花镇情感咨询曝光，关于爱和性他说得最明白

 youxierenshuo，quanshijie，meifenmeimiaodoushiyoubeiduofendequzizaizouchuzaiyingrao，huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，jiaruzhenyouwaixingrendehua，tamenhuibazheixiangshengrenzuodiqiushangdebiaoshi(rutongmuxingyouyidaopiaoliangdehuan)，youcilaifenbiandajiachuyuqishangdezheikexingchen。tashigelanmandexiangxiang。bufangzailanmanxieni?yaoshiyouwaixingren，waixingshengwuzufuyidinghuigaozhiwaixingshengwuxiaosunzi，zheixiangshengbuguoshijinerbainianlaicaichuxiande，erbizheixiangshenglishiyoujiudeduodexiangshengshi“ganqing”。ganqing，shuqiannianlairenmenyigezhonggeyangyinbiaofayinshuozhe、changzhe、zanyangzhehechongjingzheta，chanmianfeicebolanzhuangkuoyihuierbuduan。yiner，waixingshengwuzufuyidinghuigaizhengwaixingshengwuxiaosunzi：ganqing——zheixiangsheng，caisuanshitaiyangxizhongneikepiaoliangxingchendebiaoshini。

dan，shenmeaiqing?ganqing，doushishenmeni?

 dagaiburongyiyouxierendizhi：xingfudeganqingbixubaokuomeihaodexing，erxingfudexingziranyaoyiganqingweiqiantitiaojian。youyushijieshangyeyouyizhongchengwei“youhao”deganqing，jiqiyizhongchengwei“piaochang”heyizhongchengwei“ouda”degerenxingwei。yincidagaiyejiuburongyiyouxierendizhi;ganqingbingbudengyuxing，xingyebukeyitidaiganqing。haosijidianlidenanrenhuonvrendoubukeyitidailianren。

zheileisiyaosuanyizhongjibenchangshi。

 nantishi：nagebuxiangdangyuxingdeshenmeaiqing?nagexingsuobukeyitidaideganqing，shisha?baokuoxingerqiechaoguoxingdenageganqing，daodishiruheyizhongshi?

huoxuganqing，bianshiyouhaojiaxingxiyin?

 jishizheijixieshebeidejiajianfabingbunengxiao，keshi，huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，weihenideyixingbujinshige，erlianrenquezhiyouyige(huolingwaizhiyouyige)ni?youyuzhiyouyigeduinizaochengxingxiyin?shibushi?

 huoxuyouxierenshi。kebushiwo。bushiwobingqiexiangxin，xiangwozheiyangbujincongyigeyixingpengyouneiliganshoudaoxiyinzhuderenxuduo ，xiangwozheiyangbujinbeiyigepiaoliangnvrenzhenjingshuangyanhejingraolexindenanrenxuduo ，xiangwozheiyanggongbuhuoananzanyangguo2gezhishangmeihaoyixingpengyouderenhaowuyiwenzhanzherenmendedabufen。

 zhengshishijishangjianyi：niyaomeiyoukandaozheifenairenzhishinizaojiukandaoleyixingpengyoudemeihao，nibeiyixingpengyoujingdonghexiyinzhuyihounicaigangkaishixunzhaolianren。niyizhizaizhaoxunyigeshiqianbingbuquedingxingdeyixingpengyouzuozheifenairen，zheibiaomingniyizhizaitiaoxuan。niyizhizaitiaoxuan，zheibiaomingduijinixingxiyinlideyixingpengyoubingbuzhiyouyige。neima，tiaoxuandeyijushisha?

 ruozhishishixing，bianmeiyoushenmeaiqingchansheng，yincineishishengwujiexiyiweichangdeexingshijianyuwenzhongbuxianggan。nideyijuziranshiganqing。

keshishenmeaiqingyandixiahaibuzhidao。

rujinzhizhidaoyijianshi：xingxiyincongbushiyiduiyide，jihushiduoxiangde，buranzhongqunbianyaozaiwushichangjingzhengzhongshuailuo。

 duleguoyipianxiaoshuoji，xieyiduiqinglv(huofufu)waichuqu，zouzaijieshang、zourudianpu、zuoshanggongjiaochehezuoshangfandianli，nvrenfajuenanrendeyanguangjingchangkanxiangciwaidenvren(yixiehaokanhuoxingganmirendenvren)，yincitacongmeiqudaonaonuyizhilikaineinanren。zheipianxiaoshuojixianzhushifengcinagenanren，jianxintabumingbaiganqinghebuzhongchengganqing。

 dangaizuozhedezheiyifenbianjinyouyibandekenengshiduide，jinyouyibandekenengshi，nagenanrenbingweibaituoyibanxiaodongwudeduiwu。ciwaiyibandekenengshinagenvrenbuhuitanlianai。zuixiantameigaoqingaihexingdegezi，xingshiduopianxiangde，erxingdeduopianxiangbuyidingbunengyuaidezhuanyibingcun。cizhitabazijizhishifangdaolexingdebuweishang，youyujinyouzaizheigebuweishangtayuciwaizheixienvrencaisuanshixiangbide。disan，neinanrenmeiyouyouyuzhuduodexingxiyinerliquta，takexiangguozheishiweishenmema?taxianeryijianmeixiangguo，youyudaoshitazhishiweilegenghaodixingjiduerlikaitadeqinglvhuolaogong。