想要成功挽回前男友，就要先挽回自己

　　hunwaiqingnanrenturantichufenshoudeyuanyin，shiyigeshenrufenxinanrenxinliyuqinggandongjihuatitaolun。huiwangzheiyangdeshiqing，shenhouhenyoukenengcunzaizhuduoyuangu，runeixindekuijiuhebuan、duijiatingposuibuliangyingxiangdejiaolv、duiganqingdebuxiezhuiqiusuixinsuoyudeqipandeng。genjushenrufenxiyulijie，budankeyijieshichutamendongji，haikeyijiyushoushangyifanggengjiahaodezhiyuhefazhanqushi。hunwaiqingnanrenmingquetichufenshoudeyuanyin，gengshixuyaotanxunqibeihoudezhenzhengdongjihexinlixuyao。

　　jianshu: huranfenshoudebeihouyuanyindejiexi

　　内心躁动不安：备受愧疚困惑

　　hunwaiqingnanrenhuranmingquetichufenshou，qizhongyigekenengdeyuanyinshikuijiuzhemo。danghunwaiqingbuzaishiyigeyinmi，nanrenzhujianshenshizijigerenxingwei，neixingandaojiaolvhekuijiu。zhenduilingyibandepanbiangerenxingwei，nanrenhenyoukenengjuedewufayuanliangziji，zheileineixindekuchuhenyoukenengcushiqimingquetichufenshoudejuece，woxiwangwanbizheiyiduanshanghaibierenbingqieyeshanghaitazhijiandeguanxi。

　　恐惧与没有安全感：家庭破碎的不安

　　hunwaiqingnanrenturantichufenshoudeyuanyinzhiyishiduiyujiatingposuibuliangyingxiangdejiaolv。tamenyishidaolehunwaiqingdechuxianhuirangjiazhongzaochengjidadesunhai，congerzaochengneixindejiaolvhemeiyouanquangan。tamenyexudanyoulingyibandetongchu、haizidejianglaiyijitazishenxingxiangsunshangdeng。weilefangzhihouguojinyibuehua，mingquetichufenshoujianghuichengweitamendexuanze。

　　随心所欲的引诱：对感情的追寻

　　hunwaiqingnanrenturantichufenshoudeyuanyinyeyoukenengshiduisuixinsuoyudekewangheguanyuxinaidezhuixun。tamenkenenghuijuedehunwaiqingzaoyijitamendailaileyigexindetihuihefangsong，rangtamenduihunyinliderichangrichangshenghuozaochengyanfan。zheileixiangwangziyouhelequdechongdongcushiqifangqihunyin，zhuixungengjiaziyouhejiqingrichangshenghuo，neibianhenyoukenengcunzaigengdadaolianggerendeaiqing。

　　交流和达到的欠缺：感情中的难题

　　hunwaiqingnanrenmingquetichufenshoudelingyigeyuanyinkenengzaifuqiguanxishangcunzaigoutongyudadaodeqianque。hunwaiqingdaduoshiyinweizaihunyinshenghuozhongyudaolewentierxunzhaopeichang。danshi，zaizhangqihunyinli，fuqizhijiankenengchuxianxianghujiandeshengshu、goutongbudaowei、qingxulengmojiqifuqishenghuokuzaodengzhuduowenti。zheileiwentijidiankenengzaochenghunwaiqingnanrentiaoxuanfenshou，tanxungengweimanzuguanlian。

　　个人发展的需要：改变自我的好机会

　　zuizhong，hunwaiqingnanrenmingquetichufenshoudeyuanyinhenyoukenengyuanyuduigerenfazhandexuyao。tamenyexuqipanzhongxinshenshizijideshenghuohesixiang，zaicisuzaoziwo。hunwaiqingtigongleyigetishenghunyinshufudehaojihui，rangtamentanxungengfuhezishenyaoqiuderenshengguiji。zheigexuanzezhuyaoshiweilegerentishengyuzhuiqiugengweilingrenmanyideshenghuozhuangtai。

　　jianshu: huranfenshoudebeihouyuanyindejiexi