分手后如何跟前男友恢复联系?

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　　重新思考，寻找解决方案

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　　重建信任，修复关系

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　　追寻幸福，超过痛苦

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　　fenshouzhaorenquanhe，xunqiufenshouzhihoudequanhejuefeiyishi，taxuyaodajiayongqiyujianchibuxie。danshi，zaitongkuzhong，dajiabuyaoqingyifangqiqidai，yidingyaoweizijiyuaiqingerfendou。buguanzuihoujieguoruhe，renqingyuchulifenshouguochengdexintaishenghuozhongdemaodun，womendoukeyicongzheidangzhongfazhan，bingqieweiweilaidexingfudiandingjichu。yinci，bubipanghuang，quxunqiuquanhe，quzhaoxunzijideaiqing。