnanshengganxinqingyuandiqugaohaomoushi，bingnengjiazhongdajiazhongjiandetuanduideningjuli。

先卖萌后立即表述心里的需求

qingshanggaodenvren，zaiqingganli，yidingmingbaixiangnanshengrenrang。youyu，neiyangzuocaikeyirangnanshengdeyouyuegantuxianchuqu。

 shijishang，zaiqingganli，nvrenyaoxiangde，zhibuguojiushineigenengjizijidangfengzheyudenansheng，danjiarunishenmeshiqingdoulizaiqianbian，nanshengyouruhejinidangfengzheyuni?

yinci ，zaigoutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhong，nvrenyaoxuehaoshidudexiangnanshengrenrang。

 ruguonixiangyaonanrenjiniwanchengmouyixinyuanshi，nihebuxianhetasamaimeng，dengtaduinixintairouhedeqingkuangxia，zailijibiaoshuxinlidexuqiu。neiyangzuoyuanbinizhilingta，huoshihetayoukuyounaogengheli，haibubushangheqi。

先赞扬再指责

youshenmewenti，jiuyingdangyaoqiangdiaolai，zheicaisuanshiyigehaobanlvdegangweizhize。

 shubuzhi，xuduo nvxingkandaizheijianshiqingdezuofabianshiyitongluanma，bananshengzeguaideyiwenbuzhi。neiyangdegoutongfangshi，zongshirangliangrenyuelaiyueyuan，xianghuzhijiankanbuguan。

 shijishang，ruguoniyaoxiangzhizenanshengdeqingkuangxia，niyejiugaihuixiangdaotongnianjiaoshiduixueyuandepingjiayu。xianzanyangzaizhize，neiyangdebiaodaxingshi，caigengfeichangrongyibeitarenjiena，yecaikeyizhenshiwanchenggoutongjiaoliudeshiyongjiazhi。

七分心态、三分內容

 nanhaihenvhaigoutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhong，henduorendouchixuzaizhuzhongneirong，yicicitishilingyifangyaozenyang、gaizenyang。shubuzhi，yicihaodegoutongjiaoliu，guanjiandeshixintaierbushineirong。jianghuadeyudiaohexiaobiaoqing，caisuanshiyouxiaodegoutongdeguanjianqiantitiaojian。

yinci ，zaiyunanshenggoutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhong，nvxingbuyinggaizhigaoqiyangdechize，yebuyinggaiyilianxianqidemaiyuan。

haohaodigoutongjiaoliu，xuehaowanshanzijidexintai，xiaorongzhebiaoshuzishendeniantou，caikeyirangnanshengxiangyaotingxiaotingjinlai!

以进为退的沟通交流

 shijishangyoudeqingkuangxianvxingxiangrangnanshengkaolvzishendeguiding，buyidingyaoneimaqiangshi，nenggouyingyongshehuixinlixueshangde“chaiwuxiaoying”，dayuehanyijiushiniyaozaifangjianneikaiyigequanjingtianchuang，tishengwuzidesedu，dahuoerbutongyi。keshinixianmingquetichuyaobafangdingchaixialai，rangwuzishanguangdian，dahuoerhaowuyiwenhuijue;cikenizaimingquetichuzhixiangyaokaigeyigequanjingtianchuang，dahuoerbianhuiyuanyile。

《yingxiangli》dechuangzuozheyuehanxun·xiaodichenicengzuoleyigeshiyan：

shiyangongzuorenyuandaoxiaoyuanneiliwenxueyuanmenshibushixiangyaozerenpeiyiqunshaonianfancanguankaochayeshengdongwuyuan。

 tingjianshipeiyiqunyiqianjingligezhongbuliangxingweiderendaineimazhangqi，bingqiemeiyouchoulao，xueyuanmendoubuyuanyi，zuizhongjuedaduoshuren(83%)jujuelecixiangguiding。

zhihoushiyangongzuorenyuanhuanleyizhongfangfaduigaiyuanxiaodexueyuantichuwenti，jieguoquejiongranbutong。

 tamenxianyaoqiuxueyuanzaizuishao2niandeshijianli，meixingqihualianggezhongtoudeshijianweishaonianfanmenchushifuwuzixun，henxianeryijianrenherendoujujuelezheiyitamenjuedefeichangbukexuedeyaoqiu。

ranhoushiyangongzuorenyuanpaochuquzheiyisuitongcanguankaochayeshengdongwuyuandeyaoqiu。