无法控制老公额外的收入让我很没安全感怎么办

　　fenshoulehaizenmewanhuiaiqing，danghunyinpolie，guanlianpijuan，womenshibushiyoujihuizhongxindianranhuomiao？zheishiyigepubiancunzaidewenti。fenshoubingbudengyuyiqiedouwufamibu，fandaoshiyigezhongxinsikaoaiqingdejiyu。genjutanchengjiaoliu，ziwofansi，lijieduifangdejuece，jiyubicizhijiankongjianheshijian，jiqinuligaibianzishendebuzu，dajiahuoxukeyiranqicengjingxiangaihuo，zhaohuishiqudegongtongyuyan，zuihouwanhuiaiqing。wanhuiaiqingdedaolujinguanjiannanerkanke，danzhiyaowomenyongxinquzuo，weiqingsuoshang，jiuhenyoukenengzaicizoudaoyiqi。

　　重新寻找共同语言

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　　给予彼此之间时间与空间

　　zaiwanhuiaiqingdeguochengdangzhong，jiyubicizhijianzugoudeshijianyushijianyeshifeichangzhongyaode。dangyifangquedingfenshoushi，duifangkenengxuyaoshijianlaijieshoubingjiejuezheigexianshi。qiangzhiwanliuhenyoukenenghuishideqifan，zaochenggengdasunhai。yiner，lijieduifangdejuece，jiyubicizhijianyiduanshijianlailengjingfenxihefansheng，rangshuangfangzaidujuzhongzhongxinshenshiaiqing，huoxukeyirangbicizhongxinshenshilingyifangdejiazhihebiyaoxing。

　　自我反思与积极主动更改

　　fenshouyihou，budanyaosikaoduifangnanti，haiyaoziwofansizishendewenti。renrendouyouzishenquedianhexuyaogaijindedifang。genjufanshengzijizailianaizhongdechengxian，zhaochuzijidecunzaidewenti，bingjijizhudongdijinxinggaibian。jiranfenshoulehaixiangyaowanhuiaiqing，neijiuxuyaobashiqudedongxijingyanjiaoxunzuoweichengzhangdejihui，buduantishengzijideqingshanghegoutongxiediaonengli。jinyoubiandegenghaodezishen，caikeyixiyinduifang，zhonghuolingyifangdeguanzhuzhongshi。

　　复建信任与默契

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　　保持开心与细心

　　wanhuiaiqingshiyigexuyaonaixinyujianchideyigeguocheng。jinliangbuyaotuoxiehesheqi，weichileguandexintailaimianduipingjingwenti。jiusuanzaiyikaishikanshangqubingmeiyoutaidadeqidai，yeqianwanbuyaoqinei。ganqingtongchanghuijiwomendailaiyiwaidejingxi。yinweiwomenweichilianghaodexintainaixin，buduandiqinfenhechangshi，huoxuwomenjiunenggouhenhaodiwanhuiaiqing，houzhongxinyouzhemeihaodemingtian。

　　zaifenshouhou，wanhuiaiqingxuyaoyiduanshijian、nuliyuzhenzhidetouru。jinyoushuangfangdouzaixiangyaoqinfenqiantixia，caikenengzhongxindianranaidehuoyan。buyaoqingyanfangqi，jianxinzijigenduifangdeganqing，huoxuzainulizhihou，zhonghuoduifangdexin。youyu，fenshoulehaizenmewanhuiaiqing，zaiyudajiayuanbuyuanyiweicichangshiyufuchu。