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　　1. 平平淡淡：以琐事逐渐

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　　2. 原谅与学会放下：耐心倾听

　　zaifenshouhoupobingdeguochengdangzhong，lingtingyulijieshihenzhongyaode。bicikenenghuiyouyixiejiedihezenghen，genjutanrandibiaodazijideganshou，heduifanggongxiangxinlidexiangfa，xianghuzhijianlingting，nenggoucujinjingshencengmianderenzhihexuehuifangxia。tongguojiaotan，shuangfangkeyimanmanfansiguoqucuowuhebugouchengshu，gaiguozixin，tongshiyeweiweilaifazhandaxiajichu。

　　3. 重构友情：扩张共同爱好

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　　4. 真心实意问候：拾起旧情

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　　5. 乐观面对：从心开始

　　fenshoupobingliaotianfangshideguanjianzaiyuleguanmiandui，congxinlizhujian。shuangfangbixubaochiyikeduiwaikaifang、baorongyujijidexintai，dakaixinfei，haowubaoliudidifenxiangzijineixinxiangfa。jinyoubicilijieyuzhichi，cainengzhujiangoujianqiyigexindehezuoyugoutongfangshi，maixianggengjiachengshuhejiankangderenjijiaowang。

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