你还在走心的时候 他已经开始预谋分手了

　　fenshoutaobidenanrenzhideshizaimianduiganqingnantideshihouxuanzetaobi、taobihuotaobiyiwudenanshi。tamenwangwanghuixuanzechenmowuyan、xiaotuihuotuichilaiyufangmianduifenshoudeshiji。zheileitaobigerenxingweijingchangshiyouyuhaipa、bugouchengshuhuoqueshaozixindengxinlizhangaibiaoxian。danshi，zheizhongzuofabudanshanghaidaoduifangganqing，yerangtamenzijiwufazhenzhengmianduihejiejuewenti。fenshoutaobidenanrenbixuyingyongmianduiziyideneixin，zhengshiwenti，bingxuehuiyichengxingengjiachengshudefangshichulifenshouyuxinhan。weiyouruci，tamencainengzuodaozhenzhengfazhan，bingzhaodaoxingfuhejiankangdeganqingguanlian。

　　分手逃避的男人

　　逃避实际，防止面对感情分手

　　zaiganqingzhong，renmentongchangyaomianlinfenshouzheiyangyizhongbeishangdeshiji。danshi，youyixienanrenxuanletaobi，bukenmianduifenshouzheiyishishi。tamenwangwanghuixuanzechenmowuyan、xiaotuihuotuichilaitaobidandanghemianduiganqingdejieshu。zheileitaobigerenxingwei，cushifenshoutaobidenanrenbianchengzheixiebukeyijijizhudongchuliwentihechengdanzerenderen。

　　内心害怕，欠缺完善与自信

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　　伤害别人，没法处理问题

　　fenshoutaobidenanrentongchangzhituzijidexiangfa，erhushileduifangganqing。tadetaobigerenxingweibudanshanghaidaoairendeneixin，yewufazhenzhengchuliwenti。taobizhishiyishidezhegai，erbingbushizhenzhengdechuli，zheizhongxunhuanxitongzhihuisunshangbicizhijiandeganqingherenke。

　　面对内心，迎来走向成熟英勇

　　fenshoutaobibingbunengjiejuewenti，zhihuiyanzhangtongchu。fenshoutaobidenanrenyingdangzhengquerenshizijineixinweizhidekongjuyubuan，jinerjiandingdimianduiganqingnanti。jinyouzouxiangchengshujiandingdimianduizijideduanbanhewenti，cainengzuodaozhenzhengjiejuekunraoziyideganqingnandian。

　　探寻发展和幸福的路

　　fenshoutaobidenanrenbixutongguofazhanziwogaibianlaizhuiqiuxingfu。tamenbixuxuehuimianduiziyideneixin，congzheidangzhongwajuechuzishencunzaidewentibingsouxunjiejuefangfa。genjufuzeren、chengxingoutongyuzhengquekandaiganqingnanti，fenshoutaobidenanrennenggouzhujianchengzhangweigengjiachengshu、gengneixinqiangdaderen，congerzhaodaoshuyuzijidexingfuyujiankangdeshenghuoganqingguanlian。

　　结束语

　　womenbuyinggaitaobishiji，mianduiganqingdejieshujiushiwomennanyibimiandeyibufen。fenshoutaobidenanrenbixujiandingdiyinglaishiji，zhengshizijideneixin，bingfuzhunuliqusikaowenti。weiyouruci，tamencainengbaituotaobidejiongjing，maijinshuyuzijizouxiangchengshuxingfukuaile。