花镇觉得没效果可以退款吗？谈恋爱就一定要结婚吗？

 xuduorenshuo“buyinwanhunweiqiantitiaojiandetanlianaiquanshishuawulai”。chuduixiangshiweilegenghaodixunzhaoshihederen，suzaochuhunyinshenghuojiben。yinci tanlianaishiliangrendeshizhe，jieguoshibumingde。zhenzhengdeaiburongyibeiwanhunshifouweihai，wanhunjinjinyizhangzhi，huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma？buxiangjiehundoubuyiweizheduiganqingyoutichuzhiyi，zheijinjinduihunyinshenghuodeyizhongguandianbale。

 rujinbuzhishinanshigongzuoyalitaida，dangjinnvrendexingshenghuogongzuoyaliyefeichangda。renzhengongzuozhengqiandelingwai，zhouzhejiuqiaoqiaodepashangmeitou，jiehunnianlingbucuijiudao，zheikefannaolejiemeimen。wonengzhuanqian、nengyigerenguoweiheyaowanhun?woyexiangzaidengdeng，wodoumeiyoulianaideganjue，wodoumeiyougaohaohetahuanduyishengdetiqianzhunbei，haibujiehun。

处对象仅仅两人的试着，結果是不明

 jinguanshuobuyinwanhunweimudidetanlianaiquanshishuawulai，keshitanlianaishiweilegenghaodizengjinganqingjibende，jiaruqingganchongzunonghoujiuburongyitichufenshou，neimejiuhuizuihoutaruhunyinshenghuodeshengdian。shubuzhidabufenrenbingbingbushizaizheitiaodaolushangzoudeneimechangshunde。dajiajingchanghuiyouyugezhonggeyangyuangufenli，zheishijishangbianshichuduixiangdebixu。

 youyuhunyinshenghuobingbushichuduixiang，burongyifaxianwentijiutichufenshou，yinci dajiadabufenrenyaozhenshidingchulaihoucaitiaoxuanhunyinshenghuo，erdaduoshuchanshengzaishucitanlianaiyihou。yinci chuduixiangbuyijiufenli，youyudajiashiweilegenghaodizhaoxunshihederenerzaiyiqide。huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma？tanlianaishiliangrenshizhezaiyiqi，shizheshibumingde，yinci wanhunyeshibuyidingde。

别贪随便得像中式快餐一样的婚姻生活

 yixienvhaiyihuijialejiujimamacuihun，shuoruguobulikewanhunwoyesibumingmu!jiemeimenzheicifanmenle：“zheihunningkebuyichuxian，yejuebujiangjiu。”rujinganqingliyouyizhongjiaofashuo“bujiangjiu”，ningkebuxiangjiehunyebubijiangjiu。tashichuziyuduichonggaoshengganqingdezhongshi，yetixianleshixiarenbuyiwanhunerwanhundeyizhongxintai。bujiangjiu、buzhuzhong、busuibozhuliuweiwanhunerwanhun，tashidikangrujindeshehuiwanhunjinlizhedeyizhongrechao。

 meiaiweijibendehunyinshenghuoshikebeide，wulunshehuifazhanruhebian，chuantongshidelianaiguanhuanshibukeyidiu。zheizhongxiangyaodenghoumeihaoaiqingderen，yingdangjianxinjiyuqiuchengdeganqingmeiyouyiduanshijiandenghouerchengdeganqingneimagengyouyiyi，bushishuokujinganlaima?jiarusuibiandehaoxiangxiaguanzi，shengshishengli，neiyeyoushenmeyiyini?

因此 ，你到底是为了什么而完婚?你为什么那么期盼完婚?

 weisaizhutarendezuima?zheishuochulaikelingyouhaoxiaodehuida，queshishixiaxuduo nvhaierdeniantou。youyulaidaoyidingnianjidenvhaibuxiangjiehunhuilingrenquxiao、jifeng、yihuo，naizhibuxiangjiehunyiweizhemeiyourenyao、yichang，babamamayebukeyilejie。zheileirenpobudeyibabamamadegongzuoyalihuoshishiaiyuqingmiandenanti，zaihunyinshenghuoyanqiantiaoxuanlerangbu。

 haiyixiezimeihaoyongdouhenbuhaipa，jiuhaipagudu，danxinyigerenduguocisheng，yincijiuzhaorenlaixiangban。keshi，nixuyaolejie，ruguonixuebudongyurenxiangchu，hunyinshenghuojinigenggudu。youyuwanhunbingbushizhaorendabangguoshenghuo，zhenshidehunyinshenghuoyinggaishidangzheihunmeijiediguoshenghuo。wanhunshiyibeizideshi，chunsuizhaorenguoshenghuoshibutaikenengxingfukuaileguoyibeizide。

 eraiqingzhishangxianshizhuyizhedoushihuishuo，yinweiaiqing，yinci woyaojiehunle。keshishenmejiaoaiqing?liruxianghexihesanmao。wanmeideaiqingshibubimingfen，bubifuwuchengnuo，shiwoxihuanniyunihegan。yinci zhenzhengdeaiqingchonggaoerjiechude，rujinderenyoujigenengbaozhengbuyimingyulibubifuwuchengnuo。aideyusiwangpo，fantianfudi、fenbugushen，buxiangjiehunzheizhongaiqingzhishangxianshizhuyizheyebaoqianzishen。

婚姻生活不必让爸爸妈妈上下，别坚信“处久了就好了”

 wanhunbukeyibeitarenshangxia，nixuyaoxiangqingxilezaiwanhun。shixiaxuduo laidaoxuduo jiehunnianlinghaimeiyoujiarendenvshijingchangshibeibabamamabidezuijinde，naizhipaochuqubuxiangjiehundetuociyebuhao，huidazhiyoushi“nihewobazheixienianyeneimeguolaile，niyenenggou，chujiulejiuhaole。”

 danzheishinijialaogong，hetajiaowangyibeizideyejiushini，erbushinidemama。hunyinshenghuoshiyibeizideshi，juecenijianglaiyaosheiyiqixiangsuitaguohoubansheng，chufeishinixianglihun。yinci hunyinshenghuobukeyimangzhuang，bukeyibeibierenshangxia，yaozhuisuizishendexin，xunzhaoheshizishende。

 waizainengliangkongzhierchengdehunyinshenghuobuguoshitarenrouchengdeshuijiao;yongliguomengjiuloule，yongjingbuzujiukaiguo。neiyanghulihutuwanhundegengfeichangrongyiyonghunwailianlaidiyu，youyuneishixiangyousuiyideweiyichurukou。xianglaidahuoerdianshilianxujushangmiankanlelezheileijuqing，keshirenshengbaiwei，bubirenweiburongyichanshengzairichangshenghuozhong。hunyinshenghuoshiyibeizidejiaowang，shi2gefengruishikuaidexianghuzhijianmoheqi，meiyouganqingjichunanyimoheqi，bubizuizhonggaodebicidashangyuanqijieshu，neimejiuqueshibuhaole。

感情不可以低价卖出，规定不可以减少

 nvshimenqianwanbiejiangdibiaozhun，weilegenghaodiwanhunerwanhun，neiyanghaibibushangbubiwanhun。zaiwangshangyouneiyangyigetiezi：youyinvhai，zaibeijingshizhongxinyongyou sishiliangtingdegongyulou，yigerenzhuzhe，yigerenkailedazhongsutengshangban，meiyinianzhongguohaiwaigedujialvyouyitang。laomaxianjieduantayangyuzhe，meixingqidouqupeitamen，ruguotamengengnianjidale，richangshenghuobukeyizilile，tahaihuijixuzhaobaomushihou。xianjieduanhuanshidanshen，youheshidenanshijiuxiangchuzhe。neiyangderichangshenghuoyounaxienantima?

先把自己清洗好，这个世界会亮，TA当然便会来

 yigenvrenjiarulianzishenderichangshenghuodouguobutaihao，gengbuyaoshuogennanpengyou/laogongjiaowanghao。nixianbazijiderichangshenghuoheneixinqingxihao，buyikaota，buchangshigupiaobeitaota，tabianhuiduinizaochenghaoqixin，jiuxianghenidaizaiyiqi，jiuxianghenijielehun。erjiaruniweilegenghaodizheixiejiangjiu，ercongmangwanhun，weikongshijiadetaicongcongmangmang，lideyefeisu。

 “shengnv”shihuoshengdenvren，erbushibeishengyudenvren。“shengnv”zuixianshiyouxierenyaode，shiyounanrenxiangheniwanhun，keshizanhaibuyuanjie，zhudaoquanshiyaofangdaozishenshoulide。dajianvrenyingdangjijididangxinxinde“shengnv”，zishenrangzishenderichangshenghuomeimiaozhongniaona，zheigeshijiehuiliang，dangranyouxierenbianhuiyouxierenlaidao。