为什么我总爱上已婚男？如何才能走出这个怪圈？

　　fenshoushiyiduanganqingdejieshu，ernanrendejueqingshuipingzexianchulezijiduizheiduanganqingdebuzaiyi。yuefajueqingdenanren，yuehuishuomingtamenduiganqingdelengmobudongdezhenxi，yebaoluletamenduiganqingbufuzerenxintai。zheizhongzuofagengjiashiduibicidesunhai，lingrentongkuwanfen。fenshounanrenyuejueqingyueshuoming，ganqingzhongderenyidinggewaizhenxihebaohuhaoziji，busuibiantouru，gengyingjinliangxuanzemingbaiguanzhu、zhenxiheyuanyifuchuderenlaigongduyisheng。

　　nanrenzaifenshoushihoudejueqinggerenxingwei，wangwangshiganqingzoudaozuihoudemingxianbiaozhi。zheileijueqinggerenxingwei，jieluletamenduiyuganqingdelengmotaobizerenxintai。xiabianzhongdianweiraozheiyizhutizhankaitantao。

　　心灰意冷，情不会再存

　　fenshounanrenyuejueqingyueshuoming，tamenduiyuganqingtouruzaoyibuzaicunzai。jinglileshanghaipanbian，tadexinzaoyixiangsihuibanmiediao，meifazaitilingyifangtouruzhenchengdeqinggan。tamenxuanzeyongjueqingdexingshiwanbiguanlian，baaiqingpaozhinaohou，buhuizaiweibiciliuchuyisiwennuanheguanhuai。

　　无视他人体会，只顾着自己权益

　　jueqingnanrenzaifenshoushichangchangzhituzishendeliyi，wanquanwushibierendeganshou。tamenyexuyilengdan、fengcihuonaizhishanghaitarendefangshibiaodaziyidejueran，haobuzaiyiduifangshenglixinliqingganchengshoudeshanghai。zheileizisizilidegerenxingweixianshichuletamenquefaduitarendezunzhongheguanai。

　　推卸责任，不肯承担责任

　　jueqingnanrenjiefenshoulaiyangaizijizeren，bukendanfuganqingpoliehoudedaijia。tamenyexutiaoxuanwushengwuxidiliqu，bujiduifangyigejieshishuomingjiaodai；huoshijiangcuojiucuo，jiangzerenguiyinyulingyifang，congershuaiqingzijizeren。zheileituixiezerendejudongxianshichuletamenduiyuganqingdeqingshiheduizishendefuzerengandequefa。

　　情感沟通不到位，缺乏沟通的技巧

　　jueqingnanrenzaifenshouquanguochengzhongwangwangquefaqinggangoutongjiqiao，bunengyouxiaobiaodazijiqingganhelejieduifangdeqinggan。tamenyexucaiyonglengdankandai、yinmanshishizhenxianghuozhijiejiguangqiegeguanliandefangfa，bukeyituoshanchulibicizhijiandewentimaodun。zheileiquefagoutongdejiqiaobiaoxian，rangfenshoudeshangtonggengjiashenru。

　　缺乏走向成熟理解

　　jueqingnanrentongchangquefazouxiangchengshulijiedexintai。tamenyexuduibicideqingganyuxuqiushierbujian，zhiguanzhuneixindeyuwangbingmanzu。zaifenshouhuanjiezhong，tamenyexubiaoxianchulewuqingwuyi、kuangwangzidadengbugouchengshugerenxingwei，shiduifangxianrushenshendetongkuzhizhong。

　　汇总

　　fenshounanrenyuejueqingyueshuomingtamenduiyuganqingdezhongchengduhezerenxindequeshao。zheileijueqinggerenxingweijibicizaochenglejidadeshanghaitongchu。danzaiganqingzhong，womenyaozhenshizheixiemingbaiguanzhuhezhenxizijideren，yuanlijueqingerwuqingdinanren，shizijideganqinggengjiankanggengjiachengshu。