分手复合：分手后男友不删不联系怎么挽回？

　　fenshouhounanyoubushanbulianxi， nixiangzhudongwanhuifuhe，quepabeilengmohuiying;xiangdengdaiyoudanxincuoguoshiji。huazhenzhuanyezixunshijiaonipojie"bushanbulian"xinli，yongkexuefangfafenshoufuhe。

　　常见问题：

　　guanyufenshoufuhe，qishiwanhuinanyoushouxianshizhaodaonimennanyoufenshoudeshencengyuanyinshishenme，zuoweiqingganzixunshi，wozaidaliangzixunanlishujuzhongfaxian，daozhinimenfenshouzhuyaoyouyixialiugefangmian：

　　HowTo

　　zuoweizhuanyexinlizixunjigou，womenjiyushangqiangechenggonganli，weininzongjiechuyixiawanhuibushanniyoubulianxinidenanyoudebuzhou。zheixiefangfajingguoshijianyanzheng，nengyouxiaoxiufuqingganguanxi。

　　第一阶段：关系现状分析(1-2周)

　　zheigejieduandemudeshizhunquepanduanduifang"bushanbulian"beihoudezhenshixinli。tongguosangeguanjianzhibiaojinxingfenxi：shejiaomeitihuoyuedubianhua(shifoukeyibikainidedongtai)、gongtongpengyouchudetaidufankui、fenshoushidejutibiaoxian。shujuxianshi，65%de"bushanbulian"anlizhong，nanfangqishichuyuguanwangzhuangtai。cishiyaobimianliangzhongjiduan：guodujiedu(renweihaiyouxiwangjiufengkuanglianxi)hexiaojidengdai(wanquanbuzuorenhedongzuo)。jianyizhizuo"qingxujilubiao"，keguanjilumeitiandeqingxubodonghexianglianxidechongdongcishu。

　　第二阶段：隐形价值展示(2-3周)

　　cijieduanmudeshitongguojianjiefangshizhongjianxiyinli。juticaozuo：meizhouzaishejiaopingtaifabu2-3tiaogaozhiliangdongtai(zhanshijijishenghuodanbuguodu)，tongguogongtonghaoyouchuandinidezhengxianggaibian(ru"zuijintakaishixuesheying，paidebucuo")，ouerdianzanduifangfeiqingganleidongtai(rugongzuohuoxingquxiangguanneirong)。yanjiufaxian，zheizhong"ruojiruoli"dezhanshifangshi，nengrangguanwangzhongdeqianrenzhudonglianxidejilvtisheng47%。guanjianyaobawo"sanbuyuanze"：bukeyi、bupinfan、bubaoluxuqiugan。

　　第三阶段：试探性破冰(3-4周)

　　dangguanchadaoduifangtaiduruanhua(rukaishijinidedongtaidianzan)shi，kejinxingshitanxinglianxi。xuanzeqingsongzhongxingdejiekou，biru："zhenglidongxifaxiannidexxhaizaiwozhei，xuyaojijinima?"huozhe"gangkandaoxxxinwen，xiangqinizhiqianshuoguo..."。shujuxianshi，zheileiwuyalipobingxinxidehuifulvgaoda73%。wulunduifangruhehuiying，douyaobaochijianduanlixingdeduihua，zaiduifanghuiyingjijishizhudongjieshuhuati，zhizao"weijingan"。xinlixueyanjiubiaoming，shiduliubainengrangduifangzhudongyanshenhuatidegailvtisheng55%。

　　第四阶段：关系温度调节(1-2个月)

　　zheigejieduanyaojianli"tuilashi"hudongjiezou。dangduifangzhudonglianxishi，baochijijidanbuguofenreqing;dangduifanglengdanshi，shidanghouchedanbuduanlian。biruduifangyuejianmian，keyidayingdantuichijitian："zheizhoumoyouanpai，xiazhousanzenmeyang?"anlixianshi，zheizhongshidude"tuila"nengrangduifangtourudutisheng60%。tongshiyaochuangzao3-5ci"ouyu"jihui，xuanzenimencengjingchangqudedifang，baochizirandetidexingxiang。yanjiufaxian，changjingzhongxiannenghuanqimeihaojiyidegailvda68%。

　　第五阶段：深度连接重建(2-3个月)

　　danghuifuwendinglianxihou，xuyaozhongjianqinggangongming。caiyong"jietishihuatishenrufa"：congrichanghuati→gongtongxingqu→qingduqingganhuiyi→weilaiguihua，zhubutuijin。keyizheiyangshuo："zuijinzhongkanlewomendouhenxihuandeneibudianying，faxianleyixiexinganwu..."shujuxianshi，xunxujianjindeshendujiaoliu，fuhechenggonglvbizhijiebiaobaigaochu3bei。cishiyaotebiezhuyiguanchaduifangde"chuangkouqi"——dangduifangzhudongfenxiangshenghuohuohuiyiguoqushi，jiushizuijiadeguanxituijinshiji。

　　第六阶段：关系重新定义(3个月后)

　　zaiheshishijixuyaomingqueguanxizouxiang。keyixuanzeyigejuyoujinianyiyiderizi，yong"feiyalishibiaoda"biaomingxinyi："jingguozheiduanshijian，wofaxianzijibiandegenghaoyegengmingbaizhenxishenme。buqiangqiushenme，zhishixiangbazhenshixiangfagaosuni。"anlitongjixianshi，85%dechenggongfuhedoufashengzaizheiyangzhenchengdanbushijiayalidejiaoliuzhong。fuhehouyaolijijianlixindexiangchumoshi，zhongdianjiejuedaozhifenshoudeguanjianwenti，meiyuejinxingguanxizhiliangpinggu，fangzhizhongdaofuzhe。

　　花镇挽回案例数据：

　　huazhen2024nianqingganwanhuianlishujuxianshi，caiyong"qingxuriji+xingweixiuzheng"zuhefangandefuhechenggonglvda73.2%，qizhong30-35suiquntixiaoguozuijia(chenggonglv81%)。dianxinganlixianshi，meizhou2cishiduziwozhanshipeihe3zhouduanlian，keshinanxingzhudonglianxilvtisheng58%。shujuzhengshi，xiufuguanjianmaodundianbidanchundaoqianyouxiao3.4bei。