花镇退款成功的有吗？了解男人软肋做两性关系掌舵者

 huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma？youyifudongmanmanhuajiaoweikegumingxindijiemilelianaizhongnvrenhenanrendeqingkuang，neibianshiyigecongmingxiangxiaohuli，lingyigeyumeiwuzhiruzongxiong。

 dangnanrenyudaoaiqing，daduoshuhuizhanqianguhou、youyubuding，tamenhuikegumingxindisisuoyanxiazheiyinvxingdaodishibuyiwanhun，shifouhuiweihaizishendeqiantu。

 dangnvxingzaoshouaiqing，daduoshushifenbugushen，yiwufangu，weilegenghaodiyanxiazheigenanrenfangqiyiqieyezaisuobuci，weikongzishendefenbiexinzhanwulechonggaodeaiqing。

yiner，zaiqingganzhizhongyihuomangrandedaduoshushinvxing，biantilinshangdeyetongchangshinvxing。

wobiaozhunneimeyouyi，taweihehuijuewo?

wotianshenglizhishencaimiaotiao，taweiheyeyaozaiwaimianzhaomeinv?

woduitahanshoudimei，weimingshicong，weihetaquecongbuzhengyanjianwo?

ruguonibuzukanchuannanren，yebuzhidaotamenneixinzaixiangshenmedeshihou，niyizhizaizheiciqinggandeboyilijiuzaojiuchuyuxiafeng。

erdangnanrenhuranpengdaoyigebuanchangqingdapai，buanzhaoshuzuoshidenvxingshi，tamendequedianjiuyishunjianpuluhaowuyiwen。

jiarunibuyuanzaiweiqingsuoshang，yibuweiaisuokundeqingkuangxia，hebuxuexipeixunyixia《fengqiuhuang》lideliuchuyudeaiqingguan。

一、倘若要想三妻四妾，休怪我对你三夫四婿

 《fengqiuhuang》zhongdefumayeheji，yinpianaishanyingongzhuliuchuyuderongmaoerliangzhezhijianxijieliangyuan，shubuzhizongshihunqutongyehuayuequerengranbuyuanganyuyishi。

tamanzhexiaogongzhuzaipengyouzhichubaoyangnvdaxueshengshiqiesongshi，cihoulebusishu，huiweiwuqiong。

 shanyingongzhuhuozhiyihou，bujinmeiyousipolianhuomaosanzhang，fandaozaigongzhufuzhongsiyangleyidapicaimaojianju、geyoubutongdedashuaige，cihouguoshangxuanliduocaidexingfudeshenghuo。

dajiajiematahuiluanhougong、shangfengbaisu，fumayeyeshiduitashenetongji，yizhixiangchuzhierhoukuai。

可是小公主呢?

hushifansudejushu，youyilengdanfumaye，zaigesegeyangnanshendeqinglaiheziyangxia，shenghuofandaoguodegengweixingfukuaile。

yincihejiduisongshishiqiedechimixunsuxiaotui，qudaitadedeshiduiliuchuyunanyiwanghuaidezenghen。

 dangyuchuyurongyanleisidexuanwuyinzhixingrenwufangmaoxiaogongzhujinzhugongzhufudeqingkuangxia，zaoshoulehejiyinxianduladeyinsuanhehendudeduifu。

xuanwuyiyigexiaomianrendezhenshishenfenwenheji：niweishenmehenchuyu?

hejidehuiyingshi：woaibuaita，jiuhuiyouduohenta。

xuanwuranhouzhiyi：jirannishenaizhexiaogongzhu，weishenmequeyaozaiwaimianzhaohuarecao?

hejitangsaixuanwushuo：neishipengyouzengyudewanju，woduitajinjinniqingwoyuan。

zaixianshishenghuozhong，henduonanrenzaiwaiyuxianxingbiaozhundeqingkuangxiayehuixuanyongzheileifangfaanweizijidezhengshi：

 wodezhenzhengdeaiqingweiyouni，duitamenjinjinniqingwoyuan。naizhiyeyounanshengwangzizundadishuo，shinanxingdoushihuiwaiyu。youhuoshihouyanwuchidishuo，wozhibuguofanlenanshengdoushihuifandebuzhengque。

duiyucishiwozhiyoushuo，buguanaiqinghuanshihunyinshenghuo，doubixuhuxiangdezhongshiheduideng。

 zhenduizheixieyibianshuozhe“zhiainiyige”yibianquezaiwaimianzhanhuarecaodenansheng，nidanenggoutiaozhanyixiatadedaodedixian：jiaruzhunnisanqisiqie，nishibushizhunwosanfusixu?

jiaruhuiyingshifourende，jiuqingtazunzhongziji，yezunzhongzijidehunyinshenghuo，gengbubiqingyidizhanwu“ai”zheigezi。

gongpingdehunyinshenghuo，yaobuxiangjingrubin，xiangzhixiangxi。yaobugemanggegede，liangbuxianggan。

二、你如果不爱我，那因为我不爱你好啦

 《fengqiuhuang》lidexuanwu，aidetaoxintaofei，shisirugui，quehuandebeilianrenrongzhishuaxinyandeqilizisan、minbuliaosheng。zheihuoxuyushiqingbufuhe，danzuishaojilexuanwuneiyangdetihui。

nanguoxianxia，tahuanshibugandiwendaorongzhi：niyoumeiyoucengjingaiguowo?

huodedehuiyingshi，fenhaomeiyou。

 ganjuezishenyiqieruwosuoyuanderongzhi，bingzheyuqingguzongdezhaoshudengzhexuanwuhanzheleiqiutabiezoudeqingkuangxia，quemairulexuanwudezhimingyiji：gefaduanqing。

jirannibuaiwo，neiyinweiwobuainihaola，jiuneimejianyi。

 cengjingdewoduinidetouruduinideai，neishiwozishenganxinqingyuan。erjinribeinihuijuebeiniquru，yinweiwocihouyibujinjinjijiao。

 zheicaisuanshiyingduifenshouhouzuiqiadangdexintai：bingbushidengdainanshenggenggaixiangfahehaoruchu，zhishiyixiaominenchou，cihoutianyashiguoluren。

 nideneiyifenbuganxin，neiyifenshebude，jiqineiyifensheqiu，shishushiyizhongduguixinlizhuangtai：yuanduerbupakunnan，xiangwanquewanbuqi。

dannineileiqianxinwankuwanhuideguzhihebaotoutongkudemingan，zongshirangyanxiasunhainidezheigenanrengengweichunfengdeyigengweijinqing。

tanenggoutiaoxuanzaicihenizaiyiqi，keshiziciyihouzheifenaihuiyulaiyudijian，nidedaodedixianyebeituoshijianjijuxiajiang。

tahaikeyitiaoxuanhuijueni，bingliuzheeyudeyanleirangnifayizhanghaorenka，jiniyibianbeitongyujueyibianduitawangbudiao。

nixiangyaobazijibianweineiyangdenvxingma?jilaoyijuhua，yaoshizishenganjuemeiyouchidakui，jiumeiyourenzhandelenishenmehuasuan。

xiangfan，weilegenghaodizaoyisadiaodeniuruaitongtongxi，fandaoshizaihunrizixingming。

 jiaruyouxierenchongzhenideyipianzhenxinshiyishuobu，bubilianlianbushe，huishenjiuzou。rutongchuyuchangshuode，zhenduimeiyigerenlaijiang，cunhuocaisuanshizuizhongyaode。fenshouhoujinguanrangrenshangxin，keshishijianzongyouyitianhuipingfuyiqie。

nidejueran，fandaohuirangnanshengfangcundaluan。youyuwufadedaode，yizhizuihaoshide。shiqu，tamenfangkedongdeaixi。

nizoule，tamencaihuirenzhenquzhuiyiyunijiaowangdeyidianyidi。mingbaifangkaishou，nicaikeyizhenshidiyouzhe。

三、适当对男人说不的女性，反倒让男生不能自拔

zaiyiduanqingganli，nvxingyibanjuedeweimingshicong，congmingtinghuahuirangnanshenggengweiaizheni，yuelaiyueaini。

 shijishang，nanshengsuiranyierzaizaiersanshuoxiaixiuwaihuizhong、shanjierenyidenvxing，queshibeikuangfangbuji，gexinghuatuxiandenvxingsuoxiyinzhu。

 youyutamenshiyushengjulaidelierenshou，huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma？yinci tamenxiangyoudebingbingbushiliedaolenaxielieshi，shoufulenaxienvxing，zhishiquanbubuliehexunhuadequanguocheng。

 《fengqiuhuang》lidetianshitianrujing，zuoweiyingxiangliyuquanweixinggaoguojunquandeshendepinpaidaiyanren，shiyigexinbitiangao，mukongyiqiedenansheng。

 keshi，congxuanwukandaotadediyiyangangkaishi，jiugangkaishibutingditichuzhiyitadequanweixing，tiaozhantadedaodedixian，haidangzhongfengcitashi“shengun”、“pianzigongsi”。

 zheirangyixiangbeishouzunjingdetianshifannaobuji，bingdakailezaixuanwuyanqianwujinxiujiroudefangshi。erhaoxiaodeshi，xiuzhexiuzhe，zhigaoqiangdetianshijiuzhuiruaihewufazibale。

这就是男人的软肋。

 yiweidishuncongherangbu，zongshirangtazaizheiliduanqingganzhongyufaganjuekuzao。erqiaruqifendigaosutabu，quenengyinqixiongxingheermengdebaoman，buguyiqiedizhengshizishen。

 yiner，buyaozaifoxingdelumianshangyuelaiyueyuan，bubiyizhiduinanrenshuo“suiyi”、“douhao”、“buzaihu”。nijuedenishizaishuncongta，tajuedenishizaifuyanleshita。

jiaruyaoxiangzaochengtadeliuyi，neimayingyongdigaosuta“bu”。

jiaruxiangyaonanrenyuelaiyueaini，jiuxuyaorangtadeshouliezhilujianxianjianxin。

 jiaruyaoxiangyiduanaiqingbaitouxielao，jiuxuyaozuoyigeshizhongyouzishenguannian、shizhongmeifabeixunhuadenvxing。zaiaiqinghehunyinshenghuoli，bingbushixiangyaoniqianghanduitayatayitou，zhishiyaolejie，niyoulenidedaodedixianheburangbudezhulizijin。

知彼知己，百战百胜。