男友说没有做好结婚的打算让我很没安全感怎么办

　　fenshounanrenhaishouniliwushuomingshenme，fenshounanrenhaishouniliwubiaomingtaduiyufenshoudejuecejuedekuijiu，danshizheigekuijiuzhiyourangtasongchuquliwu，quewufaxiaochutaneixindequehan。zheileixinlijiankangzhuangkuanghenyoukenengshuomingtayiranguanzhuzhe，xiwangyongliwuqumibufenshouzaochengdeshanghai。danshi，zhishijiedaoliwubingbunenggaibianshiji，fenshoudejuecezaoyizuochu，liangrenzhijiandeganqingyeyincierliekai。yiner，fenshounanrenhaishouniliwu，gengduoshiyizhongxinlizhuangtaiweijiedexingshi，bingfeikeyiwanhuiaiqingdefangfa。

　　分手之后的礼物，意味什么

　　fenshounanrenhaishouniliwushuomingshenme，yongyouyiduanmeihaodelianaiguanlian，bingbushizongshinengquebaoliangrennengxiuchengzhengguo，youshihoufenshouyebukebimian。danshi，jiarufenshouyihou，nanrenrengranxuanzejiwosongliwu，zheizhongxingweidaodifanyingleshenmeni？keneng，dajiakeyicongyixiahaoduogejiaodulaisikao。

　　爱情的舍弃无法抹除

　　jiedaofenshounanrendeliwu，keyilijieweishitaduiguoqudeaiqingdeyizhonghuiyihejinian。wulunduiyuyiqijinglizuimeihaodehuiyi，haishiduinimenliangzhongjianyuzhongbutongdeqingganlianjie，tajiumeifaqingyiwangji。zheizhongaiqingdesheqibingfeiyishi，yigeliwuyexuchengweilebiaoshuzheiyifensheqiwufamochuzhiqingdefangfa。

　　内心深处的内疚悔恨

　　fenshounanrengenjusongliwu，yexushixiangyaozaifenshouzhihoudeshiwanghekunanzhong，tanxunyisixinlishangdejunheng。tanenggoujuedeneixinshenchudeneijiuhuihen，yishidaozijiduiaiqingdechuliquedingkenengyousuowucha。songliwushitachangshijianqingxinlizuiegandeyizhongfangshi，doushiweilejiejuetaduinizaochengdeshanghaierchuxiandeyizhongxingwei。

　　想得到宽容和重构关联

　　fenshounanrensongliwudelingyigehenyoukenengbiaoshushitaxiangdedaonikuanrong，bingchangshizhonggounimenzhijiandeganqing。tayexuyishidaolefenshouduinizaochengdeshanghai，xiangyaotongguosongliwuqumibuhehuifulianggerenzhijiansunhuaideqingganlianjie。zheizhongxingweikeyibeishiweitashituzhongjianxinrenheqinmiguanxideyizhongcuoshi，bingqieyeshitaduinidedutechudongbiaodafangshi。

　　社交压力和并不是

　　youshihou，fenshounanrenhaiyaojixusongliwukenengjiushiyinweishejiaoyalihuobingbushi。tayexupabierenduitadekanfayupingjia，weilebaozhangzishenzaibierenyanqiandepinpaixingxiang，jixusongliwurangni。zheizhongzuofahenyoukenengqianquezhenzhengyiyishangdeqinggantouru，gengduodishichuziyuhuanjingyaliyuduishejiaoquanzidegulv。

　　回忆与离别的掺杂情绪

　　zuizhong，fenshounanrensongliwuhaikenengshitazaihuiyiyudaobiebianyuanpaihuaidechanzaqingxu。tayexuailianzheyiwangdemeihaohuiyi，danyucitongshiyehenxiangrangniliuxiayigezhenguidejinianpin。zheizhongxingweijishiduiguoqudeyizhonghuailian，youshiduiweilaiyizhongdaobie，chengzaizheyizhongfuzahefenqideqingxu。

　　fenshounanrenhaishouniliwushuomingshenme，fenshounanrensongniyigeliwusuodaibiaodeyisigezhonggeyang，yaogenjushijiqingkuangyutadezhenzhengdongyinqulijie。buguanzenyang，zaiduiyuzheiyangdezhuangkuangshi，niyeyaosikaozijidetihuihexinyuan，yinweinizijideaiqingcaishizhongyaode。