nihenyoukenenghenhaoqizenyangzaishitianneishuaikaiyigenansheng,rutongkaite•makusimolisizaiyingpian“shiritanlianaizhinan”zhongduimaikeer•maikangnazuodeneiban。ziran,juzhongdenanhaihenvhaizhurengongshitianhoufenli,danzuihouhuanshizaiyiqile,huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?dandajiawuxutairenzhenwanchengzheiyidian。jilao,jiaruniyaogenyigenanshengtichufenshou,feichangjiandanzuikendingdefangshibianshigentajiushuo。shubuzhi,jiaruniyaoduanshijianshuaikaita,mianzaokoujiaozhilei,zheierjigefangshinenggoushiyixia。
1、不要说“我喜欢你”、“请”或是“感谢”。
bubishitajiandaonishangxita。shijishang,bubirenketaduinizuodequanbuhaoshier。nanrenqidaibeizishendenvyourentong,dangzheileirentongqueshile,tamenhuigangkaishizhaoxunbiedetiaoxuan。
2、有时候忽视他的电話、电子邮件和简报。
dangtaxiangzaiyaoyuandedifanggennilianxi,jitamentishengjiannan。jiarushuogoutongjiaoliushirangyiduanqingganlengzangdebixupin,neimabugoutongjiaoliubianshirangqingganshenwangdefangshi。
•zhunbeihaotuoci,haoxiang“abaoqian,zhaobuzheshoujishang”,huoshi“guoyibuqu,bujiugenyilishabaisiwangyiqi,tahaoyouqu!”bieshitalejienizainaer、zaiganshenme,yueshenmiyuehao。taxinlihuitianmandujiheyilv。
•jiarutaxiangyaozhidaoniweishenmeyibuzaitashangxia,weihezaiyebuhuishijiangentaxianliao,duitashuo:“womendeshenghuorujincaigangkaishizhenshichengxing,wohaizaishizhedanfudaliangyiwu,lingwaikongchushijianguodekaixindian。”
•bubijizijibukeyicanjiaerzhiqian。zhiqianhuichuanchuyizhongxinxi,duitashuozhihouninengduopeita。danhenxianzhunibingmeineimexiang。
3、跟他讲话时,不用说什么。
gentarennenggouliaodaoshunfengshunshui,dandaotadeqingkuangxia,shitabawojiaotanzhudaoquan,neiyanghanxudezhengzhaohaowuyiwenhuishitakaolvdaozishenshifouqueshiheshini。
•jiaruyouxierendadianhuajini,chulaijie,shitazishenzuozheneili。jiarudajialingwaiheciwaiyigerenxianliao,xianwangxiangciwaiyigeren,xiangenciwaiyigerenjianghua。
4、和他人一起时看起来更高兴。
tarennenggoubaohannidepengyouhelaoban、nidepengyouheqinqipengyou,haiyounidejiaren。zuoweininanyou,huoshizuoweigenniqinmiwujianderen,tahuiqidaizishennengjinigaoxing,jiandaonikeyigaoxing。jiaruninengshitaganjuetarennengjinigaoxing,ertabukeyi,huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?neimaxunsuniyejiunengshuaikaitale。
5、不必给他们空出時间。
zaiyiduanhaodeganqingdeliangren,xianghuhuiweilingyifangliushijian,youyutamenxianghuzhijianxiai,zaiyiqishilianggerennenghuodechengjiugan。danshinideganqingbuyiyang。
•shangbanshijianwanyixie,bubishitalejieniwanhuijiale。jiarutaxunwenniduizheiyiduanganqingdetouru,duitashuoniduizishengongzuozhongdetourutongyangguanjian。
•kanqilaiyizhiyouhenduoshenghuosuoshiyaozuo。nanhaizifangantarenningyuanzuosuosuiyebuyuanyigentayiqi。
6、忘了你对环境卫生的界定。
jiarunibuzaiyibeirenjuedeyouganshou(danyiranyoufengcai),gentayiqishijiubuyaoxianzao。bubiguamao。nikendingbuhuihuodetadehaogandu——danzheijiushiniyaoxiangde,bushima?
7、防止人体上的触碰。
jiaruniyiwangduitayouqichimi,zheiyidianjiuhenheli。nanrenqipanshentijiechu——tashirangtamenduinvrenzaochengganqingdewupin。jiarubikaitadeshentijiechu,tabianhuizuixianyihuoweihetahuiyaoyiduanganqing。
•jiarunibuyuanshitajingti,jiujitamenbuzhengquedechupeng。jitamenduanzanxingdexiangyong、paiyipaidebeihuojianbu、gaoluantadexiufa。tahui“fangan”zheizhong,youyuzheizhongdoubushitayaoxiangdeneileishentijiechu,chataiyuanle。youyuzheizhong,tahuigangkaishiganjuedajiazhishihaopengyou。
8、张口对他说你讨厌他的地区。
jiarutazhouwuyelichuanshangzuixihuandetxu,duitashuoniyibuganjuezheiyijianyifukuzichuanzaitadeshenshangpiaoliang。duitashuoniyibuxiaitadexiangwei。duitashuomaiyibubaqiceloudiandeche。qingtagaibianzishendeshenghuoxiguan,huoshigentashuodaotadexihaohuixunsushitasangshinanzihanqigai。
9、讥讽他。
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