分手后为什么不能去找他，想挽回男友该怎么办？

　　fenshouleyuanshishangzaiwulengbaoliwogaizenmehui，zaifenshouyihou，xiwangshijiebuzaicunzailengbaoli，zheijianshirangwoxianrusisuo。mianduizheiyishiji，wogairuhehuiyingni？wodasuanyiwenwanhekuanrongzuoweidaodedixian，buhuizairangsunhaikuosan。buguanyudaoshenmeyangdemaodunhefenqi，woxiwangnenggouyibaorongyulijiedetaiduquyingdui，riyijianshaolengbaolidechuxian。womenyinggaigongtongfendou，weiyigemeiyoulengbaolishijieqinfennuli。

　　思索分手其背后的冷暴力：一段痛苦的遭遇

　　fenshouleyuanshishangzaiwulengbaoliwogaizenmehui，fenshoule，wocengjingmanhuaishenshendiqidai，qifushijieshangkeyigechulengbaolidechuxian。danshi，shijirangwotongkuwanfen。dajiaxianghuzhijiandeguanximanmanebian，yuelaiyuechongmanzhebaolixingweihelengmo。zheiyiduanganqingwanbi，yaowokaishifansi：zaifenshouhuanjiezhong，wogaizenmehuifulengbaoli？

　　应对冷暴力：守住底线与防范意识

　　zuixian，womenxuyaoshouzhudixian，yiwenwanhekuanrongzuoweiguize。suiranfenshouzengtianletongku，danwomeiyouranglengbaolikuosan。zaiheqianairendejiaoliuzhong，womenjiangjinkenengbaochilixinghelizhi。fangzhibeilengbaolidehuayuyuxingweisuosunhai，woyaoxuehuibaohuzijideqingxuhezunyan。

　　冷暴力让我学会了学会放弃

　　fenshouqibeihoudelengbaoliqinshenjingli，rangwoxuehuilexuehuifangqihexuehuifangxia。wobuhuizaiqianxinwankujiujiecongqiandeshanghaitongku。fanguolai，woxuanzelequmianduiguoqudejingli，dongdecongzheidangzhongfazhan。xuehuifangxiajiyoudezenghenhetongku，buzaijianglengbaolichengweikunraowoqianxingdezulan。

　　构建和平与敬佩的分手方法

　　ciwai，worenshidaofenshoudeshihouxuyaoyiyouyiyuzunzhongdexingshijinxing。wulunfenshoushiyinweishenme，zaiwanchengaiqingdeyucitongshi，womenyaoxianghuzhijianzunzhongyulijie。jinliangshiyonglengbaolihuowumieduifanggerenxingwei，ershiyongpingjingdexintaiyingduifenshou，rangshuangfangkeyishifangchulaijiedi，xiangqiantuijin。

　　传送冷暴力宣言口号：促进社会转型

　　wohenqingchudanpingyijizhilimeifagaibianshehuifazhan，danwokeyigenjuchuansonglengbaolixuanyankouhaolaicujinshehuizhuanxing。womenjianggaozhizhouweideren，fenshoubugaibansuilengbaolidechuxian。wonengcanjiageleihuodong、fenxiangzijixiaogushi，haozhaogengduoderenjiaruwomenxingwei，gongtongfendou，ranglengbaolizaifenshouzhongyongyuanxiaoshi。

　　对冷暴力说“不”：保护自己，帮助别人

　　zuizhuyaodeshi，woyaoxuehuidangmianduilengbaolishibiaoshi“bu”。wonengbaohuzijideliyihezunyan，buhuizairenshoubaoliqingxiangdechuxian。yucitongshi，wojiujiangjijibangzhugengduozaodaolengbaolisunhaideren，weitamentigongwenxinyuzhichi。qingtingtamendegushi，jiyushizhixingxiezhu，binggongtongfendou，rangshishangzaiwulengbaolidechuxian。

　　冷暴力应当结束：人人都有义务

　　fenshouleyuanshishangzaiwulengbaoliwogaizenmehui，fenshoushiyiduantongkudezaoyu，danlengbaolijuebuyingshiqizhongdeyibufen。renrendouyouyiwu，douyingtingshenerchu，juebuyunxulengbaoli。wulunshitongguobenrendebianhua，haishiyongcanyushehuijianshenyundong，womendoukeyiweishishangwulengbaolimubiaogongxianzijideyifenliliang。rangwomentuanjieqilai，gongtongdazaoyigeyouyi、jingpeideshehuifazhan。