花镇觉得没效果可以退款吗？我在婚姻咨询中学会的5件事

 dangwomenguinv2cizhuyuanhou，womingbaiwogaiyuwolaogongqubaihuiyixiahunyinzixunshi：huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma？dajiashijishangbingmeiyoulaidaoliyidebianyan，womendehunyindoumeiyoushenxian“mafanshi”。dajiajinjinjinglileyiduanjianxindejieduan，pobudeyiquyingduiduanduandejigeyuezhijindehouzhonggongzuoyali。

 wodehaizibixudutezhaohu，yihouguinvchushile，yijianshiranhouyijianshi：wozhongyuyishidaodajiabixuyixielaiyuanyuwaibudexiezhu，buranwomendouyaobenkuidiao。dajiazaoyibeijinglixianghaojigexingqiweiguinvjiuzhen，keshidajiadouqidainengqianxiehuijiale，haonenggouzaicizixun。youyuyijianshilaogongyuwoeryan，taduidajiayiyifeifan，congzheidangzhongdajiahuodefeichangdadexiezhuhejili。

 womenzaiduanduanzixunzhonghuodexuduo ganshou，yinerwojuedezaizheierhedahuoergongxiangzheixieduishiwoxiezhudeneirong，huoxuniyehuihuoyifeiqian!

1、和钢钉没事儿

kanyixiazheiyishipinba。kanleniyejiudongle。

nikankanlemeiyou?shide，hegangdingmeishier…

2、男人必须了解，何时你需要她们解决困难vs.何时你仅仅倾吐

 shide，nanrenmenxiaijiejuekunnan，keshiwoxuededeshi：dajiabixujitayixiexiezhuhetixing。youshihouwozhendeshiqidaiwolaogongjiejuekunnan，erlingyixieqingkuangxia，wozhishixiangzhaorentutucao。ziranyeyoushi2jianshiwohaibixu。

 rujin，wobuzairanglaogongxianglaixiangquwojiujingxiangshitaganshenme，zhishilijiduitashuo：huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma？“woxiangdiaokan”huozhe“wozhendexuyaochulizheijianshiqing”。youshihouwowangjibiaomingtaidu，tayehuilailejie“jiejuekunnanhuanshidiaokan?”wodaaiwujiangzheiyifangshi，taxiezhudajiachuangjianzhenshidegoutongjiaoliu，shiwomennenggougenghaodizhangwoxianghu。

3、一个词：希望

 jianyiyigecijiukeyigaibianyiqie，tashishifenqitedeganshou。dajiadezixunguwenxiangdajiatileyigetiyi，jiangchuzishendexiwang，zuoweiyizhonggoutongjiaoliufangfa。wolaogongyuwoquanshineileituiduanxingdexingqing：wochangtuiduantaxiangkandianshiju，youyuwoliangmeirenzhanqiqushuijue。tayeganleyiyangdetuiduan，youyuyinweiwomeiyoudong。danshishijishangwoliangdouxianghenzaohuiwuzirushuide。

 lingyigeshilishi：tagongzuozhongleyitianhuijia，tayaoxiangdeshizishenyurenxiangchushiduofenzhong：xiexi，shuiyihui，zuoxienengxiezhutahuanjiexinshendeshi。ertagongzuozhongleyitianzongsuanhuijia，duiwolaishuo，wokandaodeshi“suiyi”：wozhongyuyoushijianzishendaiwufenzhong，chonggezao，chigelingshi，bingqiezongsuannenggouheyigechengrengoutongjiaoliule……

 nantishidajiaxiwangdeshishibuyiyangde。womenbunenglingwaixiexi。dajiayouxiaohaiyaozhaogu。dajiadoufeichanglei，bixuxiexi，yinci womenyiqitantaodajiadexiwang。youyixietianwolaogonghuishuiyixiaojue，biedeshenghuowonengxiexitalaibanshi。dajiawubiyiqinuli，zaitahuijialeyiqian，dajiabixurangxianghulejielingyifangdexiwang。

 tashifougongzuozhongdaotoutong?neimatadexiwangjinjinzaijinjiahounengdagedun。youyutagaozhilewotadexiwang，wobiankeyilejieta，qieganxinqingyuandishitaxiexi。wozheiyitianguodehencaogao?neimawonengzaitajinjiaqianyilianggezhongtouduanxiaoxita：“qinaidede，wojintianqueshibixuhaohaoxiuxiyixia。”woyanzhongdezijidexiwang，tajiandaoduanxiaoxihoujiuzhidao，jinrihuijialehoujiangdaotazhaoguxiaohaile。

 zheileifangshiyiyangshiyongqinrenherichangshenghuogegelingyu:。youdeqingkuangxia，dahuoeryudaoyiqi，shuoyishuoxianghudexiwang，suihoubaduidangrideniantouliejuyizhangbiao。zaiwomengangkaishizhangwoxianghudexiwangshi，dajiacaikeyinenggougenghaodixiezuo，henduoxiaoshieryeyuelaiyuefeichangrongyiqilai。

4、我们不一样，这没有什么

 wolaogongzaiyixieshiershangmianyoudianerqiangposiwei：lirushangchangjiezhangshitayaobawupinyizhaoyidingcixufangjinjiezhangtaizishang;shuicaoxiwanjilidewanhaiyaoanyidingbiaozhunbaifang;yougudingbudongdebuweifangtadesuochi。woni?worenweijiezhangtaizishangfangwupindecixuchedibuzaihu，yaoshidoufangjinqulejiukeyile;wulunworuhebawanfangrushuicaoxiwanjide，tamenzongzhiyehuibeixiganjingbingbushi?suochia，ngdui，youshizaiwobaoli，youshijiuzai……wozuizhongfangsuochidediqu。

 zheizhongbutongdianyoushihoubianshichanshengmaodundeyuangu。keshidajiayijingxuehaoyidian，buyiyangbingbingbushicuoshi。wobuhuiyizhaowolaogongdexiguanxingbanshi，bingbuyiweizhewoshicuode，xiangfanyeshi。womenyaoxuehuifangqiduizheizhongchabiededanxin。womendoushi2gebuyiyangderen，tashihaoshier!

5、男人人的大脑由盒子构成，女人则是一团意大利肉酱面

 worenweiwobuxiangwangjineiyiduanlijing：dajiazuozhehunyinshenghuozixunchuli，wolaogongzhanqigangkaishizaipangbiandebaibanshanghuaqilai。tahualehaoxiegexiaohezi。zailingyibian，tahualeyituanququzhezhedexian，tachengzuoweiyidaliroujiangmian。

 ranhoutabiaoshuqilaitashizenyangxiangtahuadexiaohezineibansisuode：zuixiantazaidiyigexiaohezilijiejuenanti，dangzheiyixiaohezidejiejuewentihou，tahuiyijingdaoxiayigexiaohezili，suihoushizaixiayigexiaohezi，zhizhibaquanbunantidouchulidiao。

 tashuodaowoderendedanaogongzuomoshijiuhaoxiangyituanyidaliroujiangmian。quanbudeniantouyiqichuxian，wochangshibalingwaisisuozheizhongnantibingbatamenyiqichuli，danmeiyitiaoyidaliroujiangmianshiduliyigenanti。

 tadejianjiebiaomingledajiadesisuofangfashizenyangbuyiyang，dangnantichuxianshi，womendoushizenyangxuanyongbuyiyangdefangfaquchuli。zheixiezhuwokeyimanxialaisisuo，tishizishentadesisuofangfayuwobuyiyang，bingqiejiranzheibingbingbushicuoshi，woxuyaojitamenshijianhexixin，shitazai“xiaohezi”ligongzuozhong，erbubishitachengdanguoshao。

 nanrenhenvrenshizheibanbuyiyang，dandajianengzouzaiyiqi，taruhunyinshenghuo，zhangwoxianghu，xuehaozenyangxiangyigejingyingtuanduiyiyangxiezuo，tashijianduomedebujiandandeshier!hunyinzixungaibianlewomendehunyin，wohenxingyunwoneishihoumeiyousheqishizhetaruzixunchu。