疯狂婚礼季，新人婚礼筹备常犯的“致命”错误

　　gennvpengyoufenshouzijihennanshouxiangfuhezenmeban，zaiganqingzhongjingliguofenshou，dangranhuijuedebushufuyutongku。keshi，henduoshihoubaituobuleduiairensinianzhiqing，qipanzaicifuhe。ruguonimenzhengchuzaizheileinijingzhong，buyaojizhexingwei。zuixian，bixupingjingxialai，shuliziyideganshouhexiangfa。xiamian，heduifangkaizhanchengxinerwanshandegoutongjiaoliu，biaoshuneixindeshijiganjuegenxinyuan。yucitongshi，yaotigaozijidegerensuzhiheyouhuoli，nengrangduifangzaicijuedenengxiyin。zuizhuyaodeshi，yaojieshouxianshibinglijieduifangdejuece，buguanjieguoruhe，douxuyaomingbaizishenjiazhiyuxingfubuyilaitaren。

　　失去爱的苦楚

　　gennvpengyoufenshouzijihennanshouxiangfuhezenmeban，dangyunvpengyoufenshouhou，zishenyidinghuijuedeshifennanshou，shiquhetahuandudemeihaohuiyi，zaiyewufaxiangyouneileiqinmiwujianyuwennuan。zheizhongtongjingchanghuilingrennanyishihuai，xiangyaozhongxinfuhebianchengzuikaishidelingyiban。neiyang，dangwoxianrutongkuzhizhongshi，yingdangzenmemianduiyuchulizheiyiqingkuangni？

　　思考内心

　　zuixian，jinliangmanxialaifanshengzijineixinyinmidezhenshitiyan。wenziji，shizhenhaixihuanta，youhuozheshiyouyusangshiergandaonanguo？mingquezijideqingxuzhenshicunzai，bingbushiyinweisangshierhaipakongjuyutongku。jinyouzhenzhengmingbaizijideguandian，cainengzuodaolizhidequeding。

　　理智沟通交流

　　ruguoshizaixuyaofuhe，yuqianrennvyoukaizhanlizhierwanshandegoutongjiaoliushizhiguanzhongyaodeyibu。fangzhiqingxuhuazhengchaohezeguai，ershiyongkeguanyuzunzhongweizaiti，tanrandibiaodazijineixinniantou。lingtingbierendeganshou，jiyubicizhijiankongjianheshijian，bawentibaidaozhuomianshangkaizhanzhenchengdeduitan。

　　个人提升

　　zaizhuiqiufuhedeguochengdangzhong，buyaobasuoyoudezhuanzhulidouyongzaibierenshenshang，erhushilenidegerenfazhan。zaixuexizhongxindejineng、fazhanxingquaihao、gaishanzijideshentijiankangdengxingshi，tigaozijidegerensuzhiheyouhuoli。zheiyangbujinnengrangzijigengjiazixinyudandu，yetigaolefuhechenggongdekenengxing。

　　面对现实

　　danshi，fuhebingbuyidingshikeyishixiande，henduoshihoubixumianduixianshi。bulunshiyouyuqianrennvyoubuhuizaiduinichanshengaiqing，huoshinimenbicideniantouyijinggaibian，jieshouxianshishizhongyaodeyibu。jinguanzheikenengdailaizaicitongchuhebeishang，danshiwomenxuyaoxuehuifangshou，bingxiangxinweilailangsonghuiyougenghaodejiyuherenxiangfeng。

　　追求个人幸福

　　zuihou，buguanfuheshifou，womendouyaozhuiqiuzijideaiqing。ziyideneixinqingkuangyukuailebugaiwanquanyilaiyutaren。yuqishuobuduanqianxinwankuwanliuyiduanguanxi，bibushanggengjijizhudongdizhuiqiugerenmubiaohelixiang，tigaozijideshenghuozhiliang，suzaogengjiajiankangrenjijiaowang。

　　汇总

　　gennvpengyoufenshouzijihennanshouxiangfuhezenmeban，yingduifenshouerqidaifuhedeyidananti，womenyinggaishenshizijideneixin、kaizhanqingxingdegoutongjiaoliu、qinfengerentisheng、mianduixianshihezhuiqiugerenxingfu。buguanjieguoruhe，weichijijiheleguandexintai，jianxinzijijianghuiyinglaigengmeihaodemingtian。jilao，xingfukuailezaiyuzijideneixin，erfeiqujueyutaren。