挽回他的爱情，如何观察对方的心态问题？

　　fenshouquexinruandenanrenshishenmexinli，fenshouquexinruandenanrenshizhineixiezaiqinglvguanxiwanchenghou，qishineixinwufageshedenanshi。zheixierenzaiyuairenfenlideyucitongshi，youkenengbeiqingxuqianbansuoyingxiang，jingchangshenxianfuzadeganqingqingkuang。tamenyexuzaoshouzheqingganshangdezhengtuo，wufaqingyijiejueyiwangzuimeihaodehuiyi，huozheyouyuduiweilaideqidaieryouyubuding。zheileixintaiyoukenengshiyuanyuduishiqugandejiaolv，yeyoukenengshiduijimodezaodongbuan。fenshouquexinruandenanrensuoyudaodexinlizhuangtaijiongjing，zhangxianletamenduiganqingdezhenxihebushe，bingqieyeyushizhetaxuyaojinyibusikaohechengzhangkongjian。

　　fenshouhousuihouchanshengdefenlishiyichangqingganshangdedizhenzaihai，duiyunanxinglaishuo，youderenzaiyingduifenshoushibiaoxiandeguoduan，danyeyouyixierenchuxianlexintaishandexianxiang。weilenengshenrutanjiufenshouquexinruandenanrenshishenmexinli，dajiakeyicongyixiajigefangmianjinxingpouxi。

　　1. 失去的东西害怕

　　nanrenzaifenshouhou，tongchanghuijuededuilingyibandesangshiyouyizhongnongliedehaipa。tamendanxinsangshihuransuodailaidewuligan，danxinzaiyejianbudaozheibanhaodeguanxi，danxinjianglaideshenghuoyehuibiandeguduwunai。zheizhonghaiparangtamenchiyi，buyuanzhenzhenzhengzhengxuehuifangxia。

　　2. 因心寒而心怀追忆

　　fenshouhou，nanrenkenengchenjinzaiguoquzuimeihaodehuiyizhong，bingqieduishangxindeshijichanshengyizhongfantiao。tamenxuehuisikaocengjingdetianmisuiyue，zhuiyineiyiduanchongchizhezuiwennuandeganqingshi，xiwangnenggoubawozhuyisijiyuzaicihuidaocongqiandexingfukuaile。

　　3. 愧疚与猜疑

　　fenshouyihou，nanrenshichanghuizhuishuotazaiganqingzhongdebugou，sikaozijishifouyoushenmeyangdezerenhuocuowudaozhilezheigejieju。tamenhuihuaiyizijidepanduanliheshuiping，duigerenjiazhichanshengzhiyi。zheileizizecaiyihuiganraotamenzhenzhengmaijinxindelvtu。

　　4. 对未来茫然

　　fenshouhou，nanrenyaomianlinduiweilaikunhuohewuligan。tamenyexudanxinzishennengfouzaiduyudaoheshiderenairen，danxinzijishibushinenggouzaicishouhuoxingfu。zheileikebianxingnengrangtamenshenxianchiyidangzhong，buzhidaogairuhexuanzeyuxingwei。

　　5. 害怕面对孤独

　　fenshouhou，nanrentongchanghuizaoyuwuliganchongji。tamenxiguanyourenpeiheguanai，erturanshiquzheizhongjiezhu。duiyuyouxienanreneryan，mianduigudushiyizhongnanyichengshoudecuican，tamenningyuanbaocunyiduanwufazaijixufazhandeguanxi，yebuyuanyigerenmianduijimodeshiji。

　　fenshouquexinruandenanrenshishenmexinli，yishangjiushiyixiepouxifenshouquexinruandenanrenxinlishangdecengmian，zheigeguochengshifanzaerfengfude。nanrenzaifenshouhouxintaishan，shizheixierenzaiqinmiguanxizhongqingzhulezhenxinshiyihefuchulenuli，weichiyiduantanlianaiyaofuchuhendadejingliyuqinggan。yiner，fenshouzhihoudexintaishanbujinjinshiyizhongxintai，gengjiashiduilishiaiqingdeshenshendilianlianbushehehuiyi。nengkefufenshouzhihoudexintaishan，nanrenbixubuduanjinbuhediaozhenghaozijidexintai，xuehuimianduiyiwangchedijieshu，dakaizhanxindeshenghuozhangjie。