美好的爱情和感情不是盲目的投入付出

　　fenshoushinanrenkulezhengmingshenme？yexuzheizhongzuofadaibiaolenanshideshangtongliduheneixindekuchu。nanrenchangbeichengzhiweiwanqiangdeyiweizhe，dandangfenshouwaishangdidangbuzhushi，tadeleishuiliudongchulai，budanyushizheduishiqudeaidebeishang，yeshiduiyiduanliekaideguanxidewukenaihedaobie。nanrendeliuleishiyizhongzhenshideqingganfaxie，yeshiyizhongyunvxingpingdengdebiaodafangshi。zheileiminganhejuewangshenhou，shinanrenneixinjidukewangaihebeirenlijiedehuhuan。

　　1. 脱下掩藏，展现内心

　　fenshoushinanrenkulezhengmingshenme，dangfenshoudeshihounanrentongku，zheijiuyiweizhetamentuoxialewanqiangdebiaomian，zhanxianleneixindezhenshitiyan。nanrenchangchanghuibeishehuiqidaiyaobaochilizhiheqiangda，yincidangtamenxuehuifangxiayanzang，liuluqingganderuanruoyimianshi，zheiyeshiduiganqingdezhenxinshiyihuifu。

　　2. 痛失所爱，情感的潮汐不断涌现

　　fenkaisuodailaideshiqugan，rangnanrendeneixinchaoxibuduanyongxian，dadongqinggandeshenchu。kuqishiyizhongqinggandefaxie，nanrendeleishuidaibiaozhetamenneixindekuchuhebeishang，zheiyeshiduiganqingdechengzhihuifu。

　　3. 表述内心的无助

　　nanrenliuleishi，wushengdechanshizhetamenbukewanhuiyihanwukenaihe。qishishiduiyiduanbukebimiandeguanxidejieshu，nanrendekuqishiduixianshidefalihuifu，tamenchengshoulesangshishenaidetongchu，yizhibuzhuneixindeqingganbaofa。

　　4. 打破传统的胎儿性别意识

　　nanrendeleishuidapolechuantongdetaierxingbieyishi，yanzhenglenanshiyeshiyouqinggandeyimian。liuleibingfeiquedian，ershiyizhongqingganshifangheqingxufaxie。nanrenkuqideqipoyanzhengletamenganyujienazijideneixin，buhuishouxianyutarenduinanrendekebanyinxiang。

　　5. 迈向新的起点

　　nanrenliuleideyishunjian，zeyiweizhetamenmangliuzhezishenzhongxinqihang，maixiangquanxindekaishi。kuqishiduiguoqudedaobie，youshiduiweilaifuwuchengnuo，nanrenzailiuleideqiantixia，tongyangzaizhongxindingyizijideshenghuozhuangtai，zhongxinxunzhaoshuyuzijidexingfukuailedelumian。

　　6. 充满勇气应对情感的喜怒无常

　　nanrenkuqiyanzhengletamenchongmanyongqimianduiqinggandexinuwuchang。bushisuoyounanrendouyongyuzhanxianzijideqinggan，dandangtamenxiangyaoyongyanleilaibiaoxianneixindefannaohebeishangshi，zheishiduiyuqinggandezhengmianhuida，doushiduizishenzhenchengdeqipozhanxian。

　　7. 传送对未来发展期望

　　nanrenliuleishi，tongyangzaichuandichuduiweilaifazhanqiwang。tongguokuqilaishifangneixindeqinggan，bingyonggandequmianduiziyidequedianyubuzu，jinerfazhanchengweigengjiajianqianghelizhideren。nanrendeleishuibingbushinuoruodezhuyaobiaoxian，ershiduiweilaidejiandingxinnian。

　　8. 寻找理解和支持

　　nanrenkuqishiweilexunqiulijiehezhichi。tadeyanleishiduitamenneixintongchudexuqiu，qidaizhouweiderenkeyilijieyuzhichitamen，jiyuweijieyuguli。nanrenliuleibingbushirouruo，zhishiduitamenqinggandexiangwangyuduiqinggandewendingxuanxie。

　　fenshoushinanrenkulezhengmingshenme，fenshoudeshihounanrentongku，zheiyeshineixinzuishenchuqinggandexianchu，gengshiduisangshishenaidetongkudezhenshibiaoda。tadeleishuibingfeinuoruodedaibiao，zhishiduilianaijinglishenkeganshouhetuibiandeyibufen。kuqibujinjinshishifangchulaiqinggandexingshi，gengjiashizhanxiannanrenzhenshiyuminganmianjiyu。