花镇情感咨询给退款么？三个小技巧加固你的感情

 qinggandelumeiyouneimayifanfengshun，congchuangjianguanliandaobaitoudaolao，zhengzhongjianshuochengyoujiujiubashiyinanyebusuanguo。huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？dajiaruhebaozheng womendeaikeyiwendingjindaozhangqixingguanlianbingbaochini?

 shijishangzheizhengzhongjiandeyaodianyouhenduo，yijudajiadeguancha，xuduo lianaiguanxidagaidoushihuizaidi6geyuedaodi10geyuezhongjianfashengzhengzhi。youzheizhongbuyiyangdefenqi，leyuhuizongchusangeheshidahuoerdexiaoqiaomen，xiezhudahuoerwendingjindaozhangqixingdelianaiguanxi。

1碰到难题，把另一方的错误做法归结为于外界要素

 wulunheshi，ruguonijuede“tajiuzheichouxingzi，wufagaibian”“tazixiaojiushizheiyang，meifa”。neimatahenyoukenengshizhongdouburongyizuochuyiqiegaishan。tangruoniyaorangtayuelaiyuegengqiang，neimaniyejiubixuxuehaobatadecuowuzuofaguijiedaowaijieyaosu。

举个事例

“nijintianqingkuangneimechayidingshiyouyugongzuoyalidale，jinyehaohaoxiuxishuiyijue，mingtianqilaihaowuyiwenjiushushideduo”

“zheibuyidingdoushinideyiwu，henyoukenengjinjinanquanyinhuanzaoyichuxianle，jinjinzainizheierzuinengtixianchuqubale”。

neiyangdefangfa，gengfeichangrongyijiangzheizhongfumianxinxidewupinquchuchudajiadeerrenshijie，rangdajiadeguanlianyuelaiyuegengweihemu。

2一还有机会就夸ta，别抠门

 huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？xuduo jiaoyuzhedougaoqingchu，shunxiangdegulitongchanggengfeichangrongyirangyigehaiziyuelaiyuegengqiang，zailianaiguanxizhong，zheiyidianyeyiyangkeyong。tangruonimeimeiqinglvganleyouyihuoshilingniyuyuedeshiqingshidounenglijidezanyang，budannenggoutisheng tazhuyaobiaoxiangengqiangdezhudongxing，haihuijixushitaqingxidijuededao，niyizhizaiguanxinzheta。

举个事例

“baobeiguainijintiandecaizuodezhenhaokan，bishangyanwohaiyiweiwohaizaimiqilinluntaini”

“nijintiandeqingkuangyetaihighle，laoshijiaodaishibushinizaoyibeizhangxinle?”

 lijidezanyangtingqilaibuzhiyiti，danrutongrunhuayeduiyuchaojipaoche，youdeqingkuangxianihenyoukenengburongyifajuetadeyichu，meiyoudeqingkuangxiahenrongyichunanti。

3始终别舍弃和她一起做趣味的新鲜事

 yigejuedaduoshulianrendoushihuifandebuzhengqueshi，yidanjindaozhangqixingguanlian，jiufeichangrongyibashenghuoguodeyichengbubian。“quwei”jihudoubingbushichuantongdingyishangdahuoerganjueshifenguanjiandezhiliang，dannihedeheneng，yaorangnixiaidenvrenyuyigefaweide、meiyouchongzugongzuonenglirangrichangshenghuoyuelaiyuegengqiangdenanshengzaiyiqini?tangruonideqingganjinruleyichengbubianzheiyiqingkuangdehua，jiuyidinghuiyoudaliang“haimeiyouzuojiulejiesuoranwuweideshier”。niyutayiqijinfandiannilejietachishabuyaochinaxiehetayiqiquktvnilejietahuidiansheidegenaizhipapanidounengtizaolejiedajiajinrihuicaiyongshenmezitai。

zheileizhuangkuangxia，qingganzenmekenengchijiudeleni?