花镇咨询投诉，如何把爱情掌握在自己手中

 relianguohoudenvhaidoushihuigangkaishisikao，youyuhenaixizheiyiduanganqing，zongdianjizhenengholdzhuzishendenanpengyou，jinjindejiangaiqingbawozaizishenshoushang，shizhongneiyangdexingfukuailexialai，yinci xuduonvhaidouhuilejieyouguannvhaitanlianaijiqiao，zenyangcaikeyirangaiqingyongheng。huazhenzixuntousu，shijishangjingyinghunyindefangshifeichangjiandan，ruguoninengbaozhengduiganqingchengdan，rangnanpengyoumeishimeikedounengjuededaonisuochanshengdewennuan，zheijiuchongzule。

zaizheierdajiahuizonglezailianaizhong，duinanpengyouganwanbukeyizuodeshi，jidahuoergongxiangyixia————

第一件事：不必揭穿另一方，更别一直提提出分手

 lianaizhongxuduonvhaihuiyuelaiyuehusiluanxiang，youyujiemeimenzongyouyizhonghuanjue，neibianshinanpengyouzongyouyitianhuipaoxiazishen，huifangzishenguishuyuxianghudeganqing，yinciyuanyuyuxinlingshenchudequefazixinhuijiangbuanquanganbianda，jinerzongqujiechuanlingyifang，kanyixiazishendenanpengyouduizishenxintaizenyang，shibushiyouyiqingbieliandehenyoukeneng，naizhidongjingdoushihuidadongzishenbijiaomingandeshenjingxitong。

 yeyoushenzhi，qinglvdouhuiyouyidingdemoca，dangmocabianweizhengzhishi，youdenvhaihuijiangchu“tichufenshou”liangzi，jinguanxinlingshenchubingbushineiyangxiang，zishenjinjinxianggenjutichufenshoujinkuaidewanbicicizhengzhi，bingqieguohoudoushihuishuozishenjinjintaibulizhi，yinci caihuijiangchutichufenshou。danzainanhaizilaikan，tashihenwufarenshoudeshi，buguanzenyangyuangu，yaoshijiangchutichufenshou，bianshiduiganqingdebugaoduzhongshi，youyuzaitamendeyishizhong，tangruozhendehenainizheiyiduanganqing，wulunzenyangzhengzhidouburongyishuotichufenshou，zhishixiangchulidezuihaoduice。

第二件事：不可以仗着男孩子宠溺你，就太过的扩张自身的支配权

 bansuizhetanlianai，nvhaimenchangchanghuichuxianxuduohuanjue，lirunanpengyouduizishenjiqidechongni，yinci jiubalingyifangdangzuozishendebabamamayiyang，juedebuguanzishenduomedejiaozong，tadoushihuiwujindekuanrongzishen。yincizheizhongzimeigangkaishikuozhangzishendezhipeiquan，rangzishenyuelaiyueyulaiyutaiguo，danniyaojilao，huazhenzixuntousu，rujinhuanshilianaidejieduan，dajiazhongjianjincunyouganqing，haibingweigangkaishiyouganqingxiangzhenqingdetisheng，erzhenzhengdeaiqingbixuxianghutouruhekuanrongde，weiyounichongzudetouru，caikeyiyouzhipeiquansuoyao。

suoyishuozhangzhelingyifangdechongni，guofendesuoyaonanhaizidekuanrong，zheibidinghuidaozhiganqingdebupingheng。

第三件事：他是这份爱人，不是你肚里的寄生虫

 jianxinjuedabufendenvhaizaizhengchaoshidoushuoguoneiyangdehuayu：“niyidiandoubumingbaiwo，niyagenjiubuaiwo!”wangwanghuijiangchuneiyangdehua，shiyouyuxuduonvhaidexinlingshenchu，yongyou neiyangyigebuzhengquedeluojisiweiyishi，neibianshi“niaiwojiuliyingzaihunisuoyoudesixu”。

 zanqiebushuozheijuhuadexianshiyiyishibushizheiban，ruguoninenglveweisikaoyixia，xiangyixiangnishibushichedizhangwolingyifangxinlisuoganjiukeyi……mingbailema?lianrendebukeyiquefagoutongjiaoliu，zheijiushizuiyagendeyuangu!dajiazhongjiancunyoudeluojisiweiyishichabie，wubideyonggoutongjiaoliulaichuli。

第四件事：关心恋爱中的琐事