情感咨询师给即将离婚女人的忠告

　　fenshouliangnianlehainengfuhema？zheishiyigechongmanweizhihebeixijiaozhiwenti。zaifenshouzhihoudemanmanzhanglusuiyueli，dajiahuijingguoshenghuodemoliyuchengzhang，tongshihaihuibaocunzheduicongqiandeaiqingdehuiyihejuannian。danshi，fuhebingbushiguangpingzhuiyihebugan。taxuyaoshuangfangduidiaozhenghetuibiandejiena，xuyaojingguoshijiandetiaozhanheshenzhongkaolv。yexu，sanniandeshijianzuyirangrenmenyishidaozijidebugou，yihuoshizaijingliguotongkuyuzhengtuohou，donglelingyifangdezhengui。danbuguanjieguoruhe，fuhedeguanjianshibiciyuanbuyuanyiweicizaiciqinfen，xiangyaoyingduiyiqiandeshangtong，zaicigoujianqiyiduangengjiajianqianggengjiachengshudeaiqing。

　　忘记过去，再续情缘

　　guoqujinian，dajiaaiguoyihou，yecengliqu。fenshouyinyingmimanzhenidezhuiyi，danxinlideweilezhixinshibushihaicancun？yiqiehaiyoumeiyoufuhedekenengxingni？

　　自我反省的美好时光

　　fenshou2nian，shiyiduanchongzudeshijian，rangmeigerendouyoujihuishenshizijiguoshiyubuzu。zheixiejinglinengrangdajiazhongxinrenshiziji，fazhanbinggaibian。fenshouzhihoudeshijianli，dajiashifouzhendeyoulegerendefazhan？shibushibianchenglezuihaodezijini？

　　往日情感上的整理

　　yufenshouyucitongshi，jiushinimenzhongjianshishifeifeideaihenjiuge。zhenxinchengyideaiyushenshendisunhai，xiangfuxiangchengbianchengyiwangdehuiyi。liangniandeshijianli，nishifoukeyicongrongyingduidangshidezhengyihetongku？zhuiyiwangri，shibushihuiyoubutongdeganwuhelejie？

　　互相交流的勇气

　　fuhebixuyongqi，yongqiqujienazijidejiaolvhechiyi，yongqiquheduifangyichengxiangdai。sanniandeshijiangoubugourangnimenlianggerenbaojingchenji？danglianggerenzaicixiangjianshi，dajianengbunengjiandingdikaiqiyiduanzhenzhidehuihua，tanrandibiaoshuzijineixinzhenzheng？

　　复建信任的窗口

　　fenshoubudandanshiaiqingdepolie，gengjiashixinrendeliekai。2niandefengeshifouyijingkeyijiangdicongqiandetongkuheqifen？zaizhongxinzouzaiyiqiyiqian，nishifounenggouzaicigoujianqixianghuzhijianxinrendeqianti？zaicigoujianqixinrendechuangkouzhenduifuhedechengyubaiyouweizhongyao。

　　再次确定的探索

　　xianzaishishihouwenziji，dajiashibushizhendexiangyaozaijibiciyicijihui？dangmianduifenshou2niandeqingxumitushi，shibushihainenggoujiandingbuyidetiaoxuanfuhe？zaizhongxinquedingqian，xiangyixiangnimendeweilai，xiangyixiangdajiashibushizhendezhunbeihaoyingduiyiqikankankeke。

　　缘起于时间，不明于未来

　　zaizheigeshijie，meirenzhidaojianglaihuiyoushenme。fenshou2nianhounengbunengfuhe，jinyoushijianhedajiazijicaikeyijiexiaodaan。zaicizouzaiyiqidedaoluhaihenku，danhuoxuzhengshizheixiejingli，rangtamengengweishenkerenshidaobicizhijiandezhongyaoyiyibaogui。

　　fenshouliangnianlehainengfuhema？zhiyoudajiazijizhaochudaan。errengekaixinlidexiangfa，zhenchengerjuerantanrandimiandui，yexuzheitiaolucaiyouzhenzhenzhengzhengdehuida。buguanxuanzehezhong，yuannimendoukeyizhaodaoshuyuzijidexingfu。