分手后拉黑断联复合法

　　hunwaiqingtiantianchaojiananrenshuofenshouzenmeban，dangzaoshouhunwaiqingzaochengrifuyiridezhengzhi，nanshengbaichengfenshoudexintai，womenyinggaizenmekandaini？zheigeshikunhuohenduorendenanti。zaizheizhongnijingzhong，dajiakeyixuanzeliangtiaoluxian：yifangmian，jianchibuxiefenshou，yuzheiyiduanbuzhengchangdeguanlianshuoyishengzaijian，jizijixunzhaogengjiaxingfuchukou；lingyifangmian，dajiayekeyichangshixiubu，genjushensuidegoutongyuxianghuzhichi，zhonggouhunyindeqianti，zaicizouxiangxingfu。buguanxuanzehezhonglumian，zuizhuyaodeshixixinqingtingxinlixiangsheng，yonggandemianduizhenshideqingganyuxuqiu。hunwaiqingyoukenengshiyicijihui，jiwomendailaizhongxinsikaohunyindehaojihui，erwojiangweizijichuangzaocongweiyouguodexingfu。

　　确定分手或是挽回

　　hunwaiqingtiantianchaojiananrenshuofenshouzenmeban，hunwaiqingshiyidanfasheng，yehuijihunyinchanshenghouzhongdefumianyingxiang。dangfufuzaochengpinfandizhengzhi，nanshengbiaoxianlefenshoujuexinshi，dajiamianlinzheyigezhongyaodejueding，jiushijianchibuxiezaicifenshou，huoshishizhewanjiuzheiyiduanshijudongdangzhijiandeguanxi。

　　1. 深入探究问题的本质

　　weilenengzuochumingzhidexuanze，shouxianshenrutanjiuhunwaiqinghechaojiagenbenyuanyin，lejiedaozhizheizhongqingkuangdegezhongyinsu。shiliangrengoutongbudaoweizaochenglehunyindekailie？huoshihunwaiqinglaiyuanyubicizhijiandebumanhechuguixingwei？

　　2. 重建信任和交流

　　jiaruniquedingwanhuihunyin，neiyangzhongjianxinrenhejiaoliushishifenzhongyaode。huafeishijianlingtingduifangganshouhexiangfa，tanchengdigongxiangzijideguandianyuxuqiu。genjuhezhuanyezixunguwenxiezuo，huoxukeyitigonglianghaodezhidaohezhichi。

　　3. 探寻婚姻的本质问题

　　hunwaiqingwangwangzhishihunyingengweishencengciwentibiaoxian。zaiwanhuihunyindeguochengdangzhong，yingdangyiqixunzhaohunyinlidebenzhiwenti，binggongtongfendouchuli。zheiyexuxuyaoshuangfanghaizuoziwofansi，zunzhongtarenhelijietaren。

　　决策的过程重要

　　quedingfenshouhuoshiwanhuishiyigefeichangjiankudeguanlijuece。danshi，zuizhongyaodejiushiyaozhongshizijidexiangfayijixuyao。jiaruhunwaiqinghezhengchaozaoyijinidailailewufachengshoudetongkuyubeiju，huoxushiqingkuangxiabaituozishen，jizijitanxungengjiajiankang、xingfukuailedeguanlian。danshi，jiarunijuedingjixuwanhuihunyin，neiyangjiuyaofuchuzhenzhengdenuli，tanxunjiejuewentifangshi。

　　hunwaiqingtiantianchaojiananrenshuofenshouzenmeban，buguannixuanzeshenmeyangde，jilaozuizhongyaodeshijizijiyujiatingzuochumingzhidexuanzeguanlijuece。youshihou，fenshoushichuliwentidezuijiatujing，weimeigerenchanshengcongtoukaishidehaojihui。eryoushi，wanhuihunyinhenyoukenengshiyigezhideqinfenlvcheng，weifufuzaicigoujianqigengjiaqiangdadeguanlianjiben。guanjianzaiyuyidingyaoduizijiguanlijuecejiandingxinnian，bingmaikaiwangqiandejiaobu。buguanjieguoruhe，womendouyinggaiweizijigenduifangliuchushineikongjian，xunzhaozishenzhenzhengdekuaile。