男人的理想女友拥有什么特质？

　　gennvpengyoufenshouzijihennanshouxiangfuhezenmeban，danghenvyoufenshouhou，neixinchongchizheshangxinhetongku，querengranhuaizhefuhedexiangwang。zheishi，bixulengjingfenxihequanmianlejiecunzaidewenti，congzishenchufaxunzhaojiejuefangan。henvyouzhenchenggoutongjiaoliu，chengxinbiaoshuneixindekuchuyuduifuhedexiangwang，bingqieyeyinglijieduifangdejuece。ciwai，ziwofansiyugaijin，tishengziwojiazhiyusuyang，chengxianzuihaodeziji，yexunengniuzhuanjumian，zhonghuoxingfukuaile。

　　1. 应对分手的外伤

　　gennvpengyoufenshouzijihennanshouxiangfuhezenmeban，fenshouhou，yijujuershunengxiangdedaobieyulibie，shentoudaoxintou，shizijishengantongkuyubushufu。yiqianzuimeihaodehuiyicishixiangdaogebanshenshendicitengneixin，rangrenchenzuiyutongkudemiwuzhizhong。mianduizheiyangdewaishang，bixujizijiyixieshijianyukongjianlaigenghaodishiyingshiji，rangzijidexinqinghuodefaxieheshifang。qingtuyuhaopengyouhuozhejiaren，genjubiaoshuneixindekuchu，nenggoujieyuekaizhi，binghuodetamendezhichihelijie。

　　2. 深度思考与自我反思

　　zaifenshouhou，shendusikaoshibukehuoquede。zhuiyiyufenxibicizhijianlidefenqidianhuocunzaidewenti，zhengquerenshizijiyijishuangfangdequexianheguoshi。kaizhanziwofansi，sikaoziyideyantanjuzhi，tanxunkenengcunzaidewenti，bingbuduanlaigaibian、fazhan。ciwai，yidingyaobaochiduifangdanduhezizhu，zhongshitaqueding，buyaoguofenzhizheyufuhedexiangfa。

　　3. 真诚沟通与情绪表达

　　dangxintaizhujianningjinghou，keyixuanzehenvyoukaizhanzhenchengdejiaoliu。zunzhaogoutongjiaoliudebiaozhun，tanrandibiaoshuneixindexiangfaheganshou。bubiyayiganqingxu，shidangbiaodazijitongkuyuxiangfuhedexinyuan，danshiyeyaozhongshibierendeganshouhequeding。jiduifangxinlaiyukongjian，lingtingtadeganshouyuxuqiu，shenrutantaoshifouyoukenenghehaoruchu。zheigeguochengxuyaoreqingheconghui，baochilizhihelixing，buyaoqiangxingposhilingyifangzuochujueding。

　　4. 个人提升和提升自己

　　fenshouhou，tishengzijiyuelaiyueyouweizhongyao。guanxinbenrenzuibenzhidefazhanqushiyuchengzhang，suzaogerenxingquaihao，tuokuanzijideshiyeheyanjie。toushengongzuozhong、xuexijixiuxianhuodong，tishenggerennengliyujiazhi。zhanshichufenfaxiangshangtaiduhefengcai，bianchenggenghaodeziji，zheibudannengxiyintarendezhuyi，yekeyirangzijigengjiazixinyudadao。

　　5. 面对现实和放下过去

　　zuihou，bulunshifoufuhequdechenggong，douyidingyaomianduixianshihefangxiaguoqu。renshengdaoluhuibuletou，wubixiangqianzou。bulunshizaiciyigerendeshenghuo，huoshitanxunxindeganqing，douyaofangxiaguoqudeqingxufudan，congtoukaishi。yaodongdeshifangchulaineixindezenghenyutongku，jijizhudongxiangqiantuijin。jinyoufangxiaguoqu，cainengjixindexingfudakaixinfei，yinglaimeihaoweilaidelailin。

　　gennvpengyoufenshouzijihennanshouxiangfuhezenmeban，tongguoyishangdeliucheng，xiwangninengjiejuehaofenshouzhihoudeyihuo，erqiexunzhaoshuyuzijidexingfu。jilao，yiqiedouhuiguoqu，zhongshizijideweixiao，renshengdaolucainengzaicijingcaifencheng。