花镇咨询投诉，男友不想结婚，如何引导？

 xiangyu、xiangshi、enai，suihoushunliditaruhunyinshenghuoshiyizhongjiandandekuaile，shubuzhixuduo nvshengpengdaolenanpengyoubujiehundezhuangkuang。huoshitahaimeiyougaohaojindaohunyinshenghuodetiqianzhunbeihuoshixiangzaiwanliangnianhuoshidanyouyiwanhunzishenbianhuibeijushu，huazhenzixuntousu，danshinvhaierdenianjidengbuqia，zenyangzhengqueyindaonanpengyoujijixiangnilangmanqiuhunni?qiekanxiamian。

第一招、寻找男朋友不结婚的缘故，对症治疗

zhangwotabujiehundeyuangu，nanrenbujiehundeyuanguyouhenduo：

1.taganjuenibushizuilixianghuadewanhunhouxuanren，yituozaituobuyuantaruhunyinshenghuo。

 xiangxinziji，nanrenzaiwanhunzheiyijianshiershangshifeichanglixingde，wulungangkaishideqingkuangxiaduomedefengkuangdezhuiqiuni，jiaowangchulaitaganjuenibushishihezuolaopodezuobangyoubei，jiuburongyijijitiwanhundeshier，tahenyoukenengzhaogezhonggeyangtuoci，duiwanhundeshiyituozaituo，shuodaodijiushitaganjuenibushizuiheshidelaopohouxuanren。

 tips：zuoweinvpengyounixuyaozuochuxiangduidediaojie，liru，tazongshixiannitaoqianhuaqianruliushui，neimaniyinggaishoulianxingyixie，suzaocunkuandelianghaodexiguan。taxiannibuhuizuofan，neinijiumaiyigelaidan，kexueyanjiuyixiatesemeishi。

2.shoubabamamahunyinshenghuodeweihai

 banduladeshehuifazhanxuexililunyouyigedingyijiaotidaiqianghua，jiangdeshi，xueshengjiarujiandaobuchenggong、shouchufadegerenxingwei，bianhuixiaoruohuoyizhichanshengzheileigerenxingweidequxiang。

 ershijiandaozishenbabamamahunyinbushun，yitiandaowanyoukuyounao，chaochaodayida，tahenyoukenenghuixiangliangzhezhijianliangrentongchudejiuchanbuqingzaiyiqi，huazhenzixuntousu，haiburuyigerenhuodeyouxianzizai，yinci zhidaotazijiwanhundeqingkuangxiabianhuiduihunyinshenghuowangerquebu。

 tips:gaibiantaduihunyinshenghuodepianmianxinglejie，youbuxingdehunyin，yiyangyeyouxuduo meimanhunyin，duodaitayuyouzhemeimanhunyindepenyou、tongxuemenchupeng。

3.taganjuezishenhaixiaoxiangzaiwanliangnianhuoyigongzuoweiyou

 buqingchudajiashifoujiedilianqing?ruguoshi，neimabianhuichangchangpengdaozheileinanti，nvshengganjuezishennianjihendayaoxiangjielehun，nanyouganjuezishenhaixiao，xiangzaichuangdangliangnian，yeshiyoukenengshixiangweiwanhunzuoxiejingjifazhantiqianzhunbei。

 tips：jielehunjiubukeyipinbolemeiyou?yongyoujiazhongdenanrenzongshiduigongzuogengyouxiezhu!falvfaguidejiehunnianlingshinanfadingnianling22sui，nvnianman20sui，yaoshichaochuzheiyinianji，douhendale，jiarudajiatanlianaizaiyinianzhishang，nenggoukaolvdaowanhun。

第二招：引起他想结婚的想法，恰当运用三个時刻激起男朋友想完婚的主观因素

jutongji，nanrenzuixiangjiehundesangeshikeshi:

1.盆友的婚宴上

 meiyinian，dajiadoushihuibaomingcanjiapenyoudehunyan。kanjianxiaohuobanmendoutongshitaruhunyinshenghuodeshengdian，niyizhizaixintongchixuhuachulaidejiehunlijindelingwai，yeshiyanxian，ninaizhihuixiangxiangxinlangguanbianshini。weishenmeshuonanrenjiubuyuanyiwanhun，zaibaomingcanjiaxiaohuobanmendehunyandeqingkuangxia，nanrenmenyehuichuxianneiyangdeniantou，neiyike，tashiduomedediqipanyaochengjialiye!

 duohetayiqibaomingcanjiapenyoudehunyanba，shitakanyixiatarendexingfukuailejing，gengshitaqutingxiaohuobanmendexutao，rangxiaohuobanmenzaitaerpangducutawanhun。kanjiantarenneimaxingfukuaile，dianjizhezishenyiranguduyiren，zaitingzhexiaohuobanmendequanjie，wojuedenanrenmenshifeichangrongyixindongde。neishidenanrenzuifeichangrongyibulizhixiaguzuyongqijiuxiangnilangmanqiuhunle。

2.酒醒后

 nanrenduoyoujiaoji，zaisuonanmianyouhezuijiudeqingkuangxia。zaizuijiuhoudediertianzaoshang，toutengyulie，yikanshenpang，jinyouzishengushenyiren，tudeyidiquanshi，wuzililuanqibazao……nanrenzheishidinghuishenxianwuqiongdejiliaozhong，danshitaquehaipobudeyizishenzhaoguhaoziji。xiangyixiangcishishenpangruguoyouyigenvrengaiduomehao，tagangkaishixiangnianmamazhudejiejiutang。

 nanrenyehuichuxianmingandeqingkuangxia，zainanrenneixincuiruodeqingkuangxiajiarunizaishenbiannuanxinfushi，jiusuanshitieshixinchangyehuibeironghua。yinerhebuzainanrenzuijiuhouzaishenbiannuanxinzhaogu，fugechunmianmaojin，huanyigeyifu，zhudianzhengjiutang……zainanrenxinglaishideqingkuangxia，fajuenifuzaichuangqianfushi，yiyemeixiexi，tadexinyidinghuiwennuande。cishidenanrenzuifeichangrongyibawanhunshuochurukou，tashenshendiganshoudao，youyigewennuandejiazhong，yigexianshudelaoposhifeichangdadexingfukuaile。

3.kandaotarenkeaidehaizi

 nvrenmendouaixiaohai，youyutamenxinlingshenchubianshiwuqiongdemuqindeai。meimeikandaotarenkeaidehaizideqingkuangxia，nvrenmenyanlidoushihuiwailuwuqiongdemuqindeai，xiangjitamendianfumo，xiangqinqinxiaohaideliandaner。niyiweinanrenjiutaoyanxiaohai，youshinanrenbinvrengengaixiaohai。

 dajiazongshuoxuduo nanrenjiuhaoxiangmeiyouzhangdaledexiaohaiyiyang，shide，nanrenzaizishenxinyidenvrenyanqian，yizhihuisamaimeng，huizhuyaobiaoxiandexianggehaitongyiyang。yexugengshiyouyunanrenxinlingshenchudeyouzhizaizuoguai，nanrenkandaokeaidehaizideqingkuangxia，tamenyehuiwuqiongtengai，shenzhixianggankuaizishenyenengshenggexiaohai。danshinaliyounvrenneimashahuhumeiwanhunjiugentanengshenggexiaohaini?yinci ，dangnanrenkandaotarenkeaidehaizideqingkuangxia，jiufeichangrongyijiqitayaowanhundexiangfa。